Ngenxa yokuthi wonke umuntu uyisimo esiphilayo sokuphila, unesisusa esithandwayo - isifiso sokwenza, isifiso semvelo. Isibonelo, ungakwazi ukuletha usana oluthatha isithakazelo zonke izinto eziza ngaphansi kwesandla sakhe bese zibeka emlonyeni wakhe, ngakho-ke uyazi umhlaba.
Lokhu kusikisela ukuthi isisusa singenasisekelo, futhi isisusa esihlotshaniswa nesilungiselelo esilitshe (kusuka eminyakeni engaba neminyaka emithathu) siyingxenye yokufunda: ingane kuqala ithonywe ngabazali, bese isikole. Umsebenzi wokuqondisa wezisusa kuncike ikakhulukazi emvelweni. Ama-Amazons, ukukhulisa izingane zabo ngendlela ehluke ngokuphelele kunabaseYurophu. Isibonelo, kubalulekile kumuntu omncane waseNdiya ukuthi afunde ukubhukuda nokwazi izitshalo ezinobuthi, futhi izingane zethu zinyanyiswa zibe yiziphi izingozi ezizilindelwe zona, isibonelo, ekhaya noma emgwaqweni.
Izindlela zokugqugquzela
Abazali kufanele bakhuthaze, hhayi ukuphoqelela izingane ukuba zenze! Eqinisweni, wonke umntwana ngokwakhe uthola isiqondiso emisebenzini yabo, nakuba abazali bengakwazi ukuphatha le nqubo, bamnike ukwenza okuthile okuthakazelisayo nokuthakazelisayo. Ngakho-ke, abazali kufanele basebenzise ilukuluku lemvelo yengane, isifiso sakhe sokufunda okuthile nokukhuthaza ingane ukuba yenze okuthile! Kunezindlela ezimbili zokuthola ingane ukuba yenze noma yini.
Okokuqala
Kungenxa yokudala ukuntuleka kokuthile (okuthile okumele ususe, ukufihla, ukufihla, ukukhawulela). Akudingeki ukuthi kusho into embi. Izenzo zengane zihlale zilinganiselwe, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo abazali bakhombisa ngesibonelo sabo ukuthi lezi zimingcele zingadluliselwa kanjani. Kumelwe kuthiwa ukuthi izazi ze-psychologist zinikeza lokhu ukubunjwa okunzima, uma ususa ukudla kumntanakho, uzomenza azithathele esiqandisini. Lokhu kushukunyiswa kuhlobene nokufisa imiphumela, okuyiyona ingane engaboni ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi yibaphi abazali abangakwazi ukuqinisa ngezenzo zabo eziqondile, isibonelo, ukuhlela imincintiswano yemidlalo phakathi kwabazali nezingane, abazalwane nodade, ingane yabo nabangane bakhe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abazali kufanele babonise ingane ukuthi ingahamba kanjani emingcele evamile, isibonelo, ukuze ixazululwe ngokuzenzakalelayo umsebenzi wesikole noma ufunde ukudlala kunoma iyiphi insimbi yomculo.
Indlela yesibili ebaluleke kakhulu yokugqugquzela idumiso. Izingane, abazali babo abavame ukuzidumisa ngemiphumela etholakalayo, ngokuvamile babonisa isifiso esikhulu sokufunda nokufeza okuthile, futhi ukuhlambalaza okuvamile ngokuvamile kungonakalisa isifiso somntwana sokwenza okuthile. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ingane idunyiswe ngobuqotho futhi ilungile.
Yini edingekayo ukukhuthaza
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuvusa umsebenzi obhekene nengane. Cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi ingane izama ukulingisa abantu abadala. Ezimweni ezinjalo, isisusa kumele sikwazi ukuqondiswa emsebenzini nokuqinisa amakhono. Ngaphezu kwalokho, indima enkulu idlala ngokuqhubekayo. Yonke imisebenzi nemithwalo yemfanelo ingane ayithathile, kumele yenziwe njalo futhi ngokuzithandela. Kuyinto enomphela evumela ingane ukuba izwe iphephile.