Sonke sifuna ukuqonda, ubudlelwane obethembayo. Ukuphumelela yedwa, okungekho noyedwa ozowabelana - lena yiyona "eyamahloni" okubabayo kuphela umuntu angayithola. Usizi olungabikho muntu okufanele alugudle luwumthwalo ovelele kakhulu. Yingakho ubuhlobo obuseduze nobungane phakathi kwabantu buyaziswa kakhulu.
Kodwa ekuphishekeleni ubudlelwane obusondelene nabangane obuseduze, ungakwazi futhi uhlupheke - phakathi kwabantu khona kukhona ubudlelwane obusondeza nje ngokuthi "eduze". Abangane, abangane nezintombi, izinyoka ezikanye nabo - noma yini engenzeka.
Futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nesitha esikhulu kakhulu singakujabulela usizi lwakho ukuze umuntu athole ukwesekwa noma "ukukhalwa" okulinde isikhathi eside ukuze aphume kweso simo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, umngane osondelene naye obusana naye kusukela ebuntwaneni - unganikeli lokho kufudumele nokusekelwa okudingekile ...
Ubani ozokwakha?
Ubudlelwano, ngokungavamile, kwakha. Ngokuhamba kancane nangokuhlelekile. Yiqiniso, kubonakala kunesidingo - "ukwakha", ukubala, uma umphumela kufanele ube nobuhlobo obuseduze nobungane phakathi kwabantu. Kodwa empeleni, akukho lutho olungokwemvelo kulokhu - ngandlela-thile sakha umbuthano wokuxhumana, ake umuntu oyedwa akhulume nathi futhi agweme abanye.
Ukulindela kwethu
Ngena ebuhlotsheni yilokho esikudingayo - kubonakala sengathi akukho lutho olulula. Nokho, sidinga nsuku zonke (ngisho nehora) ehlukile. Okuthiwa:
- ukwesekwa
- ukuvunywa kwezenzo zethu
- ukunakekela
- ngesikhathi "ukukhahlela"
- induduzo
- isithakazelo kithi
- isithakazelo sethu komunye umuntu
- ulwazi olusha
- ukuchitha isikhathi okungavamile.
Ukwakha ubuhlobo obuseduze nobungane phakathi kwabantu yisayensi yonke. Kufanele sikhulume nobani, futhi, ngokuphambene nalokho, kudingeka 'sigcine amehlo ethu evulekile'? Ake sizame ukuhamba ngezigaba eziyinhloko zabantu obajwayele okuvela kuwo
Ozakwethu. Sizama ukugcina ubudlelwane obuseduze nobungane nabo, kodwa phakathi kwabantu emsebenzini, ubudlelwane buvame ukukhiqizwa ngokukhiqizwa kunokuba zifudumele. Ngokushesha nje lapho isabelo "sokufudumala" nokuhlangana "okunomsoco" wetiyi nekhofi kuyoba mkhulu kunesixazululo sezinkinga zokukhiqiza - inkampani ingababili ichithe izisebenzi ezikhulumayo, futhi ngokuvamile ingayeki.
Abomdabu. Ngeshwa, kunezimo ezingavamile uma ubudlelwano obuseduze nobungane bukhona phakathi kwabantu abahlobene negazi. Bacabanga ukuthi "ngubani okufanele abe" hhayi nje umama nobaba kuphela, kodwa nabaphandane, okakazikazi, ugogo nabazukulu ... Futhi ngezikhathi ezithile uNkulunkulu unikeza ukuhlakanipha kwezihlobo zegazi ukuze athathe isizwe esithandekayo yilowo muntu, hhayi nge i-prism yemibono yabo. Futhi lapho, lapho amafantasi ashintshela khona ngokoqobo, ngokubanzi, mayelana nobuhlobo obuseduze noma nobungane awungahambi.
Abajwayele ukungazi. Izihambi ezihamba phambili nabantu abathandekayo bahlangana kaningi. Uhambo oluhlanganyelwe lokuphumula, indawo yokulala emakamelweni okugumbana ehotela, ukudluliselwa isikhathi eside ebhasi elingaphakathi noma esitimeleni, ngisho-konke lokhu kuyisizathu esihle sokuhlangana. Noma kunjalo, ungacasuli ukuthi kwezinye izimo uke waba nokuxoxa okuthakazelisayo, kodwa kwabanye - cha. Ekhaya, endaweni ekhululekile futhi ekhululekile, ungase ungafuni ukuqhubeka owaziyo. Intshisekelo kwabanye abantu abahambahambayo iyafa ngokulingana nebanga elisele edolobheni lakubo - futhi lokhu kuvamile. Noma kunjalo, kunoma yikuphi ukubusa kunendawo yokuthakazelisa, kodwa ukungafani okungalindelekile.
Abangane bezingani. Lesi sigaba sabangane sithande kakhulu kubantu abajwayele ukujwayela. Embuthaneni jikelele, wena, okokuqala, ngokujwayelekile uthola abantu abasha, futhi okwesibili - ungakhetha kusuka enombolweni enkulu yabantu obathanda ngempela. Futhi nabantu abanjalo abasondelene kakhulu, ubudlelwane obufudumele bokusiza kanye nokuqonda kungabanjwa. Abangane bethu ngezinye izikhathi bayazi nathi futhi hhayi eceleni. Umngane omusha kule ndaba uhle kunabokudala ababili. Akakaze azwe amahlaya wakho we "branded" futhi azange azame isidlo "sokuthengisa". Njengawe - hhayi nokuqaphela impilo yakhe, esidlule, amacala. Futhi lokhu kuyisizathu esihle sokubuthana "imihlangano" yetiye nokukhuluma nge-tete-a-tete!
Abangane bokungane. Ngeshwa, asikho nje ukukhula - siyashintsha. Njengoba uneminyaka yobudala, izithakazelo ezintsha, imikhuba, nemibono mayelana nokuphila kuyashintsha. Ngakho, ubuhlobo no-Masha kusukela enkulisa №123 bobabili bobabili baqhubeke, kodwa esiteshini salo, futhi bayeke "ngokungadingekile." Phela, uma inhloso nesisekelo sokuba nobuhlobo obunjalo ukukhumbula izikhathi ezindala ngezikhathi ezithile, uzophinde ufune ukuhlangana kanye ngonyaka. Futhi akukho buhlobo obungenakufudumala, nobungane futhi bugcwele, uma okungaphezu kwalokho ungahlanganisi.
Bonke abangane bahle - khetha ukunambitheka!
Bonke abangane bahlukaniswe waba abangane nabangane bangaphambili nabasasa. Ngakho-ke, ukusebenzelana isikhathi eside nomuntu, ngokushesha noma kamuva kufanele ukhethe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubuhlobo buhlala "njengalokho" - isibonelo, nobungane, ngokuyisisekelo, noma ukuphumula. Noma, uma kukhona amaphuzu othintana naye, ungawadlulisela esigabeni esiseduze nobungane. Yiqiniso, cishe kuzodingeka usebenze, uqaphele futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uphonsa "amacembe abukhali", uzijabulisa wena futhi unesithakazelo esiqotho kumuntu.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuvumela izinto zihambe zodwa, kulula kakhulu ukuthola izintombi-iziqhwaga zezintombi kanye nezintombi. Kodwa awukwazi ukwakha ubuhlobo obuseduze nabo nabo ...