Lo mbuzo uphazamiseka emindenini eminingi, lapho lo muntu engatholi ukwesekwa kwezimali futhi yena, ngezandla eziboshwe, ulele embhedeni izinsuku. Futhi ngisho nomunwe awunamunwe, okwakungashintsha i-pun ekhona emndenini, ngaleyo ndlela yamukele indima yomuntu omndeni ohloniphekile, okwazi ukuwuthola. Emikhayeni enjalo, umkami akhishwe nje kuphela yindlu, kodwa futhi, njengamthetho, usebenza emisebenzini emibili emithathu. Kanjalo ukukhohlwa ngokuphelele ngawe. Isimo akusobala nakancane ngoba ukuphenduka kwezehlakalo kude kunabo bonke abesifazane abangakwazi. Abaningi bavele baphelelwe inhliziyo, bangaboni ukuphuma kuleso simo. Futhi ngenxa yalokhu, impilo yomndeni ihlanganiswe embukisweni wezingxabano nezingxabano. Futhi ingabe lokhu kuyingxenye yobuhlobo obuvamile? Hlala ngomuzwa ohlala njalo wokuthi wena wedwa. Ungazizwa uxhaswa owesilisa futhi ngaleyo ndlela ujikeleze njenge-squirrel esesondo, ucindezela ama-juice wokugcina ngokukhohlwa ngokuphelele ukuthi ungowesifazane. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, bonke balele futhi bavuke inkinga ekhululekile mayelana nokuthi benzeni uma indoda ingenayo umndeni? Futhi lokhu kungaqhubeka isikhathi esingakanani?
Kuleso simo esingavamile, kubalulekile ukuthi ukhulume nendoda futhi uzama ukumchazela kuzo zonke izindlela ezingenakwenzeka futhi ezingenakwenzeka ukungaqondi kahle impilo yomndeni nokusekelwa kwezimali emndenini. Zama ukuletha izibonelo eziningi zokuphila ngangokunokwenzeka, isibonelo, amadoda amantombazane angagcini ekhaya, kodwa azuze. Mtshele ukuthi uyinhloko yomndeni futhi kuxhomeke kuye okuningi. Ukuthi usuvele usuke ukhathele nje kokubili ngokuziphatha nangokomzimba kukho konke lokhu futhi nje ufuna ukushintsha isimo, ukuzwa, ukusekela nokugcinwa. Kodwa lokhu kungokwesifazane kunoma yimuphi ubudala ngakho akuyona into ebalulekile. Uma engayilaleli izicelo zakho nezicelo, okungenani uguqule isimo, zama ukushintsha okuthile ngendlela yokucindezeleka kwengqondo ngqo kuye. Shintsha isimo sakho sengqondo ngokusebenzisa ukungayinaki ngokuphelele. Ngemuva kwalokho, ngaphambi kokuthi agqoke futhi agqoke, wayenemali, ngokutholwa ngokuqondile nomsebenzi wakho futhi wayichitha ngezidingo zakho. Yeka konke lokhu - ulethe imali yakhe ngokugcwele. Ufuna into entsha, ubhiya noma ugwayi, ukubeka umbuzo ngokucacile: "Sithandwa sami, ingabe wenze imali ngalokhu?". Kuthunyelwe esitolo "ukhilimu omuncu nesinkwa", kudinga i-akhawunti yokuchitha, ukuhoxiswa, kuyilapho konke, konke ukushintsha, ekuthengeni. Amadoda, njengokungahle aphuze, aphuka futhi aqhubekele ekucabangeni ngekusasa laso. Ungambonisi impilo, kodwa i-raspberries yangempela. Yiqiniso, uma ungenayo izingane, "amafu amnyama ombuso womndeni awuningi kakhulu" aye aqina kakhulu, ngaphezu kwekhanda lakho. Kodwa-ke, uma unomntwana futhi ungenaye, uNkulunkulu ngokwakhe wayala ukuthi indoda evilaphayo ishintshe. Akekho izingane - mbuze umbuzo: "Sizokwenzenjani uma umndeni wethu uphinde ugcwalise, siwugcina kanjani ingane nokuthi yini okufanele siphile?" Kakade kakade lapha kusobala ukuthi akabaleki, futhi ungabaleki impendulo yombuzo obhekene nawe.
Uma engumuntu ohlala ekhaya, hhayi umuntu oxhumana naye futhi engazi ukuthi angasungula kanjani oxhumana nabo nabantu, azenzele yena konke. Funa umsebenzi wakhe, ngokusebenzisa izikhangiso, cela abangani bakho futhi ngenxa yalokho uyifake ngaphansi kwekhasi lakho "ku-saucer, nomngcele obomvana." Ufulathela isiphakamiso sakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kubonakala kungenangqondo futhi bekungekho kunzima kuwe, mnike i-ultimatum. Ngemuva kwalokho, njengoba kwaziwa, ngubani ofuna, uthola njalo. Mnike ekufuneni umsebenzi isikhathi esithile emva kwalokho, umtshele ukuthi uzothatha izinyathelo ezinkulu futhi ushintshe konke ngokuphelele. Uma ethanda wena futhi okungenani amaphesenti ambalwa uyazisa umndeni, ngicabanga ukuthi umphumela ngeke ube yisikhathi eside. Vele unikeze ukusheshisa okuhle nokunzima ngokusheshisa ngokuqondile.
Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba ulungele iqiniso lokuthi umane nje wenqabe ukwehlisa. Futhi uma ungafuni ukumbona engxenyeni yomama wendlu, kuzodingeka usebenzise izinyathelo ezimbi - lokhu kungukuhlukana komshado wakho. Ngoba uma umuntu "oyisithulu futhi oyimpumputhe," futhi engayiqondi konke okuyinkimbinkimbi yalesi simo, ngisho nangomzuzu ngaphandle kokuzama ukukuqonda njengowesifazane, amazwi kanye nokunyakaza okungeziwe ngeke kube kuhle. Ukuhlala, ukulinda isimangaliso kungaba iminyaka, futhi ungaboni umphumela ebusweni. Ngendlela, kungenzeka ukuthi uzosuka endaweni, uma nje kuphela, ukuze nje ungaboni usuku nosuku bese uhlala isikhathi esifushane endaweni ethile. Futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, vele ubuyele esimweni saso sokuqala (sofa), uphikelele ukuthi umsebenzi awuthandanga nje futhi akamvumeli ukuba aveze yena njengomuntu. Ngakho lapha kufanele wenze imiphumela emithathu yokuqala. Qhubeka ukubeka ingcindezi kuye, ngaleyo ndlela, ukuthungatha izinzwa zakhe nokuchitha impilo yakhe. Esikhathini sesibili, yonke indlu, kuhlanganise nokupheka, kufanele ibeke emahlombe akhe. Akazi ukuthi unjani-unesikhathi esiningi sokuthenga, uthenge iqoqo lezincwadi zokupheka futhi uvumele afunde. Bheka isikhathi futhi uphazamise amakhono akhe okupheka.
Futhi ekugcineni, esimweni esilandelayo, thola enye indoda. Kungani uthanda lokhu - uvila futhi uvila. Indoda kumele isekele umndeni, hhayi ngokuphambene nalokho. Futhi yilo kuphela igama elithi "umuntu" - futhi akukho okunye okunye. Vele uphendule umbuzo wempendulo: "Uyazi ukuthi ngubani u-gigolo?". Iyaphendulwa, futhi manje njengesiphetho sokuba ngiqaphele ukuthi ngaphansi kwalesi siqalo umbusisiwe wakho uyawuthola. Vumela ngokushesha ukuthi unikeze impendulo efanele kumbuzo wesibili: "Kuthiwani uma le ndoda ingenayo umndeni?". Akudingeki ukuba ubekezelele futhi uqhubeke ulwa njengenhlanzi eqhweni, uzama ukunikeza umndeni futhi ugcine ngesikhathi esifanayo wonke umyeni onganaki.