Ngesikhathi sihlangana, konke kuhle. Hhayi, mhlawumbe ungaphelele, kodwa, kunoma yikuphi, wonke umuntu uzama ukubukeka ngokufanele, uzibonakalisa ohlangothini olungcono kakhulu. Kodwa lokhu kuphazamiseka kwamandla akukwazi ukuhlala kuze kube phakade, futhi ngokushesha noma kamuva sixabana. Ukuphikisana phakathi kwabathandekayo kuhluke ekuxabaneni komfazi nomyeni wakhe, ngoba ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane, ukubonakaliswa kwabo kuxhomeke kakhulu kunoma yiliphi izinga. Ukuphikisana ngesikhathi se-candy-bouquet kuyinto enhle futhi enhle, umshado wabashadwana abasanda kushada ngesikhathi sezinyosi kufana nesiphepho sasehlobo - esiqhwaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqha, esilandelayo, esilandelayo futhi sinobuhle kakhulu futhi sinhle kakhulu. Ukungqubuzana phakathi komama wengane yakhe no "daddy" ogijimile kuyimbabazi, njenge-ashberry ebusika; Noma kunjalo, lokhu ukunambitheka nakho kuyathandeka kumuntu onenkinga ye-astringency.
Kungani siphikisana?
Ingabe akunakwenzeka ngempela ukuvumelana ngazo zonke izici zokuphila kanye nhlobo, futhi uyeka ukungcola nokuyizinengiso ukuze uthole ubuhlobo? Kuvela, cha. Yonke impilo ihambelana nokushintsha, nokuthi umndeni njengemvelo yayisaphila, ibuye ishintshe ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ubuhlobo phakathi kowesilisa nowesifazane busoze buyeke esiteji esisodwa, ngakho ukuphikisana nomyeni wakhe kuyimvelo.
Akukho lutho olumangalisa ukuxabana. Siphikisana ngokuqondile ngoba hhayi kuphela izimo ezishintshayo, kodwa futhi nemingcele yethu. Sishintsha indima futhi sikhule esimweni senhlalakahle, futhi sisabela ekushintsheni hhayi ngokwethu - kuphela kuphela ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ngakho-ke, ngaphakathi komndeni kubaluleke kakhulu, emva kokushintsha kwenguquko "yangaphandle," ukwakha imingcele, ukucacisa imisebenzi kanye nezicelo zezwi komunye nomunye. Futhi akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi kungenziwa kusukela okokuqala futhi kungenabuhlungu - kaningi ngokuphambene nalokho.
Ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane, ukuxabana nomyeni noma umfazi akuyona ithuba lokuqeda ubudlelwano. Njengoba ukuphila kukhululekile kakhulu, futhi uthando lusenhliziyweni. Futhi uma bephinde babumbane nezingane, kufanelekile ukucabanga ngokuxazulula izingxabano.
Ukuhlupheka noma ukuhlupheka?
Sichitha isikhathi esiningi ngomunye nomunye. Futhi konke okusizungezile kungase kube yisizathu sokuphikisana - kusuka kuzimonyo ezisele etafuleni ekhishini - i-nail polish noma i-remover-make-up, kumasokisi ahlakazekile noma isinkwa esiqhekekile. Siphila eceleni, hhayi njalo sinemiqondo efanayo mayelana nokuhlanzeka, mayelana nombala ofanele wekhalenda endlini yokugezela ...
Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma siqonde leli qiniso elivamile, kuyadingeka kusengaphambili, ukukhumbula izingxabano ezingase kwenzeke, ukuvuma ukuthi noma yikuphi ukuzwa okubi kuyokwenza ngokushesha (noma cishe masinyane) kuboniswe. Lokhu kufanele kube yinto evamile yokuhlala ndawonye. Ngemuva kwalokho, sesivele "sibhekene" - emsebenzini nasenkulisa, ukusuka lapho uthatha khona ingane, esitolo nakwezokuthutha. Futhi lapho kufanele sibe nokubekezela, ukuqonda, njengokuzothula ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngaphandle kwalokho, sonke isikhathi sizokwenzeka empini engapheli.
Ekhaya akukhona nje ukubekezela, kodwa kuyingozi. Emva kwakho konke, uma bobabili bekhuthazela isikhathi eside, ngesikhathi esibucayi (lapho kuphakanyiswa izimangalo ezithile noma uma kwenzeka ukukhishwa okukhulu) konke kuphukile. Futhi ngokuqala ngxabano "mayelana nokulimala kwesiqubuthu esingenakunyakaziswa", ungamangali ukuthi ekugcineni kokubili kokubili waya kubantu futhi izicelo zaqala ezingeni "wonakalisa impilo yami yonke". Ngempela, kokubili ebuhlotsheni, indoda nowesifazane, ukuxabana nomyeni noma umfazi kuqala ngezinhloso ezinhle.
Indlela yokwenza ngesikhathi sokuphikisana - indlela enhle
Ngisho nangaphambi kokuxabana, vumela ukuba uzizwe ucindezelwe ulaka, imizwa ekhanyayo futhi engathandeki kumlingani wakho. Phela, zonke izihlobo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane zithinta inkinga eyinkimbinkimbi, okusho ukuthi ukuphikisana nomyeni kungenakugwema. Ukuvumela isitimela phansi ngesikhathi esifanayo (ngokulahlekelwa okuncane) ukuhoxisa empini - yilokho indlela yokwenza "i-guerrilla yasekhaya" njenge-pendulum izovumela.
Ngakho-ke,
- Owokuqala uveza umqondo - uhlobo olunjengokuthi "ukukhahlela" okwesibili.
- Kulokhu, owesibili unelungelo futhi kufanele "ukhalele" ekuphenduleni owokuqala, kodwa ngempela - kancane kancane.
- Olunye uchungechunge lokuhlambalaza ngokobulili "ekunciphiseni" (uma kuqhathaniswa nendabuko ebuhlotsheni obuningi ukuhlukahluka kwengxabano phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane - ekukhuleni), futhi manje ukuxabana nomyeni wakhe kuphenduka ukuhlambalaza okukhonkolo "ngokuyinhloko".
- Kuphela ngaphandle kokuya kubuntu singakwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga ezithile zansuku zonke ngaphandle kokubandakanya abahlanganyeli "ababonakalayo" ngendlela yama-Masha kusukela emnyango ongomakhelwane noma umgcini-nkampani uKaterina, "owamangalisa ngokumangazayo enhlanganweni".
Njalo inkinga kumele ithole isisombululo sayo, futhi ukuthulisa kuholela eqinisweni lokuthi izinkinga eziningi ezingaphenduki zibonakala zihlangene. Ngakho-ke, cishe akunakwenzeka ukuzixazulula. Ngakho-ke, ukuphikisana, ukuxabana, ukuvikela ilungelo lakho empilweni! Kodwa njenganoma imuphi ukwelashwa, impikiswano kumele ikhululwe futhi isetshenziswe kahle.