Ezincwadini nakuma-movie, kuyisiko ukukhombisa ukuthi ngemva kosuku kunomane ongenacala. Futhi abesifazane abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi uma kukhona ubulili, ubuhlobo bakho buzophela ngemuva kwalokhu. Nakuba wena uqobo uzophupha, ukuthi uzokuthinta kanjani, ukucindezela kuye, ukushaya izinwele zakho, kodwa unqatshelwe yizinkolelo zakudala.
Ngokumelene nobulili bakho nendoda oyithandayo, kungaba khona eyodwa kuphela. Noma ufuna ukulala naye, kodwa wesaba ukubheka kalula emehlweni akhe. Noma ngabe awufuni ukuqeda ubusuku bakho nombhede, kodwa nawe wesaba ukuthi uma uyayenqaba, uzokhulela kuwe.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu kulesi simo ukuthi ufuna wena. Akufanele ukwesabe noma yini, ulalele lokho abangane bakho abakelulekayo, noma ukuthi yini abazali bakho abakhulumeyo, okukhethile, kufanele kwamukelwe nguwe kuphela. Uma ucabanga ukuthi udinga ukulahla ngesibindi, futhi uma uthanda, vumelanani.
Kumele uqonde ukuthi, njengokungathi ubusuku bakho abuzange budlule, unelungelo lokunqaba ukuya ocansini ngosuku lokuqala. Emva kwakho konke, uma umuntu efuna kuwe kuphela ucansi, awukwazi neze ukumheha wena futhi amenze aqhubeke ekuphatha. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi awungekho yini igolide, qaphela ukuthi uma uthola ubulili kuwe, ungavumeli ngosuku lokuqala, kodwa okwesibili noma kwesithathu, emva kokufeza umgomo wakho, kuzokushiya futhi ngeke kube nawe. Phela, ngaphandle kobulili, akadingi lutho. Futhi lapha kuzodingeka uthathe isinqumo kuwe futhi ulinganise izinzuzo nezingozi.
Uma uzwa ukuthi uthandwa kakhulu kumuntu futhi ubona ukuthi akakukhathaleli, ungaziphili injabulo. Ungaphili nemibono yenkolelo mayelana nokuziphatha okulungile. Qonda ukuthi kukhona ubulili, kuzokusiza uzizwe ukhululekile futhi ukhululekile. Phela, uma unomuntu othakazelisayo, mhlawumbe kungukuya ocansini okuzobe kungukuqala kwakho konke ukuxhumana kwakho okuqhubekayo. Phela, ngisho nodokotela batusa ukuba ocansini, njengoba sikwazi ukugcina impilo kanye nalesi sondlo osithandayo hhayi kuphela wena, kodwa namadoda.
Veza imizwa yakho futhi ungesabi ukubakhombisa, ungayinaki lokho onayo ku-akhawunti naye, owokuqala noma weshumi. Qonda ukuba khona kocansi ngosuku lokuqala noma uma, ngeke, akunakuthinta kanjani ubuhlobo bakho besikhathi esizayo.
Manje uyakwazi ukuhlola isimo sakho futhi uhlole ubuhle nobuqili.