Akubona bonke abantu abahlukunyezwa yi-gynecomania - ukukhangwa kocansi okwandisiwe. Nakuba abesifazane abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi amadoda ahlale efuna ucansi, abamele besilisa ngokuvamile bavame ukulala nobulili nezintombi zabo nabafazi babo.
Amapolisi abonisa ukuthi imibhangqwana engaba ngu-20 million e-US ihlala ngaphandle kocansi. Cishe ngo-20% - yenza uthando ngaphansi kwezikhathi ezingu-10 ngonyaka.
Abacwaningi babone izizathu ezinhlanu zokuthi kungani amadoda enqaba ukungena ebuhlotsheni obuseduze. Encwadini ethi "Akayena Yedwa" (Akasalutholi), inkinga ihlolwe yisibonelo samadoda nabesifazane abangu-4000 abahlala emshadweni ngaphandle kocansi. Kwakukhona ukuthi imibhangqwana ingagcini nje ukugwema ukulala ngokobulili ngokuqondile, kodwa futhi inqabe ukumanga, ukugcoba kanye nokuhlukunyezwa komunye.
1. Ubulili buba yisimiso (68%) noma umlingani akajabuli ngocansi (61%). Umphumela walokhu ukulahlekelwa kwesithakazelo kwezocansi, okungekho ukuhlukahluka. Kuyinto ehlekisa ukuthi amadoda akhuluma ngalokhu, abaqapheli konke ukuthi bona ngokwayo abazami ngandlela-thile ukuhlukahluka kwesenzo esenzeka ekamelweni. Esikhundleni salokho, bahlukumeza umlingani wabo ngenxa yokungabi nalutho kanye nenjabulo.
2. Umfazi / intombi ayithandi njengomlingani wezocansi (48%). Ngokwemvelo, amadoda aphilile ayesecansi. Abaningi babo bahlale beshaya indlwabu, okuyinto ngokwayo ngokucacile ayibonakali ukuntuleka kwesifiso. Ngokuvamile ukuphila komndeni, ukunika amadoda ukuzinza, kuholela ekukhunjweni.
3. Uyithukuthelela (44%). La madoda akholelwa ukuthi abalingani bahlale begxeka, belawulwa futhi banqunywa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, bacabanga ukuthi akusho lutho kumfazi / intombi yabo. Bememeza, bakhulume ngokomzwelo, bahlale benganelisekanga ngento ethile. Akumangazi ukuthi phakathi nale mpi akukho ndawo yokubonakalisa imizwa.
4. Umfazi / intombazane inamafutha kakhulu (38%). Kuyinto ehlekisa ukuthi lapho umuntu ezuza isisindo, akayeki ukucabangela ubulili, kepha lapho intombi yakhe ikhukhumazeka, bayeke ukucabangela ubuhle bayo.
5. Uthanda ukubuka izithombe ezingcolile (22%). Ngisho noma umfazi / intombi njalo evakashele isitolo socansi, engammangaleli noma kumgxeka indoda yakhe, angase akhethe ukubuka amasayithi acwecwe kwi-intanethi. Inkinga enkulu lapha ukuthi ukucabanga kwamadoda kungashintsha impilo yabo yangempela ngokocansi.
Abalobi begama lencwadi izizathu ezimbalwa ezingathandwa kakhulu, phakathi kwabo: ukungabi namandla, ukuphuza ngokweqile noma ukulutha izidakamizwa, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili, ukuziyeka ocansini ukujezisa owesifazane, ukucindezeleka (ukuthatha), ukuthatha imithi ethinta i-libido, ukungabi nesifiso sobulili .
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