Yiqiniso, lokhu akusho ukuthi ukujabulisa owesifazane, indoda kumele igqoke i-tuxedo enhle. Ngisho noma indoda igqoke izingubo ezivamile, njengeT-shirt ne jeans, izingubo zakhe kufanele zibe zihlanzekile, zingabanjwanga.
Njengamadoda, ukubheka owesifazane ukubonakala kwendoda engajwayelekile kuyabonakala. Njengoba kwenzeka njalo isaga esiyaziwayo - uhlangabezane nezingubo, uzibone engqondweni.
Ubuza, kubalulekile yini ukuba owesifazane agqoke indoda? Yebo, uma ukubukeka komuntu kungabangela imizwelo emibi - lo muntu akahlosiwe ukushiya uphawu lwakhe empilweni yowesifazane.
Yini indoda okufanele ibukeke sengathi iso lowesifazane lihlala kuye isikhathi esingaphezu kwesibili? Okokuqala, uhlanzekile. Iqiniso eliyaziwa ukuthi abesifazane, ngokwemvelo, bahlanzekile kakhulu. Ucabanga kanjalo, abesifazane bahlela ukuhlukunyezwa - ukukhishwa kwezinwele, ukugibela i-beautician, i-manicure ne-pedicure? Cha, konke lokhu okufisa ukuhlanzeka nokuhlanzeka. Amadoda amaningi athola kunzima ukuqonda isisu somama.
Kukhona amadoda anjalo angacacile nakumuntu omdala, ukuthi, ngokwesibonelo amasokisi, kubalulekile ukushintsha nsuku zonke. Uma kungenjalo, bona ngokwabo baziphophelela ekupheleni kwesilwane esincane esidumile emhlabeni - i-skunk. Luthando oluphikisanayo nokubheka ubukeka ngempela. Isikhulu esingazitholela isi-slob esinjalo sibonakala ngokumangazayo kanye nekhala lempombazana encane.
Enye iphuzu elibalulekile. Ucabanga ukuthi yini, owesifazane ubheka kanjani ukubona umuntu? Izicathulo zakhe. Uyakhumbula umlingisi oyinhloko wefilimu edumile yaseSoviet, enqabe ukujwayela indoda ngenxa yezinyawo zakhe ezingcolile? Ngikholelwa, lokhu akuyona nje umlobi onengqondo. Ngempela, umnikazi wezicathulo ezihlanzekile nezikhanyayo unamathuba amaningi engxenyeni enhle yabantu.
Iphunga lomuntu ibalulekile nakwesifazane. Akunandaba, iphunga lamafutha abizayo noma i-gel kuphela. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ayikhipha iphunga lokuthuthumela. Futhi, indoda kufanele ikhumbule ukuthi kubaluleke kakhulu empilweni nasekuphumeleleni kwabesifazane ukuxubha amazinyo okungenani kabili ngosuku.
Uma umuntu enenhlanhla ngokwanele ukudlula, lokho okuthiwa ikhodi yokugqoka, isiphetho sakhe siyoxhomekeka kwezinye izici. Into elandelayo lapho umbono wesifazane uwela khona lapho umuntu ebona khona (lokhu kungukuthi uhlanzekile futhi uhlanzekile futhi akaphiki kuye, angaqondi ukuthi yini) ukubonakala kwakhe. Ngokufanayo, umuntu, umfanekiso, ukumomotheka, izintambo, izinwele. Konke kuxhomeke ukuthi iyiphi ingxenye yomzimba womuntu ekhangayo nakakhulu.
Ukuze uthande abesifazane, indoda kufanele ikwazi ukukhuluma kahle futhi kahle, igcine ingxoxo ukuze intombazane ingakhathazeki.
Owesifazane uzokuqeda ngokushesha umuntu uma ecabanga ukuthi usebenzisa ulimi oluhlambalazayo engxoxweni yakhe noma enesithukuthezi. Uma indoda iqiniseka kuye, ingakwazi ukwakha ingxoxo ukuze owesifazane amlalele ngomlomo wakhe evulekile futhi ehleka amahlaya akhe.
Futhi manje iseluleko sabesifazane! Izidalwa ezimnandi nezihle, uma ukubukeka kwakho emehlweni omuntu ongajwayelekile akubanjwanga kunoma yini, noma into ethile ikukususa kule ndoda - ukubukeka kwayo, indlela yokukhuluma. Ungakheli izinqaba esihlabathini futhi unikeze indoda ithuba lokuvuselela.
Ngikholelwa, imihlangano yesibili nowesithathu nayo izokudumaza. Usuvele usukhulile futhi kufanele uqonde ukuthi abantu abaguquki ngokuguga, kanti izidakamizwa zengeza kumuntu ngisho nangaphezulu.
Thembela intuition yakho kanye nezinzwa zokuqala, ngakho konke okukuyo ekuphileni kwakho kuyoba kuhle!