Kubantu abavamile, abathakathi bahlonishwa kakhulu (yingakho iziqondiso azizange ziphazamiseke kakhulu). Noma yimuphi umlumbi weqiniso othola ulwazi namandla angaphezu kwamandla omhlaba konke ukuphila kwakhe, efunda imilingo ezindaweni ezihlukahlukene, amakholeji avaliwe kanye namayunivesithi, izinhlangano ezingcwele, eziyimfihlo ezivela enkulumeni ehlinzeka ngolwazi ngutitshala ezizindlalifa. Amantombazane yanamuhla akwenzanga ukwenza into enjalo, kodwa kukhona ingxenye encane yomlumbi kuwo wonke owesifazane
Izindlela zanamuhla "abathakathi". Le nqubo inhle kumuntu othembekile, ozimisele ukuhlangana naye. Umgomo wethu ukuheha kuye, ukudala oxhumana naye-ukwethemba, okuzoba yisinyathelo sakhe esiseduze. Kuhle futhi ukuthi kungase kubonakale sengathi udlala ngothando olulodwa: amakhono omlingo namandla wamandla omlingo kufanele afihle ekungeneni.
Ngalendlela, ungakwazi ukugxilisa konke ukunakwa "kozakwethu" kuwe. Ngisho noma kufanele aphazamiseke, amehlo ayo azobuya kuwe, akhangele ingxenye yakho yobuqili, ewowesifazane wonke. Futhi, njenge-magnet, izokudonsa.
Idatha yokuqala yale ndlela izoba:
- kungenzeka ukuthi uxhumana nomuntu ofunayo "umlingani";
- Ukudelela "kumlingani", lapho ungabona ngokucacile abafundi;
- ikhono lokubuka ngqo emehlweni alo muntu, ngenkathi ungaboni kude (uma unamahloni, bese uqeqesha, kufanele ufunde ukubheka ngokungabonakali emehlweni omunye umuntu).
Ukuthanda umlingo, ongayithatha wonke owesifazane, awubekezelele ukugqama ngokweqile, ubheke indlela enjalo njengemdlalo olula, lapho into esemqoka ayinqobe, kodwa ...
Sizofunda isimo sengqondo sangempela. Ebudlelwaneni, sivame ukungabaza ukuthi ubuqotho bemizuzu yethu yesibili buyiqiniso.
Ngoba ukwethembeka kungenye yezinto ezibalulekile zokuphila komuntu siqu nomndeni. Ungazi kanjani ukuthi indoda ethandekayo iziphatha kanjani ngobuqotho kuwe? Okokuqala udinga ukunaka amehlo akhe. Abakwazi ukukhuluma amanga, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi siyayithanda noma cha.
Uma sibhala inganekwane, amehlo angacacile "hamba" ohlangothini, ngenkathi esinikeza. Khumbula inkulumo evela enkulumweni ethi "The Master and Margarita", "iqiniso" lokuthi likhulume kalula futhi lijabulise "? Ngempela, uma ingane ilala, siyazibona ngokushesha. Nokho, ukukhula, ngosizo lokulawula ubuso nesimo sobuso, sizama ukufundisa umzimba wethu ukuba ungasikhiphe, uma sithi singamanga, wonke owesifazane nayo yonke indoda iyayenza. Kodwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sizama kanjani, izakhi zokungahambi kahle zenzeka nanoma yisiphi isikhathi. Futhi umuntu omdala, uma eqamba amanga, uhlanganisa ngokungenalutho umlomo wakhe nomlomo wakhe. Ngezinyathelo ezincane ezinjalo ungafunda imicabango yabantu, ukuthi yini abazama ukuyifihla kithi. Ungakhohlisa omunye umuntu, kodwa hhayi umzimba wakho.
I-Arithmetic of relations. Abanye besifazane bavame ukukhononda ngokuntuleka komuntu futhi wonke umuntu akakwazi ukuthola umlingani womphefumulo. Kodwa eqinisweni, isizathu sifihliwe emkhakheni wezamandla wezimfanelo zesifazane namadoda ezikhona kunoma yimuphi umuntu. Le ndoda ilawulwa kakhulu amandla asebenzayo. Kubonakala ngezici ezinjengezinjongo, ukubekezela, kanye namandla. Amandla wabesifazane, ngokuphambene nalokho, aphezulu. Ubuye enze ingxenye yomloyi okhona kuwo wonke owesifazane.
Kuyinto ezolile, ithambile futhi ilula. Amandla anjalo angafunda kahle ukuphatha, acabange isimo ngasinye. Amandla aphikisayo anika ukuhlukunyezwa nomsebenzi. Ngokweqile, isifiso sokuzama, ukwenza, ukuzama ukuhamba ngomfula obalulekile ngaphandle kwalokho, ukufuna ezinye izindlela.
Uma umuntu ephila ngaphandle kwamandla abesifazane, izenzo zakhe ziyingozi nakakhulu, futhi kude nokudala. Kodwa-ke, owesifazane onengxenye yomlumbi, ngaphandle kwamandla wesilisa, akakwazi ukuletha okuthile okusha empilweni yakhe. Uma le ntombazane iqala ukulawula uhlobo oluthile lwamandla, khona-ke kukhona ukungalingani kwendawo yonke yamandla futhi kunezinkinga ekuphileni kwakho komuntu siqu. Isibonelo esivamile esikhathini sethu yinkomba yebhizinisi enesifiso esinamandla nesinamandla.
Unesici somuntu wesilisa, esingavame ukwesaba amalungu obulili obuhlukile. Lesi simo sisobala, ngoba insimu yamandla yabesifazane abanjalo inesibalo esikhulu semfanelo yamadoda ehlukene. Ngenxa yalokho, amadoda ayeke ukuthatha insikazi ensimbi njengento yokudlala ngothando futhi aqale ukukhuluma naye ngokulingana okulinganayo. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi ukukhulumisana okunjalo kungakhula ibe mncintiswano, okungawona wonke owesifazane ongavumelanisa.
Kodwa empeleni, noma yikuphi owesifazane kakade u-WITCH olungele, empeleni, ngomqondo omuhle wegama. Ingxenye yocingo kuwona wonke wesifazane - kuyiqiniso. Yebo, yebo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyamangalisa kanjani futhi kuyinqaba kungase kuzwakale. Lokhu kungukuthi, uloyi oqinisayo ulele kunoma ubani wethu ... futhi ungakwazi ukuvuselela amandla akhe amanga, ukuthuthukisa amakhono futhi ufunde ukuxhumanisa yonke indawo yokuphila ngendlela ehlelekile.