Kuyaziwa ukuthi i-psychology yamadoda nabesifazane ivame ukuvumelana ngokuvumelana. Abamele ubulili obuhle emshadweni bayaqonda, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuzinza ngokomzwelo. Umshado kubo uthando lomlingani kanye nezingane, ukuzimela okukhulu emalini, futhi-ke, ithuba lokuthembela ehlombe eliqinile lendoda. Indoda ibheka umshado njengendlela yokuthola induduzo eyengeziwe. Ngokwemvelo, imizwa yomndeni nayo ikhona, indoda ithanda kokubili umkakhe nezingane, kodwa ... i-shirts ehlanza, amasokisi ahlanzekile ku-chiffonier, ukuhlanzeka nokuhleleka, isidlo esihlwabusayo emva komsebenzi wosuku olukhuni, ikhaya elihle. Kwakungokoqobo, kukhona futhi kuzoba khona. Ngeshwa, ukugcwaliseka kwalezi zinconywana ezincane, ezibonakala sengathi zansuku zonke ngokuvamile zifika emasontweni ambalwa - ngemuva kokuba umkakhe ethi "uthethelele, hlekani ..." futhi washiya umyeni wakhe.
Ekuqaleni, ukuziqhenya okulimazayo kuzokhamuluka phezulu kwezwi lakhe ngamacala okukhokhelwa umonakalo. Ubuningi obunzima lapho umuntu engakwazi ukuhlukumeza ukuthi uyashiywa. Ngokuvamile uma umbuzo ubonakala engqondweni: "Ungabeka kanjani ngaphandle kwami?" Ngokuvamile kunalokho, umuntu, ngokuvuma ngokugcwele ukuziqhenya kwakhe, uzama ukuqonda ukuthi ngubani owathathe umkakhe kuye, ngenxa yokuthi wamshiya, enhle futhi edingekayo. Ukuzivocavoca ngokuhlanganyela kancane kancane kwengqondo kudala kancane kancane umqondo wokuthi le ndoda ngokwakhe ixoshe umfazi wayo wangaphambili, ukuthi uzobhekana kahle nayo ngaphandle kwayo, nokuthi ngokuvamile uyisola.
Ngalokhu "inqola" ivame ukuthunyelwa ukusekelwa kokuziphatha komunye wabangane. Ngokwemvelo, esimweni esinjalo ngifuna ukukhuluma, ngikhumbule ngezikhathi ezimnandi zokuphila kwami ndawonye, ngihlambalaze "okungalungile" ekunakekeleni kwami. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi, akakwazi ukuvimbela iqiniso. Yini, kanjani nokuthi kwenzekani empeleni. Bangabangane abahle, bazoba nesihawu, futhi bazoqonda futhi banikeze usizo, futhi kuqala bazosiza ukuphulukisa izinzwa ngesizo lwe-vodka.
Futhi nansi umphumela - abangane baya emindenini yabo, kodwa i-vodka isalokhu isale. Awu, unganiki umkhiqizo ofanayo ukuze uphonse? Kudingeka ukuqeda ukuphuza, uye esitolo esiseduze kwenye ibhodlela. Futhi kukhona okunye okunye ... njalonjalo. Ngaso sonke isikhathi izibonakaliso ze-binge yobudala.
Nakuba isimo esihlukile singenzeka. Zitholele ngokwakho emsebenzini ukuze uma efika ekhaya ukuze awele phansi emilenzeni futhi aphumule kuye ekuseni ngaphansi kwama-alamu amakhulu ewashi le-alamu. Ukuqala ngokuthakazelisa ukuthatha isikhathi esengeziwe, osebenza nabo abamangazayo nabaphathi, ukuba babe yi-workaholic yangempela, nakuba kukhona "kodwa" lapha. Uma osebenza nabo bengakwazi izizathu zalokhu intshiseko esemthethweni, bangazama ukusinda kusuka emsebenzini wakho. Futhi ubani ofuna ukubukeka ephaphathekile emehlweni eziphathimandla?
Kukhona okunye okweqile, lapho amadoda ashiywe khona awela ngokujabula okukhulu. Kungenzeka ukugxilisa amanoveli amaningana ngesikhathi esisodwa ngenhloso engazi lutho ukuze ngizibonakalise mina nomhlaba wonke (umfazi oshiywe) othi "Ngiyamthanda lo muntu, ukuthi ngidinga kanjani!" Ngeshwa, labo abakhetha lolo mzila wokuziphatha abazi ukuthi bahlekisa kakhulu ekufuneni kwabo. Ukuthi iveliveli ayidingekile ngobusuku obulodwa, hhayi kuye, noma kumuntu onzima. Ubuhlobo obude ngokushesha ngemuva kokuhlukanisana nomuntu oye wahlala kakhulu ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa cishe into engenakwenzeka.
Uma umkakho ekushiya omunye, into engcono kakhulu ukuthi ungayenza ngekhanda elibandayo futhi, ngaphandle kokushaya amehlo akho, qonda ukuthi kungani umkakho ekushiye. Ungabonisana nodokotela wezengqondo, lokhu kuyindlela enhle kakhulu. Futhi ... zama ukukulungisa. Kungenxa yokuthi wonke umuntu kufanele ahloniphe isigamu sakhe. Yena, naphezu kokushiya naye, akulula.