Ngeshwa , izingane zethu zinesizathu esanele sokubhekana nokucindezeleka. Empi eneminyaka emithathu ubudala e-sandbox ibangela imizwelo engaphansi kweyethu - ukusola isikhulu. Futhi lapho ingane iqhuma izinyembezi "ngaphandle kwesizathu" (njengoba abantu abadala becabanga), mhlawumbe okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kunjengeyethu, okubangelwa ukuphikisana nomngane wakhe othandekayo, nakuba izingane zinenzuzo eyodwa enkulu kunabantu abadala: umphefumulo wengane, njengombhobho wokugcoba, kulungiswe isimo senjabulo futhi silungele ukutholakala okumangazayo, kuyilapho ngokuyinhloko silindele impilo yokukhohlisa okungcolile, ngisho nalapho ukucindezeleka "kukhipha" ingane ngaphandle kwenjabulo, kulula ukuyibuyisela. Kudingekile kuphela ukusiza ingane ukuphazamisa, ukusetha indlela efanele yokunakwa kwayo - nokuvumelana kuyobuya ngokushesha. Kunezikhathi eziningi ezilula ezisesimweni sokuqala zokubheka ezisiza izingane (kanye nabantu abadala) ukukhulula ukucindezeleka, ukuthola ukuthula kwangaphakathi. Abasizi abalungile nabangabonakali kulo mqondo yizinto ezibonakalayo ezizimele futhi ezinamathele. Iminwe yokusebenza, umuntu ushintsha isimiso sezinzwa kwenye uhlobo lomsebenzi. Izingane ezindala zingenza okuthile, ziveza okuhlangenwe nakho kwazo futhi ... zisho okuhle kubo. Futhi omdala phakathi nalezi zigaba uqala ukuziqonda kangcono, okukuvumela ukuba "uvumeleke" okuhlangenwe nakho.
Ukulungele iseshini!
Ezikhathini zokwelapha, izigaba ezinesihlabathi zijabulela udumo olufanelwe kahle. Akuyona izehlakalo ukuthi ama-sandboxes egcekeni agcwele izingane ezinamazinga ahlukene abantu abadala (kufaka phakathi omama, obaba, ugogo nomkhulu nabagembula basiza ingane ukuba yenze okuthile). Dlala ngesihlabathi kungashintshwa njengeseshini se-psychotherapy. Ungalungiselela kanjani umsebenzi onjalo? Into yokuqala okumele ukwenze ukwakha ibhokisi okungenani 50x50 cm ngobukhulu ekhaya. Futhi isikhathi, yibeke endaweni yokulala noma ebhalini. Njengoba abalobi bathi, i-lifebuoy kufanele ilungiselelwe kusengaphambili, kanti ulwandle luzolile. Isiphepho ngokuvamile siza ngokungalindelekile. Uma usuqaphele ukuthi ingane ikhululekile futhi ayikwazi ukuzola. Sekuyisikhathi sokuthola lelo bhokisi bese uligcwalisa ngesihlabathi. Noma kunjalo, ungasebenzisa i-pelvis evamile yomdlalo. Into eyinhloko ukuthi kufanele izinze futhi ingagumbuki uma ingane ikhetha ukuhlala eceleni kwayo. Ngakho-ke, fundiza esihlabathini ngesanti kusuka ku-atomizer, ngakho-ke kukhona uthuli oluncane. Esikhundleni sesihlabathi, ungathatha ama-manga ajwayelekile. Nika ingane yakho izitsha ezimbalwa zezinhlobo ezehlukene, mkhulule i-rump. Futhi isipuni uma ukhathele ukusebenza ngeminwe yakho. Okuthakazelisayo nakakhulu ukuqoqa okusanhlamvu okulingana nobuciko obuhlukile: ukolweni, irayisi, i-millet, ngisho nama-peas kanye namalenti. Konke lo mcebo kuyathandeka ukuxuba nokuxuba, ukushintsha nokuhlanganisa. Khumbula ukuthi umphumela wokuphumuza usuke unesihlabathi noma semolina. Basebenzisa imisipha encane yezandla, basisiza ukuba sishintshele esimweni "sokuziphulukisa".
Isihlabathi nobumba
Abazali abahlakaniphile benza izinto eziwusizo, ubumba, izingcezu zephepha lodonga, isanti, kanye nezinto ezibonakalayo ezinjengomhlanga, ama-chestnuts, ama-acorns, amajikijolo omisiwe, ama-flower petals kusengaphambili ... I-arsenal enjalo ecebile iyokuvumela ukuba ususe kalula ukususwa kwengane yokucasula.
Mhlawumbe umphumela ophawuleka kakhulu usebenza ngobumba. Vula inhlama enkulu yesayizi elungile, ufake i-ladle uphinde uthele amanzi. Uma ubumba ludla kancane, qala ukulukhukhumeza, luxoxe ngokuvumelana ukuthi wena nomntwana uthanda. Njengomkhuba wokubonisa, abanye abantu bathanda ukufana kocwangu obukhulu obomuncu, omunye - obunjengobumba. Izazi zengqondo zithi: ephakeme izinga lokucindezeleka, izinto ezilula kakhulu izingane ezikhethayo. Akunandaba ukuthi i-apula ikhiqizwa njenge-blob. Musa ukucima indiza yefantasy! Kungenye indaba uma ingane icela into yokulungisa. Uma isisusa esiyinhloko samakilasi akho kuyisifo sengqondo, ukukhulula umphumela, vumela ingane ukuthi isebenze ngokuzimela, bese uhlala phansi eceleni kwakho bese uqala ukudweba into eyakho.
Izandla ezine
Yilowo nalowo makathathe ucezu lobumba noma iplastiki bese ehlukanisa zibe izingxenye eziningana. Uzochaza ifomu. Ingabe usuvele unezinto ezibukeka njengomshini wokubhala noma indoda encane? Shintsha ubuciko - bese uqedela umsebenzi womunye. Ngezinye izikhathi izingane zizizwa zingalondekile emakhono abo, futhi kulula ukuqhubeka nokusebenza kunokuqala kusukela ekuqaleni. Vele ubaleke iseluleko esiphuthumayo: unikeza ukuthenga kwakho kumuntu omethembayo, futhi emanzini, ukuzethemba kuyakhuphuka.
Indawo yokuhlola
Izingane zinalokhu okuthandayo. Inhlama ingenakwenzeka, iyamnandi kumathinta, ibuye ivunyelwe ukukhotha. Ungakwazi ukudweba izinhliziyo, ama-koloboks, amadoda amancane ngisho - isimo sakho sengqondo. Inketho enkulu - okokuqala ukuveza lokho ingane engathandiyo (isibonelo, ubuso bentombazane eyathatha ithoyizi). Futhi kusukela emphefumulweni uyiphonsa ngomunwe wakho. Futhi umama uzobumba ukukhathala kwakhe ... Kwenziwe? Futhi manje qhafaza futhi uhlakaze! Lokhu kuyindlela yokwelapha emangalisayo. Noma bheka ukuthi yini ongayishintsha ebusweni besibalo esifanayo, ukuze kube mnandi.