Yebo, wonke amaphupho wesifazane okuthandwa, ukuhlonishwa nokuhlonishwa. Futhi uthando lomuntu olwenza owesifazane abe mnandi. Emva kwakho konke, ungaqhathanisa owesifazane owodwa futhi owesifazane othandekayo. Amantombazane abathandekayo abathandayo futhi aphunga. Uyathokoza yonke into encane, njengengane engenacala. Uyamomotheka, uyamjabulisa yena wonke umuntu, uzama ukuhlanganyela injabulo yakhe futhi akekho ongayimisa le ncwajana enhle. Amehlo akhe akhanya, inhliziyo yakhe iyashaya ngokushesha, futhi ukubonakala kwakhe kudonsela kuye. Ngisho nalapho ubheka owesifazane onjalo, umphefumulo uqala ukuqhakaza. Uthando lomuntu olwenza abesifazane bahle, uthando lwabo olusenza sijabule.
Abesifazane bashintsha ngaphandle uma bethola uthando. Bakhula bebancane, baphumelele ngokwengeziwe, baphupha kakhulu. Abesifazane bazama ukugqoka ngemibala ekhanyayo, elula. Babuye bagqoke izingubo neziketi kaningi, ukuze babonise izintelezi zabo. Futhi umlingisi, futhi, ngokuqinisekile uguqule phakathi nalesi sikhathi. Owesifazane uba nomusa, ethandeka kakhulu, uqala ukubona izinto ezinhle, okwakungeke azibone ngaphambili. Umhlaba wonke uhlukile emehlweni omfazi othandweni. Kungabonakali ngisho nalesi sikhathi. Uba njengomntwana ongenamahloni, othokoza kunoma yiziphi izinto ezincane futhi uyajabula emehlweni omama wakhe. Ngakho owesifazane ujabule kuphela emehlweni omuntu othandekayo wakhe. Umzwelo uphakeme kakhulu, akaqapheli nanoma yiziphi izinkinga. Kwanele nje ukumamatheka kuzo zonke izinkinga, futhi zizophela ngomzuzwana.
Uqaphele, yimuphi isibhakabhaka esihle, lapho sithandana? Kubonakala sengathi ukuguqula umbala kuwe, njengokungathi kungabi namafu uma uthanda. Futhi ilanga likhanya ngandlela-thile ngokukhanya, ngandlela-thile inhle kakhulu. Yilokho uthando lusho kumuntu.
Indoda nowesifazane bafana, kodwa bahlukaniswe ngesigamu. Futhi uma la ma-halves amabili ehlanganisiwe, umhlaba omnyama nomhlophe ugqoke imibala enemibala, futhi injabulo ilindele kuyo yonke indawo. Kuwesifazane, kubaluleke kuphela, okuwukuphela kwayo, futhi umbono wakhe kuphela, uthando lwakhe, kubalulekile.
Lokhu kuguqula kanjani lo mzwe wothando. Ubani owake wakuthanda, uzoqonda ukuthi lesi yisikhathi esihle kakhulu ekuphileni. Futhi empeleni ukuguga uqala hhayi ngeminyaka, kodwa uma ukhohlwa ukuthi ungamthanda kanjani. Ukuthanda akukaze kuvunyelwe, futhi lo mzwa uphulukisa impilo ngokukhanya, ukuphambene, ukucindezela.
Futhi njengoba abesifazane besidalwa esibucayi kakhulu, ngokuvamile baphenduka isidalwa esingenacala esingenacala. Kubonakala sengathi abantu abonakala bengenzi lutho ngalokhu, kodwa kuphela ukubuka okuthandayo okwanele, njengowesifazane oncibilikile ezinyaweni zakho. Konke kunzima ukuqaphela, kodwa kuyiqiniso ngempela. Wonke lawa mandla angaqondakali akakwazi ukuchazwa ngamagama. Kungenziwa ukuqondwa kuphela, ukuzwa, nokuhlangenwe nakho.
Uthando futhi uthandeke. Lona into enomlingo kakhulu engaba khona empilweni. Lo mandla uzokuguqula, ushintshe.
Uthando lomuntu lufana nesiphuzo esiphundu, ofuna ukujabulela konke ukuphila kwakho. Kufana nelanga le-May, elivutha kahle imisebe yalo. Uthando lomuntu lufana nolwandle olufudumele, lapho ufuna ukuzama khona. Lezi imizwa ebangela isiphepho semizwelo nezifiso.
Ukuwa othandweni, abesifazane baqala ukuqapha ngokucophelela ngokwabo - bahlunge ngokucophelela izingubo zabo, bathathe ukukhanya, ukwakheka okusha, isitayela izinwele zabo, futhi abahlupheki uma i-nail iphela. Abesifazane abanjalo babonakala kalula phakathi kwesixuku. Ukumomotheka kwabo kuzophopha muntu. Lezi zidalwa zikhumbula imfucuza nsuku zonke ngemibala ekhanyayo ekhanyayo. Futhi kunzima ukumelana nemilingo yalezi zidalwa ezithandekayo.
Ngakho, madoda, konke kusezandleni zakho. Hlangiswa, futhi ungathuthukisa leli zwe. Khumbula, uthando lwakho lungumcebo wabesifazane. Lesi sikhali esiphezulu esingalimaza owesifazane kahle enhliziyweni. Bathande. Abesifazane yizidalwa ezinhle kakhulu emhlabeni. Banjengobhomu obukhanyayo benjabulo, okumele ivuliwe ngaleso sikhathi.
Ayikho ukudla okungeke kusize, akukho salons kanye nokuhleka salons kuzokukwenza ube mnandi kangaka, njengoba uthando lomuntu uzokwenza. Yehla othandweni futhi unqobe izinhliziyo zabantu!
Kuyinto uthando oluphindaphinda zonke izinhlobo ze zauchek ezinhliziyo eziphelile zibe ama-swans amahle. Yile mzwa omuhle ohamba nathi kulo lonke impilo. Uma ungakaze uthande, ulahlekelwe okuningi. Uma ungakaze uthandwe - ke wawungekho omuhle futhi ujabule. Kudingekile kuphela ukwabelana nomunye uhlamvu lwenhliziyo yakho, njengamafu esibhakabhakeni aqhakazile, futhi imvula izophela ukuhamba kwakho kuze kube phakade. Uthando luyingoma ebucayi, engokwenyama engasiwo wonke umuntu ozwayo. Kodwa uma uzama futhi uqale le melodi enhliziyweni yakho, izwe lizoguqulwa wonke umuntu abe yindaba efana nezinganekwane.