Kungani futhi ngani
Esinye sezidingo ezibaluleke kakhulu zomuntu ukushiya uphawu. Esikhathini sokuqala sokuthuthukiswa komphakathi (futhi ososayensi baye bafakazela ukuthi ingqondo yezingane ezineminyaka yokuqala yokuphila ifana kakhulu ne-psychology yabameleli bezizwe zakudala), ukudweba kwakuyingxenye ebaluleke kunazo zonke, uma kungengcwele, izenzo ezibonisa ikhono labantu ukuqonda izwe elizungezile futhi zithumele ulwazi lwabo elingokomoya .
Mhlawumbe lokhu kuzwakala kunzima futhi kunzima. Kodwa ngenxa yemfucumfucu yakho, ukudweba kuyindlela ebaluleke kakhulu. Ukudweba kuveza amakhono okuqonda, okubukwayo, amakhono emoto amnandi, inkumbulo, ukucabanga. Kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu, ukudweba kungenye yezindlela zokuqala nezitholakalayo zomsebenzi ohlanganyelwe wokudala womama nengane, indawo yokuxhumeka ngokomzwelo. Izinkinga eziningi zenkathi "yesabekayo" yesikhathi sokukhula zikhula kusukela ekuhlukanisweni kokuqala komama nengane. Ngakho-ke, kusukela esemncane, umuntu kufanele aqondane neqiniso lokuthi kuyadingeka futhi kuyasiza ukudweba ingane futhi akusizi okungenani ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile - ukufunda.
Ukudweba iminyaka
Ngokwemvelo, ingane isilungele umsebenzi wokubuka kusuka ezinyangeni ezingu-8-9. Ngalesi sikhathi ingane ingaboniswa indlela yokushiya uphawu lwakhe. Yilokho okulandelanayo, ngoba eminyakeni engaba ngu-2.5 ingane iyakuthanda kakhulu inqubo kunomphumela we "imizamo yokudala". Ekuqaleni ingane ayikwazi ukunaka iphepha, ngoba umbala wombala uyamthanda kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, ukudweba kokuqala kwezingane - kungumdwebo we-chaotic, scribbling, noma, kaningi kakhulu, ama-blots aqoshiwe avela konke okusemhlabeni. Kungadliwa ubisi, ijusi, i-puree, i-jam kanye nokungcola. Ngemuva konyaka, "inqubo yokudweba" yengane iyashintsha, ingakwazi ukubamba ipensela, ipeni noma ibhulashi ngokucophelela, ukunyakaza kuthola isigqi esithile, ukuhamba kwezimoto kubonakala: umzila uhlala ohlangothini olulodwa noma olunye. Kodwa oneminyaka eyodwa ubudala akakwazi ukuxhuma izithombe ezibukwayo ngokudweba. Ngakho-ke, akunakwenzeka ukuba amfundise ukuba amele ngisho nezinto ezilula.
Ngemva konyaka nengxenye, i-karapuz iqala ukuqonda kangcono lokho akwenzayo. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, zonke izingane zidonsa ngenkuthalo. Zama ukusekela futhi uqondise ngendlela efanele ekusebenzeni kwakhe kokudala. Inkululeko yokudala ibaluleke kakhulu lapha, ngoba ukuthuthukiswa komuntu wengane ngokuqondile kuxhomeke kuyo.
Ngemuva kweminyaka emibili, izingxube zakho zezinyane zakho sezivele zikhona ngaphakathi kweshidi, okungukuthi, uyaqonda ukuthi kukhona uhlobo lomngcele wesithombe. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, isandla siya ngemuva kweso. Lokhu, kunjalo, kuseyi-Kalyaki-malyaki, kodwa kuyamangalisa ukuthi ingane izama ukuzwakala ukuthi yenzani: "Lo ngugogo wami, futhi lokhu ngidla iphalishi." Uqala ukuqonda ukuthi izinto, izenzakalo kanye nezenzo zethu ziyaxhunyaniswa. Kodwa-ke, ungahlukanisa into emidwebo ye-crumb yakho emva kweminyaka emithathu, lapho isigaba sokuqashelwa sifika. Wafanekisela okuthile, wakhumbula, futhi yena ngokwakhe wathola ukuthi: nangu ilanga, nansi umshini wokubhala. Futhi izithombe zayo kuze kube manje-ziphikisa futhi zigcwale.
Ukuklama okungenamkhawulo
Lapho ingane enezinjabulo ezibonakalayo idonsa amazambane ahlambulukile etafuleni, nokungcola - egqokeni, ukusabela kwakho kulezi zenzo kulula ukucabanga. Kodwa kuye lezi "midlalo yengulube" - ukutholakala: shiya uphawu lwakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuphi noma yini. Ukuqondisa amandla akhe esiteshini sokudala, kufanele ulungiselele ngokucophelela.
Yini ongayidonsa? Abazali abaningi abakwazi ukuqonda inkani yobubele: kungani edweba zonke izindonga nephephadonga, futhi angapendi ku-albhamu? Uma uneminyaka eyodwa kuya kwemibili, ingane yakho ayisaqondi ukuthi imingcele iyini, imingcele yeqabunga. Futhi yingxenye yesithombe ngokungenakuphika etafuleni. Kumbuzo othi "kungani?" Uzophendula: "Bunny yami yabalekela, yafihla ehlathini!" Isizathu silula: kwakungekho iphepha elanele. Futhi kuyiqiniso. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi lo mfana oneminyaka emibili ukuguqula isikhala lapho adonsela kuso. Usebenza ngokwengqondo phakathi kwezinto ezidwetshiwe, futhi kuye kunjengokuthi uyaphila, "wangempela". Ngakho-ke, kunengqondo ukunikeza iphepha elihle lokufometha ngobuciko bezingane zakho: makabe yiphepha le-Whatman, iphephadonga elidala - noma iyiphi ithrekhi. Isikhala akufanele sibe mhlophe, iphepha elimibalabala lingabangela "ukuphumelela kwangempela".
Siphika kanjani "
Umdwebo wezingane unomqondo wayo. Umdwebo ongokomfanekiso wengane oneminyaka engaphansi kweminyaka engu-3 uyisiqhakazi, phakathi kwakho ongathola khona imigqa nemigqa egciniwe. Ngemuva kweminyaka eyodwa nengxenye, izingane ziqala ukukhuluma ngokubhala kwazo: ngubaba oshiye emsebenzini, lo dancing dance. Futhi ungesabi uma iqiniso lokuthi isigamu sehora kuphela esedlule "ubaba", manje sekube "ikati". Ungazami ukuthola ukuthi kungani konke kushintshile. Udweba, udlala. Okuqukethwe kwesithombe kushintshile, ngoba emcabangweni usuvele udlala omunye umdlalo. Ngakho-ke, ekudwebeni kulesi sigaba, into eyinhloko ukuthi angakwazi ukusungula okuqukethwe kokwaziswa kwakhe. Futhi isisusa esihle somcabango yisithakazelo sezihlobo: "Awu, ngitshele, wenzeni?"
Ungatsheli ingane. Gcina inkululeko yakhe yokudala. Uma kunzima ukuba uphendule ngokushesha ukuthi uyadonsela, ungasheshi ukuphoqa isifanekiso sakhe: "Lena yindlu." Usika amaphiko omcabango wakhe. Kwenzeka ukuthi ingane ngokuzumayo iphuma noma idwebe into ethile, eyayizikhukhumeza kahle cishe isigamu sehora. Futhi umbuzo "ngani?" Unika impendulo enengqondo ngokuphelele: "I-Hunt Bunid" - noma: "Indlu ivaliwe."
Izigameko ezithakazelisayo zenzeka ngombala. Ubona ibhulophu eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, cela: "Kuyini lokhu?" Futhi ngokumangala, uzwa impendulo: "Strawberry". Uqala ukukhathazeka. Uyazi kanjani ukuthi konke kulungile? Elementary: inikeza isithombe sama-strawberries. Ubuza: "Futhi yikuphi lokhu?" Uthi: "Berry, sitrobheli." Ukungafani kombala kubangelwa ngenxa yezinto eziphawulekayo zokubona ukuhlelwa kwemvuthuluka yakho. Mhlawumbe umbala wakhe owuthanda okwesibhakabhaka, ngakho kubonakala sengathi "kuhle kakhulu". Noma uvunyelwe ukudweba okokuqala, isibonelo, kuphela ngepeni, yena nje akaqapheli eminye imibala ngaphandle kohlaza okwesibhakabhaka, akakwazi ukuwasebenzisa. Kancane kancane uthuthukise umqondo wombala wengane. Unobtrusively umchazele ukuthi ezinye izinto zinombala wazo othize. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, gwema amaphethini: amaqabunga angabi nje kuphela aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, kodwa aphuzi, isibhakabhaka - hhayi nje kuphela okwesibhakabhaka, kodwa kuluhlaza lapho kuvula. Ngokuyinhloko, ingane ephethe intuthuko evamile iyaqonda ukuthi ilanga liphuzi, kodwa uma ngokungazelelwe liba nombala ohlukile, lizokwenza impendulo enengqondo: upende luphelile, ipensela iphukile, njll.
Ngokuqondene nokuxilongwa kwesimo somqondo wengane ngokuya kombala, izingane zengqondo zezingane zafinyelela ekuphetheni ukuthi kuze kube yiminyaka emithathu akudingekile ukuzama ukuhlaziya izwe langaphakathi lomntwana ngokudweba. Kunzima ukusho ukuthi kungani wakhetha ipensela emnyama: ngoba wawela ezandleni kuqala noma ngoba nje wayenenkinga embi. Esikhathini esizayo, ungakwazi ukuhlola okuningi, ngokusekelwe ekudwebeni izingane - inkululeko yokwakha, ukuthuthukiswa kobuntu babo. Into esemqoka ukubhekana nalolu daba ngokuzikhandla futhi ungenzi iziphetho eziphuthumayo. Noma yikuphi ukubonakaliswa kwengqondo emidwebo kuhle. Ungabheke i-pathology lapho ingahambi khona.
Abantu abadala ekudwebeni kwezingane
Yebo, izingane zidonsa ngentshiseko. Kodwa kunzima kubo ukuveza lokho abakhathalelayo, ngosizo lwalawo makghono amancane aqoshiwe abanayo. Izingane zinokugxeka kwangaphakathi kwazo, zingabhidliza isithombe uma "zingasebenzi." Abantu abadala badlala indima enkulu enkambweni yokudala, eqondisa, echaza futhi evuselela, noma, ngokuphambene, evala kuze kube phakade ukucabangela kwabo noma ukumemeza iminyango emhlabeni wezobuciko.
UMGOMO # 1: Ungagxeki ingane ngokudweba ngqo. Ungabonisi izidingo ezingathandeki: sebenzisa amahora ngokucophelela uhlezi endaweni, udwebe ngokunembile, ungangcolile, ungenzi umsindo, uqonde izincazelo zakho kusuka kwegama elilodwa. Ukugxeka kwakho kuzomdambisa kuze kube phakade ekudaleni noma yini.
UKUQALA №2: Akungabazeki ukuthi ingane ifunde ukudweba kahle uma ungenzi naye. Izingane zivame ukucela okuthile ukudweba. Bathanda ukubuka izinto ezibonakalayo zivela ngaphansi kwezandla zomuntu omdala. Mbandakanye naye ekudaleni okuhlangene. Ungabuza: "Ufuna ukuthi ngidonselaphi?" - "Vase". Udweba i-vase, bese ubuza umntwana ukuthi apende izimbali. Kuvela isithombe esihlangene. Uqala ukuqonda ukuthi ngosizo lwesithombe ungadlulisela konke.
UKUQALA №3: Ungalokothi uhlanganyele emsebenzini wokudala nengane, uma ungenaso isimo sengqondo. Izingane zithandwa kakhulu ngokomzwelo: i-crumb ngeke idwebe uma ingazizwa ithando lakho.
UMTHETHO 4: Gwema izitembu. Uma enkulisa yokucela izingane ukuba zidwebe indlu, kuyoba yinto evamile kubo bonke: isikwele, futhi phezulu - unxantathu. Naka ingane ukuthi izindlu zihlukile, ngakho udinga ukuzidweba ngezindlela ezahlukene.
RULE №5: Akunakwenzeka ukugcina yonke imidwebo yezingane. Kodwa-ke, ungalokothi uzinqamule noma uziphonsa kudoti lapho ingane ihlonipha umsebenzi wakhe.
Izindlela zokudweba
Ngomncinyane kakhulu, inqubo yokudweba ngosizo lwamabhulothi azokwenza. Isibonelo, ukwehla kwepeyinti kwehlelwe ephepheni, lihlungwe, bese livuliwe futhi libuke okwenzekile. Bese bashaya amaconsi amabili emibala ehlukene - kwaba yini umphumela? I-kid yile magic: imibala ixutshwe, futhi kukhona okusha okwenzekile. Vumela ingane ukuthi idwebe ngezandla zayo.
Izindlela ezithakazelisayo kakhulu zokudweba nezitembu: zifaka phakathi kwipende, bonisa ingane ukuthi izibalo ezihlukahlukene ungazenza kanjani isithombe - imbali, isibonelo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, wethula ingane enezici zesicelo nokuklama: kwi-scribble, unamathisele imbali, eqoshwe kusuka ekhadini, ibhere, i-apula. Khombisa ukuthi uma unamathisela uboya bekotini bese uyipende ngamapende, khona-ke kungaba iqhwa.