Indlela yokukhulisa indoda yangempela kusuka kwengane ekhula ngaphandle kobaba

Abesifazane abaningi bakhononda, amadoda angempela aya kuphi? Kodwa laba bantu ababelethi futhi abangekho usuku oluhle lokushisa - badinga ukukhuliswa kusukela ngesikhathi sokuzalwa. Kunzima kunabo bonke omama abangashadile. Ngokuvamile, kubomama abanjalo, izingane zikhula kakhulu, zithandeka futhi zonakaliswe. Yebo, futhi ikakhulukazi izingane zilingisa obaba ngokuziphatha komuntu, futhi uma engekho ubaba eceleni kwakho, ingane kufanele ilandise unina. Futhi-ke lezi zingane zikhula "zowesifazane" futhi zilimaza ngokuziphatha nangomphakathi. Ngakho-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqala ukufundisa amadodana akho ngokufanele ebuntwaneni. Namuhla sizokutshela ukuthi ungakhuphula kanjani ingane evela kumntwana okhula ngaphandle kobaba.

Okokuqala , kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi umfana kaningi akwazi ukuxhumana nabantu. Kubalulekile ukuzungeza umntwana kuphela ngamadoda "Real", ngoba ngaphandle kwemvume kumuntu kayise, umfana umfuna kwamanye amadoda ayevame ukubona - omkhulu, abafowabo, omalume, abaqeqeshi, njll. Futhi amadoda angaphezu komntwana, kungcono ukuthi kuvezwe ukuziphatha kwabantu besilisa nokuziphatha kobulili besifazane. Ngaphandle komunye umama kufanele umama athathe zonke izinkinga futhi abonise igunya lakhe nokugunyaza. Lezi zici zobuningi zivimbela isimiso samadoda emntwaneni - isifiso sokuba umholi futhi sizishole - futhi sibulala ngokuphelele ukuziphatha komuntu. Futhi mayelana nobaba udinga ukukhuluma okuhle kuphela futhi akukho cala ungakhononda indodana eyayikushiye uyihlo.

Okwesibili , udumise ingane ngaso sonke isikhathi, ugxile ebuhleni bakhe - tshela ukuthi unesibindi, unamandla, unesibindi, unesineke futhi unqume. Uma lo mfana enqobile noma yisiphi isithiyo noma uphakamise into enzima, kubalulekile ukuthi: "Umnichka! Yilokho amadoda angempela enza! ".

Okwesithathu , ungabonisi indodana yakho ukuthi ungowesifazane oqinile futhi uyamfaka esikhundleni sakhe nobaba nomama wakho. Umama kufanele ngokuyinhloko abe ngowesifazane, obuthakathaka, onothando, othandekayo nothando. Ngenxa yalokhu, ingane izofunda ukuzwelana, isihawu, usizo nokusekela unina - zonke lezi zimfanelo zenza umfana abe nesibindi futhi enamandla angakwazi ukuzimela, enze noma yiziphi izinqumo futhi amele owesifazane.

Okwesine , ngeminyaka ehlukene yendodana, bonisa uthando oluhlukile lomama. Isibonelo, ekukhuleni nasekukhuleni, akudingeki ukuthi uphelele ngokweqile ukunakekelwa kwakho. Uma kungenjalo, indodana izobe ingathuthuki emphakathini futhi kuyoba nzima ngaye ukudala impilo yakhe. Indodana akufanele ixhomeke ngokomzwelo kumama, kungenjalo ngeke neze ikwazi ukushada.

Okwesishiyagalolunye , udinga ukufundisa umfana ngosizo lwama-movie nakwabhuku. Nguwe kuphela okudingeka ukhethe ngokucophelela amafilimu noma izincwadi. Imisebenzi engcono kakhulu yilabo abasebenza lapho amaqhawe azoba khona ama-heroes, ama-musketeers kanye nezinye izinhlamvu ezigcina futhi zivikele umhlaba hhayi kuphela, kodwa nabesifazane. Ungakhethi ama-movies wesenzo, ama-melodramas namahlaya.

Okwesithupha , eneminyaka engu-3-4 indodana idinga ukuthenga amathoyizi kubafana, ngombala kufanele ibe ithoni ezolile. Kusukela amathoyizi amnandi amantombazane ayethanda. Eminyakeni engu-5-6, indodana idinga ukunikeza imisebenzi eyenziwa ndawonye nabesilisa - isibonelo, ukubamba isilenge ngesilenge, yenza umphakeli. Ngaphambili ingane iqala ukusiza amadoda asebekhulile, ekuqaleni uzothola ukuzethemba futhi umfana uzomuzwa ukubandakanyeka kwakhe emphakathini wesilisa. Esikoleni esikoleni, umuntu kufanele ahlakulele isimo sengqondo sokuhlonipha amantombazane, isibonelo, abasize bathathe izikhwama ezinzima, bavulele umnyango futhi bavumele amantombazane ukuba ahambe azisize ngazo zonke izindlela. Futhi lapho usakhula, udinga ukunikeza inkululeko yakho emadodaneni akho. Myeke akhethe abangane kanye nezithakazelo. Hlonipha izinqumo zakhe kanye nezinqumo, ngakho-ke indodana yakho izofunda ukuthi iyabangela izenzo zakhe, iyoba yedwa.

Eyesishiyagalolunye , njalo ngangokunokwenzeka, vumela indodana ibonise ukuzimela kwayo. Masibophe ama-shoelaces akhe, ugeze, agqoke, aqoke, njll. Indodana kufanele ifunde ukwenza konke ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ngaphandle kosizo kanina, ngoba uyindoda yesikhathi esizayo futhi kuyodingeka asize abesifazane, futhi hhayi ngokufanayo.

Okwesishiyagalombili , nendodana okudingayo ukudlala kuphela emidlalweni yemidlalo yamadoda, isibonelo, ebhola, hockey noma ekulweni izinkemba zeplastiki. Futhi ungaphazamisi imidlalo enomsindo, ehambayo nokuxhumana nabangane bakho. Uma lo mfana efika ekhaya enokulimaza, ukuqala noma ukuphumula, akudingeki ukuba ukhathazeke ngalokhu, nje ukwelapha isilonda. Phatha indodana yakho ngenhlonipho futhi ungalokothi umlaye, kodwa cela usizo, ngoba umuntu ozayo uzophambi kwakho.

Akunakwenzeka nganoma iyiphi indlela:

- Cindezela indodana yesenzo sakhe;

- Uphikisiwe kakhulu;

- fundisa umfana ngokuvumelana nombuso;

- uthenge amathoyizi owuthandayo, hhayi yena;

- vimbela ukudlala nabafana ababi;

- vumela indodana yakho ukuba ilale nawe embhedeni;

- umphoqele ukuba akulalele ngokungenasisekelo;

- unganiki umfana ngokwakhe ithuba lokuqonda izimo zokuphikisana nabangane bakhe.

Manje uyakwazi ukudlala indoda yangempela kusuka kwengane ekhula ngaphandle kobaba.