Ngingowesifazane ojabulayo. Angikaze ngibe isikhumba. Eyinkimbinkimbi, ejabulisayo, engaphendukiyo, enamandla, kodwa engapheli.
Ngangingakaze ngibe nesigqoko se-aspen, futhi 90-60-90 kwavela kuphela emalini. Isisindo sami, engangiphatha ngenhlonipho enkulu, ngingazicabangi ngokucabangela isisindo emphakathini, nginezinkani ngokuzungeze umaki we-90 +5. Kodwa-ke, ngaleso sikhathi ngangingazi ukuthi ngingummeleli wesifazane "omkhulu" futhi ngizibiza ngokuthi "blonde ngokugcwele kwempilo." Uma singeza kulokhu ukuthi umbala wezinwele zami uhamba kahle kakhulu, ngakho-ke akunzima ukuqonda ukuthi kungani iningi labangane bami lihlekisayo ngokumnandi, ukulalela izitatimende ezinjalo, kungibheka njengombono ongenakwenzeka.
"Angiqondi," kusho uLena ngamazinyo akhe, engazivimbeli, "ungangena kanjani futhi ujabulele ukuphila ngesisindo esingaba ngu-centner?" Ingabe lokho akukwesabeki nhlobo? "
Saxoxa isikhathi eside ngalobo busuku. Ngamlalela uLencino wamhlophe futhi wamdabukisa kakhulu. Kodwa hhayi ngenxa yokuthi akajabuli kakhulu ngenxa yokuphelela kwayo. Kodwa ngoba akaqondi kahle inzuzo yakhe futhi akakwazi ukuwusebenzisa. Lapho uLela eshiya, ngahlala edeskini futhi ngithatha ipeni. Futhi ngibhala lesi sihloko.
Ama-postulates amathathu lapho umhlaba ubanjwa khona
1. Owesifazane okhuluphele uhlale enhle
Bheka eduze indlela ukuzola nokuthula ngayo owesifazane ngamunye ogcwele. Yeka ukuthi uhlala kanjani! Ukunyakaza kwakhe kuyashesha, kuyabushelela, kugcwele isithunzi. Ikhanya ngokuziqhenya nokuzethemba. Yiqiniso, ngoba akudingeki enze okungenani izinto ezimbili ezithatha isikhathi esiningi nemizamo futhi ulahle noma yikuphi owesifazane onokulinganisela ngokomzwelo: 1) zama ukuhambisana nemfashini - asikwazi ukukwazi ukufana nabanye; 2) uzikhawule ekudleni okunomthelela futhi ugwebe umbhede ngaphambi kokubukwa kwezitolo ze-confectionery. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngaphansi kwengcindezi yobuningi be-"chocolate" yethu, noma yikuphi imibimbi iphelile. Futhi cishe kuze kube yimingcele yesikhathi, lapho bengeke bakhathazeke kakhulu ngathi.
2. Owesifazane othobekile uhlale ehlakaniphile
Yiqiniso, ngoba isikhathi sokunye, amantombazane amancane asetshenziselwa ukungabi nzuzo futhi ngezinye izikhathi aphepheza agijima, umfazi ogcwele uhlinzeka izincwadi ekufundeni, ehlanganyela ezingxoxweni zezingxoxo kanye nezingxoxo, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nokudlala nokufunda izilimi zakwamanye amazwe. Akane nje ongakhetha. Abanye baze bafinyelele iphuzu lokubhala izidakamizwa ezidokotela - ngicabanga, kuphela isizathu sokungalingani ngokweqile.
3. Owesifazane ogcwele kulula ukushada Eminyakeni eminingi ebuka amadoda, ngifinyelele esiphethweni: Umbono wabo unesici esisodwa, okusizuzisa kakhulu kithi - sihlakazekile. Yilokho indlela: indoda ihamba emgwaqeni, ibheka ngokungazelelwe ewindini lokubukisa yesitolo segwayi, futhi ibona izungeze abesifazane abangamashumi amabili abahlukene. Futhi ngisho noma omunye wabo ephumelela ekusikhipheni ngengozi, khona-ke iziphi iziqinisekiso? Emva kwakho konke, ehamba eduze kwakhe, uzobona abanye abangamashumi amabili. Futhi ngubani owaziyo ... Kodwa-ke ubonakala - owesifazane ogcwele. Le ndoda izophendukela ngakwesobunxele-yona, nokubukeka kwesokudla-yona. Konke ukucabangela ngokuphelele futhi ngokuphelele. Futhi ubheke kancane, ungaboni eduze - futhi enhle, futhi uhlakaniphile, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - okungavamile! Khona-ke uyaqonda: Yena, ekugcineni Yena!
Futhi yilokho konke. Akudingeki senze noma yini, vele ukhethe kakhulu kakhulu-nakubhalisi. Noma e-Canary Islands, yilokho othanda okuningi.
Manje, ngokuqaphela ukuphakama kwakho, ungahamba ngokuphepha emgwaqweni, esitolo, emakethe. Waziqhenya ngokuphakamisa isikhumba sakhe futhi wadlala ngekhanda lakhe ngekhanda. Phela, laba yibo abanye besifazane, babheka ngandlela-thile ukuthi bangenangqondo, kodwa ezandleni zethu basheshe baxhunywe ngobukhulu besifazane babo abancane.
Hhayi, uma owesifazane ogcwele uzobuyekeza ikhabethe lakhe, ngakho-ke lokhu kunamaqhinga amakhulu.
Amathiphu amathathu asebenzayo mayelana nendlela yokuziphatha esitolo:
- Ungalaleli labo abathi: "Ngeke kube ngokwanele kuwe," futhi uqale ukulinganisa usayizi obukhulu kakhulu: kungcono 'ukugwinya' izikhathi ezinhlanu kunokulahlekelwa okuthile ngesikhathi esisodwa.
- Ungathengi into eningazi kahle, kodwa, ngokusho komdayisi, "welule" noma "uthwale". Uma iqiniso lisakazeka, lizolahlekelwa ifomu layo. Futhi uma kungenjalo ngeke isolulwe?
- Ungalokothi uthathe into enhle kakhulu, uma ingakuhambisani nawe - awufuni ukubukeka ungenangqondo?