Ukugxilwa kwenzeka ezintweni ezibucayi nezithintekayo. Ezimpawu zokuqala zokugaya, udinga ukuphuthuma uthintana nodokotela wezinkulumo kanye nesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo.
Ukugxila ezinganeni ezincane
Isizathu sokubethwa kungaba:
- Uthukile.
- Ukulingisa inkulumo yomntwana othungayo.
- Isijeziso somzimba.
- Isimo sengqondo esingalungile kwengane, lapho i-caress ingena esikhundleni sobukhali, ubuqili.
- Ukuphulwa okuqhubekayo komkhuba wansuku zonke.
- Ukunciphisa umzimba ngemva kokugula okungathí sina.
Uma ingane igula ngokugwedla:
- Kubalulekile ukudlulisela ingane emfundweni yasekhaya okwesikhashana. Nciphisa ukukhulumisana nezingane. Hlanganisa okwesikhashana kusuka kubambiswano. Lezi zincomo zibalulekile ukulandela ekuqaleni, ngokushesha nje lapho kuvela umculi.
- Ukuvimbela ukulungiswa kwephutha, ukunciphisa ukukhulumisana kwezingane ngomlomo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kubalulekile ukungaphuli imidlalo evamile nemisebenzi, ukuze kube nokuzola ngokomoya nangokwenyama.
- Ngomntwana udinga ukukhuluma ngokuthula, kancane kancane kunokujwayelekile, kodwa ngaphandle kwentukuthelo, ngokuthula nangomusa. Uma ingane ingadluli ukudumala, khona-ke khuluma naye ngokuhlekisayo, futhi impendulo efanayo oyifunayo evela kuye.
- Awukwazi ukukhombisa ingane ukuthi ukhathazekile ngokuthungatha ingane. Ungakhulumi amagama athi "stutterer", "stutter".
- Ukubuka ividiyo noma i-TV kungcono ukuncishiswa noma kuqedwe ngokuphelele. Kanye ngesonto, ukhethe ingane yengane bese uyivumela ukuba ayibone. Ungafundi izindaba ezimbi, awudingi ukumphoqa ukuba afundise izinkondlo.
- Nciphisa inkulumo yengane. Lokhu kungafezwa uma ingane izodlala imidlalo yebhodi, idonse, imidwebe, imfunde izincwadi ezijwayelekile. Ukuthungatha kuzonyamalalala, uma ingane ingakhulumi ngokunciphisa, ingane kufanele ikhulume ngokuthula nangokuzilibazisa.
- Uma ingane iqhuma, ikhuluma kabi, awukwazi ukuphula ingane futhi imenze iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde ivuke. Akudingekile ukulungisa ukunakekelwa kwengane ngokuntuleka kwakhe. Ngesikhathi sokulungiswa kokuthungatha, awukwazi ukuvakashela abantu abangakhulumi ngokucacile futhi ngokushesha futhi bameme ukuba bavakashele.
- Unganiki ingane yakho ushokoledi, i-cocoa, ikhofi. Kubalulekile ukukhipha konke okuphazamisa ukuthula kwengane. Yenza kuphela hhayi ngosizo lwezinqabela ezinzima, kodwa ngokucophelela, ngokuthula.
- Umzimba wengane uhlala ngesikhathi sokulala okuthule. Ukulala kusiza ukubuyisela amangqamuzana omzimba wengqondo. Ephusheni, amangqamuzana omgogodla aphumula emicabangweni emibi.
- Kodwa ingane idinga ukuphumula okusebenzayo. Ukushintsha isifundo esisodwa komunye futhi ukuwuguqula kunikeza ukuphumula. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthi amakilasi athule angadlulisi imidlalo emele futhi ehambayo.
Ukubethelela izingane kudinga ukuthatha amavithamini ama-B anzima. Bamba isimo esihle, isimo esinempilo, futhi basize ekubhekaneni nokukhathala. Embusweni wosuku, ingane kufanele ibe nezinqubo ezinzima, usuku ngalunye kufanele lube semoyeni ovulekile. Imisebenzi yezemidlalo (skis, sleds), imidlalo yangaphandle, ukudala imizwa ejabulisayo, ukuvuselela ngokomzwelo, ukunciphisa isimiso sezinzwa. Izinqubo zamanzi - ukugeza, ukuhlanza, ukususa, ukusula kubaluleke kakhulu kubantwana. Ukuzivocavoca umzimba kusiza ukuqeda ukuqina, ukuvimbela ukunyakaza, ukukhulisa nokuhlushwa. Konke lokhu kunethonya elihle kwengane, uthuthukisa amakhono okukhuluma okulungile. Zonke lezi zivivinyo zomzimba zithola inani lokuthwala izingane.
Izincomo
- Izingane eziningi ngaphandle kokungabaza zikhuluma nezilwane, amathoyizi, izinsana. Khuthaza lokhu.
- Zama ukungakhulumi lapho ingane ikhala noma ngasemuva we-hysteria. Kubalulekile ukuzolalisa ingane, ukucindezela, ukumphazamisa.
- Akufanele ucasulwe ukuthi ingane iphikisana okuthile ezandleni zakhe, ikhulula ukucindezeleka, ithazamisa izinkinga zokukhuluma. Mnike ithoyizi encane.
- Ungamenzeli ingane ukuthi ihlehlise futhi yamukele, ekugcineni ingane izofunda imithetho yokunambitha okuhle. Okokuqala susa ukungezwani, bese ufundisa ukuziphatha.
Lalela ngokucophelela ingane, imhloniphe. Dumisa, smile. Unganqikazi ukukhombisa ingane yakho uthando lwakho.