Kunezindlela eziqondile zokukhohlisa, ongayifinyelela ukuthi ungasebenzisa kanjani ubulili obuhlukile. Futhi, ungabangela umlingani wakho ukuba abe nesithakazelo socansi kuye, futhi-ke, uthandane naye.
Ngenxa yamehlo akho, ungathumela eziningi izimpawu. Ngosizo leso, ungakwazi ukuveza ukunganeliseki kwakho, intukuthelo, ukukhathazeka, noma ngokuphambene nokuheha umuntu futhi umlingise. Bheka, lokhu kuyingxenye ebalulekile yokukhamba kwakho.
Uma unesithakazelo kumlingani ongase abe khona, khombisa ukubukeka okude nabafundi abahlanjululwe. Mbheke eceleni futhi uma ngokuzumayo uthatha iso lakhe, thatha amehlo akho ohlangothini.
Futhi ungasebenzisa izibonakaliso ezithandanayo. Yilapho owesifazane ebonisa isibindi sakhe kumuntu. Kungcono ukwenza lokhu uma ubhema noma uthatha ingilazi. Uma uthande indoda, ungamkhohlisa ngokubeka imilenze yakho ibe mkhulu kunokuba evamile. Uma uhamba, swing ezinqeni zakho kancane kakhulu kunokujwayelekile. Vula kancane umlomo wakho bese uswayipha ulimi lwakho phezu kwezindebe zakho, lesi senzo kubhekwa njengesenzo sokukhubaza.
Futhi ungasebenzisa ubukeka obubulalayo. Phakathi nengxoxo, bonisa umlingani wakho okwamanje ukuthi uyathandeka kakhulu kuwe. Gxila umbono wakho kumlingani wakho futhi umbheke ngqo emehlweni. Zama ukufaka kuye ukuthi ukuqiniseka ukuthi konke akushoyo kuyakhanya futhi kuyingqayizivele.
Zama ukukhuluma okuningi mayelana nomlingani wakho. Mbuze ngomsebenzi wakhe, izinto zokuzilibazisa, imikhuba yakhe. Zama ukuzicabangela njengomnyathelisi, kodwa zama ukungazikhohlisi futhi unomqondo ojulile. Phendula ngokucophelela umbuzo ngamunye.
Ungesabi ukuveza imizwa yakho. Bonisa ukuvuma kwakho nokubonga kumlingani wakho.
Zama ukubiza igama lakhe njalo. Esinye isazi sezengqondo saqinisekiswa ukuthi igama lakhe lizwakala lingapheli.
Uma unomzuzwana, thinta umlingani njengokungathi ngengozi. Ngokuthandana nokuthinta, ukuxhumana okukhethekile okukwenyuka kwabesifazane kuvela.
Ungachaza okuningi mayelana nokukhohliswa kwabesifazane. Owesifazane ngamunye kufanele athole lezi zimfanelo futhi afunde ukudukisa noma yimuphi umuntu.
Manje usukwazi ukuthola ukuthi ukukhwabanisa kowesifazane kuyindlela nokuthi ungayenza kanjani.