Eqinisweni, ungathola izizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani umuntu obonakalayo esaba ukuhlangana nawe. Futhi lokhu akusho ukuthi lo ngumngani wakho weqiniso, ngezikhathi ezithile uhlabelela izingoma ngalokho, khona-ke uyamthanda kakhulu, ngesibindi ngesikhathi esifanayo amanga. Cishe, ngisho nalokho okuphambene nalokho - nakuba kungenakwenzeka ukukhipha ukhetho ngamanga. Kunzima ukumba emphefumulweni womuntu, ikakhulukazi uma wazi othile kuphela emigqeni esikrinini. Phela, kunoma yikuphi, isithombe salo esitholakala kalula siyisithombe nje. Mhlawumbe sisondele ngokwanele ekuqinisweni, kodwa futhi kungenzeka ukuthi kuvela "A" kuya "I". Konke, ngaphandle kokuhlukile. Futhi lesi sizathu esihle sokwenqaba ukuhlangana ngempela.
Isibonelo, umfana kaKolya uhlala endaweni ethile. Umfana onjalo evamile, azikho izinkanyezi ezanele ezivela esibhakabhakeni, akajabuli noma yikuphi ukuthandwa okukhethekile. Elula futhi enesizotha, mhlawumbe unesihawu kancane, kodwa unomusa. Futhi mhlawumbe akulungile - ngubani owaziyo, lo Kolya. Futhi ubani onthanethi? Mhlawumbe akasekho u-Kolya, kodwa u-Nikolai wangempela onesifo esihle (mhlawumbe hhayi ngisho nesifuba sakhe), nge-biography ethokozisayo nokuhleka okukhulu. Uyamthanda ngempela: unomusa, uthandana - futhi kubonakala sengathi wonke amantombazane ase-Intanethi amkhalela. Umfana omkhulu, lo Kolya! Futhi ubonakala sengathi uyamthanda kakhulu. Ngokuvamile, isikhathi sizofika lapho unquma ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuba "usondele". Ukuhlangana nawe yisikhathi. Okokuqala uzothola ngokuthobeka isinyathelo sakhe nesiphakamiso. Kodwa yena, ngesizathu esithile, uzobuyela emuva emgqeni, futhi ukhombise ukungaboni izinhlamvu zakho. Futhi uzobe udidekile: "Kungani lo muntu oyedwa we-chic esaba ukuhlangana nawe, ungaphansi kwe-lady chic?". Futhi ngeke wazi ukuthi u-Kolya ukhululekile kakhulu futhi konke ukubukeka esibukweni esikhunjeni sakhe, kubonakala sengathi udangele endaweni lapho kufanele kube khona i-torso enhle kakhulu futhi uyaqonda ukuthi uzovele umkhonze ngesikhwama sokukhohlisa okunjalo. Ngakho-ke, uphumula, akafuni ukujwayelana nawe. Uthi imoto yakhe yaphuka (yebo, nalabo abangabulawa yi-BMW bahlehla phansi, baby). Noma ukuthi ukuvinjelwa emsebenzini - abangaphansi kwamakhulu abaqondi lutho nhlobo, kufanele uziphendulele. Kodwa uhamba ngezinyawo eziQhingini zaseCanary nomama wakhe - kahle, ukuze athole i-tan enhle. Futhi ukholwa konke, ukholwa.
Kulesi simo, kungaba khona izindlela ezimbili. Noma uba abangane obusondelene kakhulu, xoxani konke nonke, kepha usafuna ukubona le ndoda ekahle (noma kunjalo, njengawe - wena). Noma uthola isibindi futhi akunike lonke iqiniso elibhubhisa ngaye. Futhi unquma: Udinga umuntu owaqala ukukhuluma amanga, amanga amakhulu, akhohlisa. Ngingabazi ukuthi uzoqhubeka nalolwazi - futhi lokhu akukona ngenxa yezimbuzi zakhe ezisencane noma ukungabi khona kwemoto ebiza kakhulu. Awuthandanga amanga.
Nakuba lokhu akusho nakancane ukuthi uma umuntu enqaba ukukuhlangabeza, empeleni ungumqambimanga oyisigwegwe, oblique futhi omncane. Mhlawumbe uvele engenakho ukuxhumana, ukungabi nabesifazane - futhi uzama ukuthola "abalandeli" abancane. Kulokhu, hhayi empilweni yakhe akukho ntombazane. Mhlawumbe udinga ukunakekelwa kwamantombazane amaningi, ngangokunokwenzeka - futhi kuphela lapho ezwa ekhululekile. Ngeke ahlangane nawe ngoba nje akadingi imihlangano yomuntu siqu. Akakwazi "ukude", ukuzwelana okungokoqobo. Uyakudinga ukubhala imiyalezo ekhanga kakhulu mayelana nokuthi uyabuhlungu kangakanani, ukuthi uyamangalisa kanjani nokuthi umuntu uzoba nenhlanhla kanjani. Kodwa akafuni neze lokhu kwenzeke. Okokuqala, kulula ukuba umuntu ongcono kwi-inthanethi - kodwa empeleni kunzima ukugcina lesi sithombe. Ekugcineni, uvele uqonde ukuthi akayena omuhle kakhulu - futhi kusukela ekukhulekeleni nasekuzinikeleni kwakho ngeke kube nomkhondo, futhi uzofika "ukumbona" kuzo zonke izikhathi ezilula. Futhi akayidingi intombazane enjalo, idinga "isigqila" - kungcono ukuyithola kuyi-intanethi.
Yebo, esinye sezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani umuntu obonakala sengathi uyesaba ukuhlangana kungenxa yentombazane. Uyazi, ubudlelwane obunjalo obude, obunzima obunomthelela womshado. Baye behlala bephola isikhathi eside futhi uyayithanda, uhlobo olufana nalo. Kodwa akanakho ukushayela othandweni empilweni - mhlawumbe ubudlelwane babo buye bulinganiswa isikhathi eside futhi ngezinye izikhathi bubuhlungu ngenxa yokungabi naluthando. Futhi-ke le ndoda iya ehlangothini, noma iya ohlangothini kwi-intanethi. Ufuna ukudlala ngothando, ukubonisana ngothando, ukuhlangana nokuzibophezela. Ufuna ukucabanga, ufuna umuntu azalise izifiso zakhe. Futhi yini engcono nakakhulu kule nkinga kune-Intanethi? Amantombazane amaningi aphinde aphuthelwe futhi ahlupheke ngenxa yokuntula ukunakekelwa kwamadoda abo, ngenjabulo yokudlala ngothando nalabo abathandekayo nabathandekayo. Ungagijima kumuntu onjalo, kodwa ngeke nje akutshele ukuthi unentombi. Yena, njengazo zonke izinhlobo zangaphambilini zezintandokazi zesilisa, uzolungiswa yizenzo, kodwa ngeke eze emhlanganweni nawe.
Into yokugcina engingathanda ukuyisho kule ndaba yukuthi indoda ingase ingafuni ukuhlangana nawe empilweni yangempela ngoba nje ayikuthandi kakhulu. Yiqiniso, ungasho ukuthi awufuni - ungavumeli ukuxhumana nhlobo, kodwa akulula. Mhlawumbe uyathandeka kuye njengomngane onobungane. Mhlawumbe uthanda nje ukuphikisana nawe. Kodwa kulo lonke, uhlamvu lwakho lubonakala luyinqaba kuye. Akakuqondi futhi uyesaba ukuthi ngeke aqonde - futhi lokhu kumenza angazi kahle empilweni. Phela, angakwazi ukudumazeka kuwe (njengokungathi wena, kuso-ke) - futhi ngeke ube nomunye. Cishe ngeke kube khona, ngeke ngempela - ngeke kube khona indlela. Mhlawumbe uyesaba ukulahlekelwa umngane omuhle?
Kunoma yikuphi, asikwazi ngokunemba ngamaphesenti angu-100 ukuthi le ndoda ayifuni ukuhlangana nami ngenxa yalesi sizathu, futhi lena - ngakolunye uhlangothi. Asazi ukuthi yini emiphefumulweni yabo nokuthi kungani bengathandi ukuzijwayeza. Into eyodwa engifuna ukululeka: ungakhathazeki. Ngemuva kwalokho, akukaziwa: ubani onenhlanhla ukuthi awubonanga?