Manje i-ultrasound ithandwa kakhulu phakathi kwabesifazane abakhulelwe. Kunezizathu eziningi zalokhu. Kuyasiza ukulawula ukuthuthukiswa kwe-fetus, futhi kukutshele ukuthi ubulili bomntwana ongakazalwa. Ngokuvamile, abazali abazayo, lapho bebona ingane e-ultrasound, futhi uma lokhu kuhluke ngokulindela kwabo, cabanga "kuhle futhi okuhle, kodwa okulandelayo kuzoba yindodana" (noma indodakazi). Kukhona iphethini ecacile. Uma unesikhathi sokukhulelwa okwesibili kwenzeka ngonyaka wokuqala, cishe cishe unomntwana wesibili ozalwa ngokobulili obufanayo njengowokuqala. Okusho ukuthi, izingane ezizalwa ngokulandelana kanye nokwahlukana kwaze kwaba unyaka nonyaka cishe zihlale zobulili obufanayo. Ngakho-ke, uma ufuna ukukhulelwa ingane yobulili obuhlukile, kufanele ulinde unyaka noma amabili. Ukulinda kuyadingeka ngoba umzimba wesifazane udinga isikhathi - iminyaka engu-3-5, ukuze ululame ngemuva kokubeletha, ukubeletha nokondla ingane yokuqala. Ikakhulukazi uma ukuzalwa kwakunzima. Uma owesifazane ebeletha isigaba sokudla, ukubeletha kwengane yesibili kufanele futhi kubambezeleke. Ngalesi sikhathi lesi sibeletho sizokhipha uhlamvu olugcwele. Ukukhulelwa kwesibili kufanele kuhlelwe futhi ngaphambi kokuba kufike kubalulekile ukuphendukela kumjozi wezinkinga zokuhlola ukuze uhlole.
Lapho uhlela ukukhulelwa okwesibili, okokuqala, lungiselela umntwana osekhulile kuze kuvele ngokushesha umzalwane noma udadewabo. Kungase kungacacisi ingane ukuthi uMama nobaba badinga izingane ezingaphezu kwakhe. Chaza ukuthi isimo ngeke sishintshe, abazali abazami ukumthatha futhi bazoqhubeka bemthanda njengangaphambili. Qinisekisa ukuthi ukubonakala komzalwane noma udade, ngoba umdala uzoba nezikhathi zabo ezinhle, bazokwazi ukwenza abangane futhi badlale ndawonye.
Abesifazane abaningi bazibuza: Ukukhulelwa kwesibili kuzokwenzeka kanjani? Lesi yisikhathi esibaluleke kakhulu somfazi. Uma, kwaba nesipiliyoni esibi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kokuqala, ngakho-ke kufanele futhi ilahlwe futhi ingadluliselwa kokukhulelwa kwesibili. Zama ukuthola ukuthi kwenzekani, futhi kungani kwenzeka. Zama ukuqeda ukwesaba nokulawula isimo sakho somzwelo. Abaningi besifazane bayaqaphela ukuthi ukukhulelwa kwabo kwesibili kuhluke kakhulu kokuqala. Njengomthetho, uma kungekho izinkinga nezinkinga zempilo, ukukhulelwa kwesibili kuyahamba kalula ngaphezu kokuqala.
Izinguquko ezenzeka ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwesibili zizohluka kusukela kokuqala. Mhlawumbe, ngeke ube ne-toxicosis enjalo, nakuba lokhu kungekhona ngaso sonke isikhathi. Lesi sikhathi, mhlawumbe, uzokhathala kakhulu, ngoba kuzodingeka unakekele ingane yokuqala. Isibeletho singase sibonakale inyanga ngaphambi kokukhulelwa kokuqala, ngoba imisipha yomzimba ayinamandla kakhulu, ithululwa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kokuqala. Izobe itholakala kancane kancane.
Ukushaya indlwabu kwe-fetus kuzozizwa ngokukhulelwa okwesibili ngaphambi kwesonto noma amabili. Ekukhulelweni kokuqala lokhu kwenzeka ngeviki lama-20. Ngakho-ke, ngolwesibili ngeshumi nesishiyagalombili.
Ukuzalwa kwesibili, njengokubusa, kuhamba ngokushesha kunokuqala. Ngakho-ke, uma isikhathi sokukhulelwa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kokuqala sithatha amahora angu-10-12, bese kuba sesibili 6-8. Ekukhulelweni kwesibili akusikho ukulwa okulungiswayo. Ngakho kungokuzalwa ngokwawo.
Ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane yesibili, bonke abesifazane, ngenkathi bedla ingane ezinsukwini zokuqala emva kokubeletha, zizwa izinhlangothi ezibuhlungu kakhulu zesisu. Okungaqapheli ekuzalweni kwamazibulo.
Yiqiniso, njengokungakhulelwa kwabesifazane abahlukile kufana nomunye nomunye, futhi ukukhulelwa komunye wesifazane ofanayo kuhlukile futhi kumuntu ngamunye.
Futhi noma ngabe usenqume ukunikeza impilo eyodwa, khona-ke ukukhulelwa kwakho kwesibili kuzoba lula, kungabi nengozi futhi kufane neholidi.