Ukulungisa ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ezincane

Ingane yakho ikhulile futhi ifuna ukuxhumana nezinye izingane. Ukuphuma kokuqala kuvame ukuhamba egcekeni. Indawo yokudlala yezingane nge-swings, ibhokisi le-sandbox kanye nabakhamuzi abancane iba imodeli encane yomphakathi ophila ngemithetho. Kulapha ukuthi izingane zifunde izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu: vumela, basize, baxoxe, bahlanganyele, baqonde imizwa yabo nabanye.

Cishe ngaso leso sikhathi omama bahlangabezana nokuhlukumeza kwezingane ezincane. Abanye abazali bayesaba futhi abazi ukuthi bangasabela kanjani. Abanye abadala "ukuhlukunyezwa" kwezingane kuyadla. Kodwa-ke, akukho ukuqala kokuqala noma kwesibili ukuphendula okulungile. Lokhu kuziphatha kwezinsana kuyaqondakala, kodwa ukulungiswa kwengxabano yabantwana abancane kuyadingeka.

Ama-hooligans amancane.

Izingane eziningi ezingaphansi kweminyaka emithathu zizama ukwenza indima yecala. Bayaluma, basunduza, baphonsa, bafunga. Abaqondi nje ukuthi yini ebangela ubuhlungu, futhi abazi ukuthi bazizwa kanjani ubuhlungu bomunye umuntu njengabo. Izingane azikwazi ukubhekana nemizwelo yazo okwamanje, zenza ngokuphazamiseka: zathatha ithoyizi - kusho ukuthi umenzi wobugebengu kufanele atshaywe, umshini wesinye isizwe ube nesithakazelo - kulula ukusikhipha ngaphandle kwezandla.

Ukuziphatha okunonya kwezingane ezincane akusizi ngalutho ukujezisa. Abaqondi nje lokho abakuthola kubantu abadala. Ukulungiswa kokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane kuqhutshwa ngaphambi kwesimiso. Akudingekile ukuba uhlale e-sandbox futhi ulawule zonke ukuhamba kwengane. Kwanele ukuhlala eduze nesikhathi sokungenelela empini. Kunoma yikuphi, izingane ngeke zilimale kakhulu. Fundisa ingane yakho ukucela imvume ngaphambi kokuthatha ithoyizi lomunye umuntu. Chaza ukuthi kungani kubalulekile ukulinda isikhathi sakho, kungani kubalulekile ukuphatha izingane ezincane ngokuzidela. Ngokusho kwengqondo, ingane kufanele ifundiswe ukudlala nezinye izingane. Emva kwakho konke, lokhu kuyimbono efanayo yokubamba i-spoon ngokwakho, ukulungisa amathoyizi ngawe, ukuya ebhodweni. Isikhundla sokungaphazanyiswa kuholela eqinisweni lokuthi izingane zihlakulela umqondo wokuvumela. Yiqiniso, izingane ngokwabo zizoqonda, kodwa ukucacisa ubuhlobo kungaba nesihluku.

Uma ingane ilaka.

• Ungamhlukumezi ingane phambi kwamanye abantwana - ukuchaza ingane ngokungalungile, ukuthatha umenzi wobubi eceleni;

• thola izimbangela zokulwa;

• Bonisa bese uchazela ingane imiphumela yokuxabana: "Bheka, ingane ilimazekile futhi ilimaze, uyakhala";

• Qinisekisa ukuthi unikeza izinketho eziningana zokuxazulula impikiswano: buyisela ithoyizi, ukuzisola, ucele intethelelo;

• Chaza indlela yokwenza into efanele: cela imoto, isithembiso sokudlala ndawonye, ​​noma ukushintshanisa amathoyizi.

Ngokuvamile abazali bafundisa izingane ukuba zinike ushintsho. Ngakho, izazi zengqondo zivuma ngokungavumelani ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukwenza lokhu. Ekugcineni, ingane yomakhelwane ngeke ihlupheke, kodwa ingane eyintandokazi. Futhi ekugcineni - abazali ngokwabo. Izingane eziye zafunda ukuxazulula izingxabano ngokuziphatha okubi, sezikhulile, zizigcwalisa "nama-cones" amaningi. Ukuhlukunyezwa kudala ukuhlukumezeka okuqhubekayo, hhayi uthando nokuhlonipha. Ezinganeni ezincane, umqondo othi "ukunikeza ukuguqulwa" awukakabi nomqondo wokuthi "ukuma ngokwakho". Izingane aziqondi ukuthi yiziphi izimo "lokhu" okumele kukhishwe futhi ngukuphi amandla. Ezinganeni kukhona umqondo wezimpikiswano. Bangase baqale 'ukunikeza ushintsho' ngisho nabazali lapho benqabela okuthile, noma ungathengi. Izingane zingena esigabeni se-egoists, futhi kuleso simo esinganakiwe - esigabeni esingenakugwenywa. Indlela engcono kakhulu ukubhekana nabahlukumezi, ukufundisa ingane yokukhulumisana: ukuxazulula izingxabano ngezwi.

Abanikazi abancane.

Umthetho oyinhloko womdlalo nabangane - zonke izinathoyizi zivame okwesikhashana. Wonke umuntu kufanele abe nelungelo lokudlala nanoma yisiphi isitokisi. Kodwa ukuze ukwazi ukwabelana, ingane encane idinga ukufunda. Ezinganeni eminyakeni engu-2-3 umuzwa womnikazi uqala. Umbono "wami" uvela futhi baqala ukufakazela amalungelo abo empahla. Ngezinye izikhathi izingane azikwazi ukuqonda ukuthi amathoyizi athathwa kuphela isikhathi semidlalo, hhayi njalo. Bathukuthele baze bathukuthele. Lapha umsebenzi wabazali wokulungisa ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ezincane kuqala.

Okokuqala, ungabizi ukuthi ingane iyahaha. Phela, usafunda ukuxhumana eqenjini. Mfundise ukuba ahlanganyele. Yenza ukuncoma: unomusa kakhulu, ngakho-ke uqinisekile ukuthi wabelane ngethoyizi namadoda. Cry for sympathy: enye ingane ayinayo ithoyizi enhle kangaka, kodwa ufuna ukuyibeka ezandleni zakhe! Ngokuvamile kunalokho, izingane ziyavuma ukushintshaniswa: unikeza ukudlala ifosho yakho, futhi uzonikezwa isikhunta somhlabathi. Into esemqoka ukuthi izingane kufanele zihlanganyele nokuzingela, hhayi ngaphansi kokuhlaselwa kwabantu abadala. Thokoza futhi udumise ingane lapho enquma ukwabelana ngedoli lakhe eliyintandokazi. Injabulo yakho iyoba ngumvuzo omuhle kakhulu wengane.

Uma ingane ingafuni ukuhlukanisa nempahla, ungamcindezeli. Uma kungenjalo, ingane iyakuthola ukuhlukumeza kabili kwengqondo evela kumama wakhe othandekayo. Okokuqala, uzoba nomuzwa wokuthukuthela futhi ngesikhathi esizayo uzobe esabelana naye ngokuyisidingo. Okwesibili, uzocabanga ukuthi umuntu osondelene naye uthatha uhlangothi lomhlukumezi futhi wamkhaphela. Sisekela njalo ingane yakho! Yiqiniso, ingane kufanele ifunde ukwabelana, kodwa hhayi ukulimaza izithakazelo zakhe. Isikhathi sizofika, futhi uzofunda imithetho yeqembu.

Amathiphu okulungisa ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane.

Okokuqala, omama ngokwabo kufanele bayeke ukubona indawo yokudlala emdlalweni we-sandbox evamile. Yebo, ingane eyintandokazi ingaxoshwa, ithathe ithoyizi noma ichithe i-kurichik. Akunandaba! Okunye ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane kujwayelekile. Isizathu esengeziwe sokufundisa ingane ukuthi isisekelo sokudibanisa.

Okungenani ikona leso, kodwa bukela izingane zidlala. Isimo sokuphikisana singabonakala sibonakala endaweni elinganayo. Into eyinhloko akumele ilahlekelwe yiyona nkinga yenkinga, bese ichaza izingane ukuthi ziziphatha kanjani kahle. Ngaphandle kwakho, ingane ayikwazi ukuthi isihlabathi asilahleki, futhi kuthatha ihora ukuthatha isithuthuthu - ngobugovu.

Nika insizwa inkululeko! Ungayifaki yonke iminithi. Kubalulekile ukushaya ibhalansi phakathi kokuziphatha, nenkululeko yesenzo. Ezinye izinto ingane ewusizo ukuzifunda yona. Okokuthi, okokuqala vumela izingane ngokwazo zixazulula le mpikiswano. Kodwa kufanele uqaphele inkinga, ukuchaza imithetho yokuziphatha, uma izingane zingavumelani kahle.

Ukuphazamiseka komzali kuyadingeka uma ukuziphatha kwengane kungaholela ekulimaleni. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuxazulula izingxabano zezingane kanye nabazali bazo. Ungalokothi uphakamise isandla sakho futhi ungaphakamisi izwi lakho kwelinye ingane. Futhi ngisho nangokwengeziwe - eyakhe! Empikiswaneni nabanye abazali, awukwazi ukuphendulela ekumangaleleni nasekuthukeni kwakho.

Inhlanhla!