Uma uphupha ukuthi usephuzile isitimela noma ibhasi
Kunoma yikuphi, sekuphuzile kakhulu ukufika futhi ngeke ukwazi ukuhamba ithikithi yefomu elikhethiweyo lokuthutha futhi empeleni akusona umcimbi omuhle kakhulu. Kodwa ukuze uhumushe kahle isimo esinjalo ephusheni, umuntu kufanele akhumbule ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngalezi zenzakalo, nakuba ngokuvamile lokhu mbono kusho ukuthi umuntu kufanele abukeze ngokubaluleka kokuphila kwakhe kuqala.
- Ukufeza okufunayo, umuntu obona iphupho elinjalo, uvele engenakho ukuzibamba kanye nekhono lokuhlela isikhathi sakhe. Uma ufuna kakhulu ukufezekisa imigomo ebekiwe, udinga ukuzibamba ngesandla futhi ubeke phambili phambili.
- Uma ngabe ulahlekelwe ngamabomu isitimela noma isitimela, ukubambezela isikhathi sokushiya indlu, khona-ke unabaza ngokungathí sina mayelana nokufaneleka kwesinqumo. Zama futhi ukukala zonke izinzuzo nokuqapha futhi ubuyekeze isinqumo sokuqeda unembeza othukuthelayo.
- Uma owesifazane noma owesifazane elahlekelwa ngeso lengqondo isitimela noma ibhasi, usuke ecindezeleke kakhulu futhi akafuni ukuxazulula izinkinga zakhe. Kodwa ibhuku lephupho lixwayisa ngokuthi ukutholakala okuqhubekayo esimweni esinjalo kungaholela ekutheni le nsizwa encane ayikwazi ukubuyela esiteshini evamile esebenzayo, uma ingasheshe iqale ukusebenza ukuze iphinde ithole ukuthula kwengqondo.
- Insizwa ephuze isitimela kufanele ibuke ngokubaluleka kokuphila kwakhe okubalulekile. Kudingeka sihlole ngempela isimo sezinto futhi sinqume ukuthi inkampani yamanje iyakuthinta kanjani isimo sezinto.
- Ngemuva kwesitimela, kodwa kusenesikhathi sokuthi, lo mphupho uzothatha izinyathelo ezingenakwenzeka ukufeza okufunayo.
Kungani ukuphuza kokuphuza ukutadisha noma umhlangano obalulekile?
Isakhiwo esinjalo sisho ukuthi empeleni umphuphi akanelisekile ngokukhulumisana futhi wazizwa nomuzwa wokulahlwa nokungabi nalutho. Kodwa into kuphela yokusola yilo mphupho ngokwakhe. Ngakho-ke, ukumisa isimo esingathandeki kuyoba umuntu obone iphupho.
Ukuphuza usuku kungumxwayiso wokuthi akufanele ugijimise ukuthuthukiswa kwezenzakalo ekuphileni kwakho komuntu siqu. Hlola ngokucophelela okhethiweyo wakho, ukuze ungakhathazeki esikhathini esizayo ukuthi imizwa yomlingani wakho owawuhlala naye yayingekho ejulile.
Ukuphelelwa isikhathi emsebenzini noma ukutadisha kusho ukuthi ukhokha kakhulu umsebenzi wakho. Uma uqhubeka futhi uqhubeka kulo moya, khona-ke ungakwazi ukuletha ukuphazamiseka kwemizwa noma ukhathala. Zama ukuba mnandi kancane futhi uphumule.
Ngesikhathi ephusheni usephuzile kakhulu ngomcimbi obalulekile, khona-ke lo mbono kufanele uphathwe kahle. Mhlawumbe, izindaba ezibalulekile ezihleliwe ngeke ziphele ngokuphumelelayo ngendlela ongathanda ngayo. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukudlulisela kwenye usuku noma okungenani ngesinye isikhathi.
Lokhu kuhunyushwa kuqinisekiswa ngubufakazi babantu abasinda ekuhluphekeni kweshumi nanye kaSeptemba. Abaningi babo baphupha ukuthi sebephuzile ngomcimbi othile obalulekile, ngakho ngosuku olulandelayo bashiya indlu kancane kancane, futhi ngenxa yalokho baba izisulu zokuhlaselwa kwamaphekula.