Okushiwo iphupho owazibonela wena noma intombi yakho egqokeni lomshado Ngokuvamile umfanekiso wesintombazane esembatho yomshado uthathwa njengophawu lokuguquka kokuphila, izenzakalo ezintsha kanye nesikhathi esimnandi ngenkampani yabangane abasha. Kodwa njengoba amaphupho ethu ahlukene kakhulu, kunezincazelo eziningi ezincwadini zephupho.
Ukuzibona ngengubo yomshado
- Okokuqala, iphupho elinjalo lifaka izinguquko ezinkulu empilweni. Kungenzeka ukuthi uzonikezwa ukwenza umsebenzi womunye umuntu, ngenxa yokuthi awukwazi nje kuphela abantu obaziyo, kodwa futhi uzoqhubeka nokuhamba.
- Ukubona ukuthi ingubo yomshado ingcolile phambi kwamehlo akho, ufakaza ukuthi lo mphupho uzobhekana nezinkinga ezinkulu. Amathuba okugula okujulile noma okuqhubekayo noma ngisho nokuhlinzwa kuphakeme.
- Encwadini yephupho likaMiller ibhaliwe, ukuphupha ukugqoka ingubo yomshado, uthembisa uhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi womphakathi, ukugcwaliseka kwalo okuyoletha injabulo kanye nabangane abaningi abasha.
- Uma izingubo zakho zomshado ziphelile, futhi ikakhulu uma ziqhekekile, kufanele ulungiselele ikhefu ebuhlotsheni nomngane oseduze kakhulu.
- Uma ephusheni wambethe izingubo zakho zomshado ngokwakho noma ngandlela-thile washintsha isithombe esivele sitholakale, khona-ke kufanele ugweme ukuveza amacebo akho esikhathini esizayo, njengoba abanye bengavimbela ukuqaliswa kwazo.
- Iphupho ozama ngalo ngendwangu yomshado futhi uyakuthanda ukuzindla kwakho isikhathi eside, khona-ke uzoba nethuba lokuthola imali eyengeziwe, engeke ulethe imali ebonakalayo kuphela, kodwa futhi injabulo.
- Ukuzama ingubo yomshado ephusheni, futhi, kufanele kunakekelwe kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukuthi kungokwakho. Uma izingubo zingaphandle, khona-ke ungase ube nezinkinga emkhakheni wezinsimu nokuphila kobulili komuntu ogqokile.
Intombi esembathweni somshado
Ukukhuluma ngokuvamile, umshado womngane ephupheni akuyona isibonakaliso esihle kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-merrier iholide, okungeyona into engalindelekile ukulinda omaziyo.
- Ukubona intombazane egqoke ingubo yomshado akuyona into emhle kuye. Kungabangela ukuxabana komndeni, ukuxabana nomuntu othandekayo noma ukugula.
- Iphupho lapho ubona intombi yakho eshada khona ngengubo enhle yeqhwa elimhlophe izocabangela kabi impilo yakho. Kungcono ukuhlolisisa othandekayo, ngoba angeke abe mnandi-njengalokhu ucabanga.
Intombazane engaziwa esembatho yomshado
- Ukubona owesifazane ocansini emdlalweni womshado omhlophe ephusheni uphathwa ngendlela ehlukile. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kusho ukuthi uhaqwe ngabantu abanomusa nabanomusa, futhi ngakolunye uhlangothi, kufanele ubheke kakhulu, ngoba kungase kungabi nengozi njengoba ucabanga.
- Uma owesifazane ebona intombazane egqoke ingubo yomshado ephusheni, angathathwa ukuze athole amaphrojekthi amasha, njengoba ithemba lakhe kanye nezifiso zakhe ngokuqinisekile kuzomholela empumelelweni.
- Indoda engashadile ngemva kwephupho, lapho kwakukhona khona owesifazane osemncane esembathweni somshado, angalindela ukubona umhlangano osheshayo nomuntu ongaziwa kahle futhi uqale ubudlelwane obuseduze.
- Abesifazane baphupha ngomlobokazi ongajwayelekile emgodweni womshado kubonisa ukuthi umphuphi ngokwakhe akafuni ukubeka imizwa yakhe embukisweni futhi ukhetha ukufihla imizwa. Futhi lokhu kuyiqiniso ngokuphelele, ngoba ezincwadini eziningi zephupho umgcobo womshado omhlophe awufaneli nje ukuhlanzeka kuphela kodwa nokunyathelisa kwezitha ezifihliwe kanye nabantu abanobukhwele, futhi ukugcinwa kwezinhloso zabo ekusithekeni kungabonisa ukungabi khona kwezinkinga.
