Kungaphezu kwamadoda asicebile manje asebaningi, kusukela ezincane ngisho nakancane ukucebisa amadoda amadala. Kodwa-ke, ukujwayelana nendoda ecebile - lo msebenzi kunzima kakhulu kunokuba kubonakale ekuboneni kuqala. Ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi usesho lwakho lube yimpumelelo futhi aluzange luholele ekudumeni, udinga ukwazi izicabha eziyisisekelo zokuzijwayeza abanikazi bekhredithi elimnyama.
Indawo yokuhlala »abantu abacebile
I-intanethi
Esikhathini senethiwekhi yomhlaba wonke amasayithi okuthandana, amanethiwekhi omphakathi, amaforamu, amakamelo okuxoxa, amabhulogi nezinye izinsiza ezithakazelisayo ezinikezwe ekusesheni ingxenye yesibili, kufaka phakathi kwabacebile kakhulu. Kodwa kukhona namaphutha. Isibonelo, amasayithi amaningi adalwe kuphela ukulanda ulwazi lwakho lomuntu siqu ukuze uthole inzuzo yakhe, ngenkathi efihla ngemuva kwesikrini semithombo yewebhu ekhangayo ukuthola umyeni ocebile. Ukuze ungabi yizinkampani zamasayithi anjalo, kufanele ufunde ngokucophelela izimpendulo mayelana nomsebenzi wakhe kumasayithi wesithathu futhi uqaphele ukutholakala kwamazwana "bukhoma". Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunelungelo lokukhohliswa: ngaphansi kwesimo somuntu omukeka ohlekayo ohlala emzini we-villa kanye ne-Mercedes S-ekilasini, umculi u-Quasimodo Lovelace angafihla.
AmaClub of motorists
Isibonelo, amaqembu amaningi abalandeli bezimpahla ezithile zezimoto ngokuvamile ahlela imicimbi ehlukahlukene, abambe imihlangano njalo emaphaketheni, emabhasini noma ezindaweni ezivulekile zokuzilibazisa nokuzijabulisa. Ngemuva kokujoyina umphakathi onjalo, kunamathuba amaningi okuthola indoda ethakazelisayo eye yahlala isikhathi eside inquma ngombuzo wokuthi ungazivikela kanjani kanye nekusasa lakhe.
Izifundo nokuqeqesha
Ukuze bathuthukise amakhono abo, lapho umuntu abe ngumuntu ophumelelayo, uvame ukuhambela izinhlobo ezahlukene zemicimbi ehlelwe ukuthuthukisa amakhono athile ochwepheshe. Ama-Seminar ekukhuleni komuntu siqu, izifundo zokukhulumisana, ukuqeqeshwa ekulawuleni imithombo kanye nokuphathwa kwesikhathi kuqoqa abantu abaningi abafisa futhi abafisa abaye bazuza imiphumela ebalulekile empilweni yabo. Umthetho oyisisekelo wokuziphatha - kubalulekile ukuthi uhlanganyele kuphela uma kukhona ukuqwashisa okuhle kwezihloko ezixoxwa ngazo kanye nokuhlanganyela okusebenzayo enkulumweni yenkulumo.
Imibukiso, amaqembu omphakathi, ama-reception
Ezindaweni ezinjalo, njengombuso, kukhona abantu abacebile, abasebenzi abaphumelelayo bezinkampani ezinamandla. Ukubukeka ngokweqile nokukhulumisana okungahambi kahle - ngenxa yalokho, kunamakhadi ebhizinisi kanye nabanye othintana nabo abangakhula abe indebe yekhofi nemiphumela oyifunayo.
Imikhosi yemikhosi ehloniphekile, ukudla kwezinsuku zebhizinisi ezindaweni zokudlela ezibizayo
Izindawo eziningi ezithandwayo zokuvakashela izikhulu, abaqondisi bezinkampani, abagijimi nabanye abantu abacebile. Kulezi zikhungo ezinjalo imihlangano engahlelekile yenziwa, izingxoxo, lapha izinkampani zamadoda zijwayelekile. Amathuba aphezulu ekujwayelana nomuntu othakazelisayo ongaba ngumsizi.
Indlela yokuheha umuntu ocebile?
Ukuthola umyeni ocebile kungakapheli impi, usafuna ukuthanda. Ukubukeka okungenakwenzeka kuyisimo esibalulekile, njengoba la madoda ezingelwa nsuku zonke futhi kufanele akhethe kubo. Ingqondo efihlekile, ukudlala ngothando, ikhono lokulalela indoda, ukukhanya kwekhono lomfazi kuzowengeza ekwakhekeni kwakho nokuheha futhi kwandise amathuba okuba uthande umuntu ocebile oyithandayo. Kodwa-ke, kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuthi leyo ngqikithi isinezinhlangothi ezimbili futhi akuzona zonke izinto ezingahle zingeneke kumuntu ocebile.
Imikhuba nokuqeda ukumazi umuntu ocebile
Inzuzo ephelele yisimo sakhe. Ngenxa yalokhu, umngane womuntu onjalo udinga lutho futhi akaphiki lutho. Ngokuvamile, awukwazi ukusebenza nhlobo, unike isikhathi sokugcina izindlu kanye nezingane, kanye nomgcini wendlu nomhlengikazi, zizinikele ekukhulumisaneni nabangani, bethenga nokuvakashela ama-salon kanye namaqembu ezemidlalo. Amanye ama-pluses ayenziwe ngabanye futhi ancike enhlanhleni yakho, ngoba cishe zonke izikhwama zemali - abantu abaziphethe ngokwengqondo futhi bezibuyisela ngokungenangqondo.
Kunezinamba ezingenakwenzeka. Ngokuvamile abantu abacebile banokuxhumana ohlangothini, kuzomele babeke. Umthombo wemali ngumsebenzi wakhe, cishe njalo endaweni yokuqala, ngakho-ke isizungu sinokuqinisekiswa. Kukhona ukuthembela okukhulu emandleni akhe nangamandla emali yakhe, okwenza kube ngcono abantu ukuthi bangcono. Uma ucindezela ubudlelwane nomuntu ocebile ukuba ube munye owodwa, khona-ke umuntu ongcono kakhulu futhi onolwazi angakwazi ukubona amagama omunye wabafazi bamakhosikazi: "Akukho uthando, kodwa kukhona okunye okunye". Kodwa ngokujwayelekile, konke kusemthethweni futhi kungcono ukwakha impilo yakho ngesimiso esithi "ungazami - angazi". Ithuba lokuthola indoda ehloniphekile, ethembekile nehloniphekile kusukela enombeni yokuphumelela nokucebile kufanele ibe yilowo nalowo wesifazane.