Kwakungokwehluke kakhulu kumatafula ethu amnandi, futhi ukudala isikhathi semikhosi yomshado yendabuko. Kodwa uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi umshado wombhangqwana waseRussia ku-Diaspora uqhubeka kanjani, funda lesi sihloko. Ngizozama ukwenza umgomo futhi ngitshele ngokuningiliziwe ngezibonelo engizifundile, ukuthi umshado uhamba kanjani e-USA.
EMelika, konke kunomsebenzi webhizinisi elihlelwe kahle futhi elibhaliwe, umshado futhi. Nakuba iqala, njengoba senza, ngokuqaphela abathandi, futhi ukungathí sina kwezinhloso kuqinisekiswa ubufakazi obubonakalayo - indleko ebiza kusukela ezinkulungwaneni ezingu-500 kuya eziningana, noma ngaphezulu kwamahora. Ingxenye eyinhloko yalo mhlobiso idayimane, lapho umakoti ebonisa konke ngokuziqhenya, futhi bayathuthumela futhi babubula: "Oh ... enhle!"
Ngemva kwalokho, imindeni ijwayele usuku lomshado ngokwawo kanye nendawo yomshado. Kusukela ngaphambi komshado ngokuvamile kusekhona unyaka noma ngisho nezikhathi ezimbili - abantu abasha abagcini nje ukubhuka ekamelweni, bavumelane ngesonto noma kuphi lokhu kuzokwenzeka khona (ngokuvamile umshado usegumbini elikhethekile lehhotela noma epaki, endaweni yokuhlala, njll) , kodwa futhi uyavumelana ngesikhathi nendawo yokuhamba okudingekayo ngemuva kokuhamba, okuyinto kusengaphambili ithenge amathikithi bese ubhala ihhotela. Ngaphezu kwalokho, imibhangqwana eminingi iqala ukufuna indlu noma indlu yokuhlala ukuze kuhlale ndawonye.
Cishe ngemva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha, labo abasanda kushada bazisa izihlobo nabangane babo ngalolu daba, bethumela yonke iphakheji ngemilayezo: kuphi futhi nini lomshado, amathuba okuhamba nokuqashisa amahotela, indlela umshado ozobanjelwa ngayo, futhi kubaluleke kakhulu, uhlu lwezipho ezifiswayo, okubonisa ukuthi zingalawulwa. Isimemo siphinde sihambisane nevilophuphu ehlukile kanye nekhadi okufanele libuyiselwe ngaphambi komkhawulo wokugcina, ukukwazisa emshadweni noma cha kanye nesiphi isipho ongayithenga ... Isimemo somshado wombhangqwana waseRussia ngokuvamile sinamabonakude athile aseSlavic. Isibonelo, muva nje mina nomyeni wami senza izimemo ngesithombe sesonto laseRashiya kanye nezimpawu ezicacile, njengoba labo abasanda kushada behlelwa futhi beshada eRussia, nakuba lomshado wenziwa e-United States.
Endaweni ethile yenyanga umakoti uthumela isimemo kubangani abasondelene nabo ukuba bahlanganyele "ku-schauver" (party hen) futhi kumnandi kumfana. Angazi ukuthi kusemini kusihlwa, ngoba kukhona abantu abamenywa khona kuphela, kodwa "emibhoshongweni" yabashadikazi ngangiphindaphindiwe. Lokhu ikakhulukazi isidlo nokuhlanganyela kwezintombi nezihlobo noma izintombi zomlobokazi. Zonke izivakashi kufanele zize nezipho. Lena inqubo endala yaseMelika. Njengoba abahlali bokuqala babeyizifiki ezimbi kakhulu, baletha izinto ezidingekayo kakhulu embhangqwaneni osemusha - ithawula, isitsha, i-spoon ...
Ngesonto lomshado womngane, ngokuvamile kuvamise ama-3-4, ama-godparents kanye nabazali bashadile bahlangana endaweni lapho umkhosi womshado uzokwenzeka khona, ukuphindaphindiwe ngokuphindaphindiwe komshado. Konke kufanele kwenziwe ngemiyalelo kanye nencazelo evela kumpristi noma kumshushisi. Khona-ke kukhona isidlo esiphundu endaweni yokudlela enhle - le ngxenye yokuphindaphindiwe ithandwa kakhulu wonke umuntu okhona!
Umshado wase-United States unezici eziningi emshadweni wethu waseRussia - isinkwa ezandleni zabaninikazi bomzimba nezithombe, isifungo esikhulu, umqhele emakhanda alabo abasanda kushada, ukubopha ngethawula noma ishidi, ukumboza ithawula phambi kwe-analo, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - ukucula okuhle (ngokuvamile umculi umenywe ngalokhu noma ngisho namalungu ebhande elidumile le-bandura, konke okungeyona imikhosi nje kuphela, kodwa futhi nezivakashi ezihlaba umxhwele kwamanye amazwe, ngendlela, imikhuba yomshado wase-Ukraine owenziwe kumafilimu amaningana aseHollywood. lo mbhangqwana futhi ilungu lomndeni elisondelene nawe uzokwenzani isithombe endaweni ethile phakathi nemvelo. (Wedding e-US senzeka ngaphandle leli siko).
Okwamanje, izivakashi zilinde isikhathi esimisiwe sokufika ehholo elihlotshisiwe, lapho emnyango khona kuboniswa amakhadi ngamagama abo kanye nezinombolo zetafula ukuze wonke umuntu azi lapho indawo yakhe ikhona khona. Ekamelweni lokugubha kukhona netafula elikhethekile lezipho ezinebhokisi lezimvilophu ezinesifiso nemali. Izivakashi zingena ehholo, zithole izihlalo zazo, ziya emgodini futhi zihlelele okuthile okuzophuza ... Khona-ke ummemezeli usimema ukuba sihlale ematafuleni, itafula eliphakathi kwedais - kulabo abasanda kushada nomngani. Abazali bomkhwenyana nomkhwenyana beza kuqala ehholo, bese bebambisene ngamabili, futhi nangu umzuzu ohloniphekile: "Nkosikazi noMnu M" - izilaleli zihlabelela, zikhala, zimemeza ukuhlangana nabancane abaya ezindaweni zabo phakathi kwetafula elikhulu. Wonke umuntu uthele ingilazi yewayini - isinkwa sokuqala sokushada ...
Yiziphi izitsha ezihanjiswayo - Ngikutshele kakade. Yiqiniso, isibonelo sithathwe emshadweni okwenzeka eHalloween - uhlobo lomkhosi wemimoya yemimoya. Kusuka lapho futhi izingubo ezimnyama zingumngane, nakuba ngokuvamile ziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, obomvu obomvu, obomvu, kuye ngokuthi yini intombazane ayithandayo. Izambatho zabancane zijwayelekile ezimhlophe, kodwa ngokuvamile zinezici zohlobo lwe-embroidery yabantu noma zenziwe ngezinhloso zomuntu.
Akukho ukudla okuningi kulo mkhosi. Ukufika okusha okuvela kulokho okuthiwa ingxube yesine kusanda kwenziwa izinguquko kwimenyu - ematafuleni ongabona okungahlosiwe kokudla okulula, kodwa isitsha esishisayo ngokuvamile siyisinye. Futhi manje, ngaphezu kwekhekhe lomshado wendabuko, bahlanganyela isinkwa futhi bakhonza izinhlobo eziningi zama-cookies. Umshado wase-US awufani
Uqale ukucula izingoma. Ngemuva kwalokho, akudlule isikhathi esidlule kwakukhona ukudansa kuphela ... Kodwa-ke! Abantu abasha emiphakathini yaseRashiya bangase bangakhulumi isiRussia, kodwa ngokuzithandela bathatha izifundo ngokudlala i-bandura nokufunda izidume eziningi. Ngakho-ke ukuncintisana okuphawulekayo kwabadansi cishe yonke imishado yaseRussia. Kusukela emidlalweni evela ekhaya, ethandwa kakhulu yisigqoko sesandla sowesifazane osemusha ekupheleni komdlalo ojabulisayo. Ngokuvamile umshado uphela cishe ngo-12 ekuseni, labo abasanda kushada baya eholidini, futhi intombazane eye yabamba izimbali zomshado amaphupho omshado wayo, okumele kwenzeke maduzane.
R.S. Ngokungangabazeki, lena incazelo ejwayelekile yomshado eMelika. Emiphakathini emikhulu yase-Ukraine, imishado inezici eziningi zendabuko zase-Ukraine, emadolobheni amancane noma emiphakathini lapho inzalo yabokufika kuqala ihlala khona, amasiko aseRussia asele kuphela emcimbini wesonto. Noma kunjalo, isikhathi ngasinye abahlanganyeli bomkhosi bakhumbula umshado onjalo njengomcimbi othakazelisayo kakhulu.