Ingozi yobuhlobo nge-intanethi.
Njengoba sishilo ngenhla, ngokuvamile inkaba ngokusebenzisa inethiwekhi yomhlaba wonke ithatha incazelo yezocansi. Futhi yikuphi okuthakazelisa kakhulu, inani labantu abaxhasile "ubudlelwane obuseduze" njalo ngonyaka luba njalo. Ngelinye igama, inani lamanveveli alungile likhula ngokuthuthuka kwejometri, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, abantu bezinhlobo ezahlukene zeminyaka, isimo, njalonjalo bangahlanganyela kulobu buhlobo. Bonke baqiniseka ngokuqinile ekuxhumaneni okunjalo, bathi, kungani uhamba endaweni ethile, ubuke noma ulinde? Futhi amanoveli anjalo aphethwe ngokuphelele futhi awadingi ama-echoes angenalutho. Kunabantu ababili kuphela abaxhunywe ngumqapha wekhompiyutha kanye neWorld Wide Web. Ngendlela, futhi akekho ozokwazi mayelana nokungathembeki okubonakalayo, ngisho noma unomngane wangempela wokuphila. Yini ongenayo inkomba enamandla enekhanda ukuze ungene ku-"adventure adventure" engavumelekile? Kulungile, kodwa ukuthi ngabe amanovelini alungile asalokhu ayingozi, bambalwa kakhulu abantu abacabanga ngakho. Futhi yini ongayisho, kodwa ongenacala, ekuboneni kuqala, ngothando noma uthando kungaba nemiphumela emibi.
Naphezu konke okulula kobudlelwane obuseduze, izazi ze-psychologists zisho ukuthi iyinveli yendalo (kufaka phakathi ubulili obubonakalayo) okungesilimaza abaningi esicabanga ngakho. Futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyingozi kubantu. Ingozi enjalo ingabangela ukulimaza kakhulu abantu abanenkinga yokuzimela, abangakwazi ukuhlela impilo yabo siqu futhi abathintekayo kakhulu kumlingani wabo obonakalayo. Kulesi simo, umphumela ungaba nezinkinga ezihlukahlukene zengqondo, kuze kufike ekuthuthukisweni kokuziqhenya futhi ngisho nangokwe-schizophrenia.
Ngokuvumelana nazo zonke izazi zengqondo, ukuxhomekeka kwireveli evamile ngokuvamile kungabi yingozi kakhulu kunalokho, isibonelo, ukugembula, ukuphanga, ukubhema, nokubhema nokunye. Ngendlela, lo mlutha we-intanethi kunzima kakhulu ukuwuqeda.
Ukulahlekelwa kwamakhono okuxhumana .
Uma umuntu ongenawo umlingani ongunaphakade empilweni yangempela, ukhetha ubuhlobo obunjalo, lokhu akusho ukuthi ukulingana okunjalo akuyingozi kuye. Ngezinye izikhathi inoveli enjalo ingaba yisikhubekiso ekwakheni ubudlelwane bangempela. Okokuqala, lokhu kubangelwa ukuthi umlingani obonakalayo ngokuvamile ubonakala ku-interlocutor wakhe njengendlela ekahle. Yingakho umuntu eqala ukukholelwa ekutheni ubani "ongakolunye uhlangothi lomqapha" futhi akafuni ukushintsha noma yini. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma intombazane noma umfana ehlala "elenga" kwinethiwekhi, amathuba abo okuthola umlingani wangempela ancishiswa kakhulu. Futhi ikhono lokuxhumana nabantu "kwabaphilayo" lilahlekile kakhulu.
Abakwa-scammers abancane .
Iveli enenethiwekhi nayo iyingozi ngoba umuntu ofuna umlingani wangempela uthintana nomuntu ozenza sengathi ungumunye umuntu. Isibonelo, umuntu ongathandeki kakhulu kuwe futhi owaziyo angakha kalula i-akhawunti entsha futhi avele ngaphambi kwakho umuntu ohluke ngokuphelele futhi othembisayo. Ngakho-ke, uholelwa ekukhohlisweni okunjalo, kodwa ngokushesha uzobona iqiniso lonke. Yebo, ukuthi ungayeka ukuxhumana nalo muntu, kodwa isimo esiphukile sengqondo asihambanga ngaso leso sikhathi.
Lapha kungenzeka ukuthi ubhekise nalabo okuthiwa abaphangi bomshado. Kodwa-ke, lokhu, esimweni lapho ubala khona ukuthi uthando lwakho lwangempela luyoba nokuqhubeka empilweni yangempela. Uhlelo lomsebenzi olunjalo lube lula futhi lunamathempulethi alo: indoda enomusa ekukhulumisaneni idonsela abesifazane abaningana, ibafake ngemilayezo yomuntu siqu, isibonelo, ku-ICQ, ithole ukuzethemba kwabo ngokugcwele. Ngemva kwesikhashana, uthando lwe-intanethi, oluboshiwe ngobuhlakani, luba yisiphakamiso sokuqhubeka nokuxhumana empilweni yangempela. Kulesi simo, akukho lutho olungasabisayo, ngoba uthando lwakho luye lwahlala isikhathi esithile, ngakho kungani ungazi kangcono? Umuntu othakazelisayo, okwamanje, uhambela amadolobha, ehambela izintombi zakhe ezithandekayo futhi engathatha izinhliziyo zabo kuphela, kodwa futhi nemali.
Uhlelo oluhle nolwazi ngobuqili .
Inoveli enobungozi iyingozi kwimeko ehlukile kubantu. Isibonelo, indoda ijwayele ukujwayela owesifazane, ngenxa yokukhulumisana kwakhe okuhlakaniphileyo, isondelene naye, ekugcineni ubuhlobo babo buba ngothando lwe-intanethi kanye nobulili obufanayo kanye nothando. Kodwa uma kuziwa emhlanganweni wangempela, owesifazane uyavuma konke, kuphela imali. Ngakho-ke, le ndoda iba umxhasi wayo ngoba iqiniso lokuthi ezingeni elingenasisindo selivele lixhomeke kulona wesifazane.
Ngendlela, lapha ungabandakanya ubuhlobo obunjalo nabathandi bezinhlobonhlobo zobulili "zokwenza ucwaningo". Abalingani abanjalo abalingani bakhethwe ngokucophelela nge-intanethi "abahlukumezekile" futhi bamenza abe nokuhlukunyezwa kwengqondo, okuyingozi kakhulu kunezingcingo ze-Inthanethi. Ngakho khumbula, ngaphambi kokuba uqale inanethi enjalo, cabanga ngakho bese uhlola umlingani wakho omusha we-virtual ngazo zonke izindlela.
Kodwa-ke, akuwona wonke amanoveli e-Intanethi aphethe umphumela odabukisayo, ngoba umuntu ngamunye unesifiso nesifiso sakhe esiyimfihlakalo, angakwazi ukubona kuphela emhlabeni wezwe futhi ngenxa yalokhu, uthole ukuphumula okufunayo. Into esemqoka ukulalela futhi ukwazi kahle umuntu oxhumana naye!