Ukuthandana ngokobulili nokuqapha kubhekwa njengenye yezindlela ezivame kakhulu zokuxhumana okungavumelani phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane. Uma wazi "ulimi lomzimba wakho" kahle, ungakwazi kalula ukuthakazelisa noma yimuphi ummeli wobulili obuhlukile ngaphandle kwamazwi angadingekile.
Ukuthinta ngokocansi owesifazane
Ngokuphathelene nokuziphatha ngokocansi nokuzibandakanya kwabesifazane, izinganekwane zakhiwa. Kodwa, njengomthetho, lokhu kunezici zayo ezikhethekile. Kunezenzo eziningi zobulili. Thina, nathi, sifuna ukukutshela mayelana nezetshenzisiwe kakhulu.
Ngakho-ke, uma owesifazane efuna ukunxusa umuntu futhi amthabise, ku-arsenal yakhe kunezinyathelo eziningi ezahlukene ezibandakanya ukuziphatha kobulili okulandelayo.
Ukunyakaza kobulili ukuheha:
- ukunyakaza okulula nokubushelela kwesandla, ukuze ulungise izinwele noma izingubo zakhe;
- ukunyakaza kwekhanda elibukhali, ukuze ugcwalise izinwele zakho emuva (ubude bezinwele nezitayela akunandaba);
- Ukuphonsa ikhanda kanye nokuthambekela kwayo okulandelayo;
- ngesikhathi umama ehlezi, uhamba kancane kancane futhi awele imilenze yakhe;
- sishaya ngosizo lwendondo, ithole noma ithanga;
Izenzo zobulili ezithi indoda idonsela owesifazane ngendlela yobulili:
- imilenze ehlukanisiwe kancane, engaxhomeki ukuthi ngabe le ndoda iyimi noma ihlezi;
- ama-ankles awela;
- izinguquko ezibushelelezi esimweni sezinyawo - ukugxila kancane komlenze kuya enyaweni, bese ubabuyisa kancane esimweni sabo sokuqala;
- le nkosikazi isakaza amabele akhe;
- ukubukeka obuseduze okuncane, ukuhlanganiswa kokubukeka nokumomotheka;
- umlomo ovulekile kancane, izindebe ezincane ezinomswakama;
- ukuthula okuphansi nokuphansi kwezwi;
- ubulili bushaya isandla sezinto ezinhlobonhlobo ezinesimo se-cylindrical;
- ukusetshenziswa okubonakalayo phambi kwe-lipstick yesilisa;
- ngenkathi ingxoxo nendoda, le nkosikazi incike kancane ekuqondeni kwayo;
- ukuboniswa kwesihenqo sowesifazane nesikhumba esithambile nesicwebekayo sezandla. Lokhu kusikisela ukuthi njengomlingani wezocansi, indoda engaphezu kokumheha.
Izenzo zokubonisa ukuthi le ndoda ikhululekile nale ndoda:
- endaweni yokuhlala, owesifazane uguqule umlenze owodwa ngaphansi kwakhe;
- ukuthungatha izicathulo ematheni ezinzwane. Ngendlela, inzwane yejazi noma iphuzu lamadolo kulo mzuzu nje liqondiswa kuphela kumuntu;
Izenzo zobulili ezithakazelisayo:
- Ngakho-ke, owesifazane uyamamatheka, ehlisa amajwabu amehlo akhe, ubheka kude;
- owesifazane uthinta isandla somunye umuntu kancane noma uzama ukuhlala eduze naye ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi
I-Bella ne-sexy gait ingabasiza ngempumelelo owesifazane ukufihla amaphutha akhe futhi abonise sonke isithunzi salo.
Inzuzo enjalo yowesifazane ngokuqondile ixhomeke ekuthunjweni nasezicathulweni. Ngendlela, kufakwe ukuhlelwa okuhlelekile okulula ukuthi owesifazane ufunde ukuhamba ngokocansi.
Phakathi nalokhu kuhamba, akufanele ugcine umhlane wakho kuphela, kodwa nekhanda lakho futhi.
Enye imfihlo yokuhamba okuhle nokuya ocansini kuyisimo esifanele sonyawo, amasokisi ahamba kancane ngezindlela ezihlukile. Izithende kufanele zihambe ngomugqa owodwa oqondile.
Kubuye kubhekwe njengesenzo socansi:
- hhayi ukuhamba ngokushesha;
- phambili imilenze, bese umzimba;
- Izinyathelo ezimbalwa ezingafaniswa namadoda. Ngendlela, usayizi wesinyathelo esifanele kufanele ulingane nobukhulu bomunwe ongathuthuki.
Uma intombazane igqoke izithende, kufanele iqale isithende. Ekhuluma ngezithende, kubalulekile ukuqaphela iqiniso lokuthi akubona bonke abesifazane abakwazi ukuhamba kuzo. Kulula kakhulu kulabo besifazane abanemilenze yabo. Kodwa uma owesifazane ehamba izithende ngemilenze enezinhlangothi ezinhlanu, kubonakala kungenangqondo futhi kungeyona insizi. Kulesi simo, kungcono ukuyeka izicathulo ezinezithende eziphakeme. Futhi into eyodwa, ukuhamba okungalungile nokugubha ngokuvamile kubonisa ukuthi owesifazane akavikelekile.
Futhi ekugcineni, ngifuna ukusho ukuthi wonke umuntu uphenduka ngokuhlukumezeka ekuthandweni komuntu wesifazane omuhle kanye nezenzo zocansi. Kodwa wonke owesifazane ungumuntu oyedwa, ukuziphatha kwakhe nokuzibonakalisa kwakhe kungumuntu siqu futhi ungasho "izikhali" ezikhethekile, okumele ukwazi ukuzisebenzisa ngokufanele ngezinhloso zokuzikhethela! Khumbula ukuthi ukuphathwa ngokocansi nokuzibonakalisa akuyona inqubo okudingeka ufunde, lezi zifiso!