Ifoni ayithuli - futhi angizange ngibize, kepha ngithembisile. Kakade inyanga ayifiki kumaqembu wethu we-hen esikhungweni sakho sezintandokazi, kodwa uyashesha emva komsebenzi ekhaya. Mbize kusihlwa - ukudumazeka okukodwa: le ngxoxo ephuthumayo ingxoxo, ukungezwani, njengomdlali ngaphambi kwe-barbell ye-bar. Amantombazane athi "silahlekile ...". Ngandlela-thile ngidabukile futhi ngithuka, nakuba udinga ukujabula - ngoba umngane unomuntu ...
Imvelo ehlakaniphile, isinika ikhono lokuthanda, isinike izindlela zokuzivikela kulo mzwelo, ngakho-ke lapho indoda ivela khona, abesifazane abaningi bayabhekene nokubhekana nokuxazulula izinto eziza kuqala: umngane noma othandekayo. Futhi manje hlola enhliziyweni yakho futhi uvume ngokwethembeka kuwe - ungubani oseduze nawe?
Ngivele ngizwa ukuthukuthela: "Akekho umuntu ongafanelanga ukuhlukana nabangane!". Futhi uma lokhu kuyi-FAVORITE kanye nomuntu ONYE kuphela? Yilokho okwakungomunye wabangane bami. Njengoba ngikhumbula, akusikho enye yezinhlawulo zethu ezenziwa ngaphandle kokuxoxisana ngesihloko, ngubani osondelene - indoda noma intombi, noNatasha, bezama ukuthuthumela izinwele ezibomvu, bavame ukuphikisana ngokuthi bangabangane bakhe. Futhi kuthiwani?
Uhlangana noSashka futhi "wahlabelela" ingoma ehluke kakhulu: "USasha wathi ... uSasha wami ... uSasha okhethekile ... sanquma ..." Ngokuvamile, imikhosi yethu yasala kakhulu ngaphandle komholi wabo wemfundiso, owayeka ukuhlanganyela ngisho nasebusuku efuna ukuqoqa imini izindaba. Lapha kanjalo! Imvelo yomuntu iyingxenye yobugovu, izici zethu zasendulo ezijulile zivame ukunqoba, futhi sikhetha injabulo yomuntu. Ngeke silahle izintombi ezithandana nezwe labo elincane ukuze zibe nesithakazelo esifanayo. Sizoqonda kangcono izinhlobo ezihlukahlukene ze-shades yesisombululo esinjalo.
Amantombazane noma abathandanayo
Ngolunye ubusuku ngaya kumngane wami uNike. Ngesizotha sihlezi ekhishini futhi siphikisana ngento ethile, asizange sizwe umama wakhe eza ekhaya. Ngami, uSvetlana Ivanovna uye waba yisibonelo sokuthi owesifazane kufanele abukeke kanjani kulabo abangamakhulu ayisihlanu abaqhoshayo: smart, ukumomotheka, ukulungiswa kahle, ngokunambitheka okubucayi, ukwakheka okuphelele nezinwele. Kodwa manje lokhu kwaphulwa ngokuphelele - wayenengxoxo enzima nomngane omdala. "Kubonakala sengathi bephule kuze kube phakade ..." Umamakazi uLuka wathi ngezwi elithuthumela. "Sobabili sodwa." Baxhasana, basiza kunokuba bakwazi.
Kodwa ezinyangeni ezimbili manje, njengoba engishaya indiva, akabizi, uyayenqaba imihlangano ngezizathu ezithile ezingenangqondo. Nganquma ekugcineni ngikhulume ... Kwavela ukuthi unendoda. Ngacelwa ukungaziphazamisi noma kunjalo - bayakha umndeni! Angiqondi ukuthi kungani? Yini engikwenzile? "Umngani kaSvetlana Ivanovna - owesifazane, ngokuyinhloko, ulungile, kodwa eduze kwakhe - okunethezeka nokuqhakaza - nje kwaphela ...
Sithanda abangani bethu futhi sibathande, kodwa esikhungweni esiyimfihlo sokuqaphela sigcina ukulinganisa okuyimfihlo nathi. Imilenze ka-Ani yinde, futhi uVera upheka kakhulu, uNadyusha uhle kakhulu ... Futhi lapho ukungalondeki noma amandla obuhlobo nendoda ifinyelela ekugcineni kwayo, sizama ukuvikela injabulo yethu engozini engaba khona: izintombi eziphumelelayo (ezithakazelisayo, ezithandwayo).
Iseluleko kuzintombi. Asikho isiqinisekiso sokuthi wena ngokwakho ngeke uzithole esimweni esifanayo kanye. Siza intombi yakho: yiba nesineke, mnike isikhathi sokuqinisa ubuhlobo nendoda yakhe, yenze kucace ukuthi ujabule ngenjabulo yakhe, futhi ungasolwa ngokuba kude nawe. Vula ukuxhumana, kodwa hhayi ukunyakaza. Ngemva kwesikhashana, uzokwazi ukuqonda kwakho.
Umkhandlu womthandi. Yeka ukungabaza! Uhlukile! Futhi uma umuntu ethanda ngempela, ke akadingi muntu kodwa wena. Bheka izintombi zakho njengesivivinyo somuntu othandekayo, njengabalingani bakho kanye nabahloli abaqinile. Futhi uma ekwazi ukukulahla kalula, ke kungani udinga umuntu onjalo?
Umngane wami othandekayo
Amadoda yizingane ezinkulu! Badinga ukunakekelwa njalo njalo nokubuya okugcwele. Banobukhwele futhi bangenangqondo, benomuzwa wokuthi kukhona omunye emkhayeni wabo wesifazane ngaphandle kwabo. Ukuhawukela othandekayo nezintombi kungaba esinye sezizathu zokulahla ithimba elihlangene labantu abafana nomqondo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lawo madoda asho ukuthini, ngokuziqhenya ngokukhipha isifuba ngamasondo abo, kodwa ngamunye wabo ngezikhathi ezithile, esaba ukuthi umuntu ophumelelayo nangokwengeziwe onomusa uhola kanjani yena kuphela futhi othandekayo ngamazwi athi "Ngizokunika inkanyezi!" .
Akumangalisi ukuthi kusukela enkulumweni ethi "Darling, sinomcimbi omncane namantombazane. Ngizokwephuza, ungakhathazeki! "Ekhanda laleli" mthandi "uzishintsha ngokuzenzakalelayo indlela yokuzivikela, ekhuthazwa yindabuko yasendle yama-eye-seducers. Futhi uqala ukwakha izinhlelo ezikhohlisayo ukuthi unganciphisa kanjani imibuthano enjalo. Futhi ucindezeleke ngokuhawukela, ukuzenza sengathi uyagula, unesizungu, ukhathele. Noma imizwa - icatshangelwe. Noma ukusongela uthi: "Wena unami, futhi uzoba abangane nabesifazane bami!" Kwaba njalo nomngane wami u-Oksana. Lapho ehlangana noDima omuhle, ngokushesha wacela ukushintsha abangane bakhe enkampanini yakhe. Sasihlangana ezinsukwini ezingavamile zokuhlangana kwakhe ngasekupheleni kwesitembu sokufihla okuqinile.
Akumangalisi ukuthi amadoda aseDininsky athambekele ekunciphiseni ukuxhumana phakathi kwabathandekayo nezintombi, besaba "umkhandlu wokuhlakanipha." Phela, uyaqonda ukuthi zonke iziphambeko zakhe, egcizelelwe ukuziphatha okunjalo, ngaphambi kokuba abangane bakhe - njengesandla sakho. Futhi bayozibonakalisa ngesinye isikhathi ukuthi akayona into ekhethekile kakhulu.
Iseluleko kuzintombi. Mema umngane nendoda yakhe emcimbini ohlangene nawe. Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuba uthole umbono wesoka lakhe futhi uqonde kangcono ukuthi udinga usizo noma, ngokuphambene, unamandla onjalo, onamandla - udinga.
Umkhandlu womthandi. Zama ukuthola ukuthi kungani othandekayo ezama ukukuvikela ezintombi zakho. Uma esaba ithonya labo, khona-ke methule kubo, futhi mvumele aqiniseke ngokuvuleka kwabo nesimo sengqondo esihle. Uyancipha uma ejwayele labo ohlala nabo amaqembu hen.
Inkosi yakhe Envy
Ngandlela-thile ukusebenza emsebenzini ekamelweni lamantombazane umngane wami u-Anya wezwa ingxoxo phakathi kokubili kwakhe, njengoba ecabanga yonke leyo minyaka, izintombi: "Ngicasulwa nje ukumomotheka kwakhe lapho ekhuluma naye efonini. Angazi ukuthi yini ayitholile ku-Anka? Lapha sinawe - kucacile, futhi iwugundane! ". Ngidinga ukuchaza lokho u-Anja akubona ngaleso sikhathi?
Isimo singenasidingo, kepha kungenzeka. Ukulahla kubangane akuyona indoda, futhi izintombi ngokwabo - nje ngenxa yomona, ngenxa yokungakwazi ukuvumelanisa neqiniso lokuthi omunye wabo akajabuli kangako. Lokhu kungenzeka uma kwakungekho ubungane bangempela phakathi kwabesifazane, kodwa nje ukuhlobana okwakhiwa ngokubambisana, izinzuzo noma izithakazelo ezivamile.
Ukwenqatshwa komngane kungase kuvele emphakathini wabesifazane abakhululekile, lapho ubuhlobo obunzima nomuntu obhekwa njengokungamukeleki, futhi intombi eguqule "ikhodi yezingoma" ivele ixoshwe yinkampani.
Iseluleko kuzintombi. Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi abantu abaningi baye bazibamba ngalesi simo esinzima sokuzizwa - umona. Yiqiniso, kulula ukubhubhisa umuntu ongcono kunathi, kunokuba enze imizamo futhi abe ngcono kangako, ujabule kancane!
Umkhandlu womthandi. Ngalesi simo, ngifuna ukuphinda ngiphinde ngifake inkulumo eyaziwayo: "Uma izintombi zikushiya, aziwa ukuthi ubani onenhlanhla!". Uma kwenzeke ukuthi umhawu uhlukanisile nani manje beyizintombi, ukumomotheka - abazange badlulise ukuvivinya amandla obudlelwane. Unomuntu, futhi manje ungumngane wakho omkhulu.
Uma indoda nowesifazane behlangana, akekho noyedwa okhona okhona. Izwe elikhulu kulowo nalowo ngamunye libhekiswe kulabo abathandekayo. Futhi uma wazi lesi simo - ungakuthi uzijabulise! Ngaphansi komthelela walo mzwa, umuntu akakwazi ukuhlola ngokwanele izenzo zakhe maqondana nezihlobo, obenazo futhi abe nezibopho ezithile. Umfowethu, lapho ehlangana nomkakhe wesikhathi esizayo, akazange angibize mina noma abazali bakhe izinsuku. Lapho ngizama ukuxoxa ngezinto zomkhaya naye, wangibheka ngombono ongasekho, ephihliwe emafwini. Ngendlela, umalokazana wami wesikhathi esizayo waziphatha ngendlela efanayo: izingcingo ezingavamile kubazali kanye nekhefu eligcwele nabangani. Nokho, labo ababesifazane abahlakaniphile, baqonda konke futhi bavumela lo mbhangqwana ukuba ujabulele imizwa yabo, ukubheka amehlo futhi ubone kuwo wonke umhlaba.