Kuyinto engavamile, kodwa maduzane, iningi labantu besifazane lilungele ukwenza noma yini ukuze ibe yinto ekhangayo futhi enhle kakhulu. Futhi abaningi abakucabangi nhlobo ukuthi hhayi ngabanye abathintekayo ukubonakala kwakho kudonsela amadoda, kodwa isithombe sakho sonke. Amadoda amaningi akakwazi ngisho nokukhumbula okwakungagqoke usuku noma amabili edlule, okuphinde kugcizelele ukuthi izinto ezincane zokubukeka ukuthi abesifazane abaningi baphelela nsuku zonke, amadoda awanasithakazelo. Amadoda akhangwa owesifazane ngokuhlanganiswa kokubili ukubukeka nomphefumulo jikelele. Akekho umuntu ongachaza lokho okuthandayo ngokukhetha kwakhe. Kodwa wonke umuntu angachaza ngokucophelela konke okumphikisayo, okwenza owesifazane ngokuphelele angewona ucansi.
IsiSlovenie
Ngokwezibalo, okokuqala ekukhunjweni kwamadoda ukubonakala okunganakiwe. Lapha ungaxoxa noma yini: izinwele ezingcolile, izipikili ezihlotshiswe njengemilenze nezandla, hhayi izicathulo zokugeza, izingubo ezihlambalazayo, futhi ungafaka iphunga elimnandi. Ekhuluma ngephunga elimnandi, kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi akusho nje iphunga lokujuluka, noma iphunga elimnandi ngokujwayelekile, lapha futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ubheke iphunga elibukhali kakhulu lezindlu zangasese noma iphunga lomusi wesigwayi.
Ukuphila Okuphilile
Ake sibuyele emotshweni wegwayi. Akekho umuntu ongakwazi ukungakhathaleli ukubhema kowesifazane. Kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi ngisho nomuntu obhemayo uyathukuthela lapho intombazane egwaya. Ibukeka bubi ngisho nohlangothi. Umbono ofanayo uwenziwa owesifazane ohlukunyezwa ngokukhiqizwa kotshwala. Ukuvezwa kowesifazane onjalo ngokushesha kuguqukela ngendlela engcono kakhulu.
Kufanele futhi wengeze kancane ngokubukeka. I-Skovannaya gait, i-stoop, i-timid isabaza izinyathelo, konke lokhu akuyona indlela engcono kakhulu yokuthonya ukuhlolwa kwakho kusuka ekubukeni kwesilisa.
Ukuvutha
Sekuyisikhathi eside sekukholelwa ukuthi ukuhleka kwamantombazane kakhulu noma izwi elikhulu akusho ukuthi kuyindlela engcono kakhulu ngomnikazi wayo. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, uzocabanga ukuthi mhlawumbe lokhu kumoya omuhle nesifiso sokuzijabulisa. Uqinisile. Kodwa lapha kusho kancane ngomunye.
Ngokungangabazeki, amantombazane ajabule abalandeli abaningi, ngoba kulula futhi kumnandi. Kodwa konke kufanele kube ngokulinganisela. Ungadluli, kungenjalo i-mood ejabule ingakwazi ukunqoba ukuziphatha okungcolile okungakufaneli ngendlela engcono kakhulu.
Izembatho "ezingezelelwe"
Kumelwe uqaphele ngokukhethekile ukuthi izingubo kufanele zifanane njalo nesibalo sakho. Ukukhetha izingubo ezifanele kubaluleke kakhulu, njengoba izingubo kufanele zigcizelele izinzuzo futhi zifihle amaphutha, kodwa hhayi okungenani. Isibonelo, ama-jeans kufanele abe usayizi, angasaphinde, angaphansi. I-Aklassic blouse kufanele ibe nobungako bakho, kepha akufanele ihanjiswe "njengedugubhu", noma ngokuphambene, idonsa njenge-hoodie.
Konke kufanele kube okulinganayo
Noma yikuphi owesifazane kufanele, ngokungangabazeki, engeza kumakhelwane akhe omisiwe: ubulili, ukubukeka komzimba, izingubo, kugcizelela zonke izici zesithunzi. Kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu, akufanele uwele ngaphezu komugqa ohlukanisa ukuphelela kusuka ekusesheni okuphezulu. Ukuqonda komuntu wesifazane, uma efuna ukunaka umuntu, akufanele kube yinto engafanele. Ezweni lanamuhla, sibhekene namathuba amaningi okulungisa lesi sibalo ngosizo lokungenelela kokuhlinzwa.
Abesifazane abaningi, behluleka ukubonakala kwabo, baqala ukubheka amaphutha ekubukeni kwabo, okungaqondiswa ngosizo lwe-plastic operation, kaningi izindebe, isifuba, izintambo. Imibono mayelana nokulungiswa kokubukeka okuningi. Kodwa, kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi ukuhlolwa okuningi kwendoda yesilisa kwenziwa, ngokuphathelene nesifiso sobuhle bokufakelwa. Futhi kuyo yonke imiphumela, amadoda amaningi akhetha ubuhle bemvelo kuphela.
Kunoma yikuphi, uma ucabanga ukuthi kungenzeka ukunqoba indoda, sizobe sitshala kuphela ubulili obukhulu ekuziphatheni kwethu, into ebaluleke kakhulu akumele iwufake. Ngempela, ubulili obukhulu ngokweqile kuyingxenye bubukeka buhle futhi abuhle. Uma ufuna umuntu kuphela ubusuku obulodwa, khona-ke uzokuqonda kahle. Kodwa uma ubheka isigamu sesibili, kufanele ukucabanga ngokuziphatha kwakho futhi uziphatha ngokucophelela.