Ithonya elikhulu kakhulu ekuphileni kwethu kuyintandokazi yezinganekwane. Ingane ikucela ukuthi uyitshele noma uyifunde kaningi. Khona-ke ukhula, ukhohlwe indaba, kodwa amacebo akhe, amamodeli, izikripthi ziyaqhubeka zithonya ukuziphatha kwakhe.
Izici zezinganekwane zethu
Izindabakwanekwane, njengomthetho, umkhiqizo wobuciko bomuntu. Futhi uma bengabalandeli bomlobi odumile, bayathandwa futhi bayathandwa, uma isakhiwo nokuziphatha kwabalingiswa kuseduze futhi kuyaqondakala abaningi. Amatheksthi nezinkondlo kubonisa izigcawu ezivamile, ezivela ekhulwini leminyaka kuze kube seminyaka yabantu noma amaphupho abo (hhayi ize, isibonelo, amafilimu ngoCinderella ohlobo lwe "Beauty" noJulia Roberta aba yi-blockbusters). Ngakho-ke, ematheksthini ezwe lamazwe ahlukahlukene kukhona izifundo zomuntu ezifanayo, zomhlaba wonke, kanye nokwahlukana okuhambisana nokucabangela komqondo wendawo.
Yiziphi izindaba ezijwayelekile zezinganekwane zaseRussia? Okokuqala, umlingisi oyinhloko akenzi lutho ngaye - ngokuvamile athola izinto eziningi zemilingo, zonke izinhlobo zezilwane nezidalwa ezikulungele ukumsiza. Okwesibili, igolide ngokwayo i-Ivanushka elibukeka sengathi liyisifuba, lapho liqala ukubuka i-simple and lazy. Kodwa ekugcineni uthola indodakazi yenkosi nesigamu sombuso ngaphezu kwalokho, eshiya kude ngemuva kwabakhohlisi abahle abahlakaniphile.
Lezi zindaba ezimnandi zivame ukusetshenziswa ekukhangiseni. Bheka ukuthi zingaki izinhlamvu zemilingo ezisiza umnikazi womkhiqizo - zinikeza izeluleko eziwusizo, zithathele emazweni amangazayo, futhi uMnu Proper uhlanze wonke phansi. Abakhangisi abazami ngeze - ngemuva kwakho konke, safunda ingoma encane ngokuthi "umlingo uzoba kanjani ngokuzumayo e-helicopter eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka", futhi ukuphila kuyoba omunye ngaphandle komzamo omkhulu.
Yebo, ubani ongazi ukuthi u-Ivanushki wanamuhla? Ukugwaza "ngaphansi kwesiwula" kuyasizuzisa kakhulu kithi. Abantu abanozwela bayozisola ngaso sonke isikhathi, basize, bajabule: osebenza naye umsebenzi onjalo we-Ivan uzokwenzenzela, ukukhwabanisa kuka-boss kuzonikeza futhi kuzosindisa izinto ezimbi. Khona-ke ubheka: Isiwula sethu sesivele siyiphini lesikhulu, futhi sesivele "sesigamu sombuso" kuye.
Izindima zabanye abalingiswa bezinganekwane azivamile. Ungavame ukuzwa izindaba mayelana nabaholi abakha "udonsa" isihloko sikaKoshchei the Immortal. Abanye besifazane babiza obala uninazala Baba Yaga. Cishe kunoma yikuphi ukuqoqa kukhona uSage owazi ukuthi angaphila kahle - uneseluleko kunoma yisiphi isenzakalo. Noma uSisyphus ungumuntu ophelela ukuphelelisa ukuphefumula oshaya idwala edwaleni elingenakutholakala ngokuphindaphindiwe. Awu, omama bokubeletha baphendukela emakhaya abo eCinderella, nabesifazane abanomona, bezama ukondla ama-apula anobuthi ngezikhathi ezithile, sekuyisikhathi eside beyingxenye yokuphila kwethu.
Yenza indaba yenzeke ...
Kodwa-ke, ezinye izimo zezinkondlo zifezwa empilweni ngokuphelele. Kakhulukazi ikakhulukazi kwenzeka ngobulili obuhle. Ngesinye isikhathi amafomu afanayo adluliselwa ezizukulwaneni ngezizukulwane: ke bonke abesifazane bomndeni bashada utshwala, bese bonke abayeni behamba, bese beba omama abangashadile. Kungani lezi zenzakalo zenkathi yenkathi zithonya abafazi? Abafana, kunjalo, bafana nezinganekwane. Kodwa ngaphandle kwalokhu nabo banomklami, i-laser pistol, nebhola. Futhi amathoyizi nezintambo zezintombazi zimlungiselela ukugcwaliseka kwephupho elilodwa elihlonishwayo - ukuba ekugcineni abe yinkosikazi (okungenani, isibonelo, emshadweni). Futhi i-Barbie enobucwebe, nezingubo ezinhle zisekela uchungechunge lwe-fairytale.
Nazi ezinye izimo ezithandwayo zezinganekwane ukuthi impilo ngokwayo ifike nge:
Ukulala Ubuhle
U-Natalia uneminyaka engu-30 ubudala, ubheka kancane kakhulu futhi uyaziqhenya kakhulu ngalokhu. Usebenza enkampanini yezimoto ezungezwe amadoda, kodwa iseseyodwa. Abaningi bazama ukumnakekela, kodwa uNatalie uyathanda kakhulu, uqiniseke ukuthi kusengaphambili: "Lo akuyena engikudinga, umphefumulo wami awuqambi amanga - angithandi." Kodwa mhlawumbe kudingeka sinikeze le ndoda ithuba lokuzibonakalisa ngandlela-thile, ikakhulukazi ngoba wamemela esitolo sokudlela izikhathi eziningana, emidlalo yaseshashalazini, eya kumabhayisikobho? UNataliya uyabubula: "Ngicabanga kakade-mhlawumbe kufanele sivumelane kanye. Kodwa lo muntu akabizi futhi ... "Ngokusho kweskriphthi sikaNatalia, iNdunankulu akufanele ithole kuphela. Ubumnandi, enqabeni, kodwa futhi ukuphululela kuye ngokusebenzisa ameva namapulangwe, esebenze izinto ezimbalwa. Futhi - ukuvusa intombazane ngokumanga. U-Natalia ayithandi noma yikuphi okunye okukhethwa kukho. Kodwa ubuhle endabeni yezinganekwane-angalala ngokuthula! Yena futhi eminyakeni eyikhulu kuzoba namashumi ayisishiyagalombili. Kodwa empilweni yangempela, ngenkathi iNkosana ikuthola, inqoba izithiyo futhi ivuka ngokumanga, sekuyisikhathi sokuthenga ukhilimu ophikisana nemibimbi.
I-Red Riding Hood encane
U-Alina ungowesifazane osemusha onobuso bezingelosi. Kodwa ku-25 wakhe wakwazi ukuthola isinxephezelo ngesimo sefulethi kanye nemoto evela kumthandi oshadile futhi ewela ezandleni zomngane wakhe ozayo, owaba ngumsindisi wakhe ngemuva kwendabuko engaphumeleli. Manje u-Alina unenhloso yokubambisana nomphathi kanye nokukhuthazwa emkhakheni wezemisebenzi. Lesi yisimo se-Little Red Riding Hood, okuyilapho, naphezu kwemiyalo kaMama, ikhuluma neWolf, bese-ke, kanye noHunter-uMsindisi, ngenjabulo ikhukhumeza isisu sayo ngamatshe (okufana nokuphela kwalokhu inganekwane). Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esidumile u-Eric Berne sithi "kungcono ukuthi izimpisi zihlale kude namantombazane abonakala engenacala." Ngandlela-thile, unina ka-Alina, ekhulisa indodakazi yakhe ngaphandle kobaba, wayevame ukumthuma ebuntwaneni bakhe yedwa ezindleleni zakhe "ehlathini".
Elena the Beautiful
I-Anya enhle ihlola ngokucophelela abakhokhwa abangaba ngabesilisa - udinga umuntu okhethiwe ukuba abe indoda yangempela futhi amthande aze abe engazi lutho. Isimo esifanele kufanele siqinisekise ngaso sonke isikhathi: "Ngifuna ukuzizwa nginkosikazi eceleni kwakhe," uthanda ukuphinda. Kusukela kumuntu osemusha ophumelelayo kudinga izipho ezinhle, ukuncoma okuningi kanye nokuxhaphazwa kwabasebenzi ekuqaleni kokuthandwa. Kodwa akubona bonke abakwaziyo ukweqa impisi ngesikhathi esifanayo, balwe nenyoka, bakhiphe ama-apula abantombazane bese bephenduka benga emphandeni we-frog. Futhi ukukhethwa kwemikhuba kuqhubeka.
Ilinde wena
Ngamunye wethu, ngisho nangesikhathi esemncane, uhlela iskripthi sakhe, okuyinto eqhubekayo eqaphela. Asikhumbuli ngisho nokuthi sibhala kanjani le ndaba, kodwa iyaqhubeka ihlala ekugcineni kwethu okungazi lutho nokulawula. Yiqiniso, isizathu sokuphindaphindiwe ezimpilweni zethu akukhona kuphela ukuthi sake sikholelwa emlandweni - ingane inethonya elikhulu. Kunalokho, ngisho nangokuphambene nalokhu: ngemuva kokuhlaziya izenzakalo eziphindaphindiwe, izenzo, izinhlamvu, singaziqhathanisa nezindaba zezinganekwane, izincwadi, ukudlala.
Ochwepheshe bezinkanyezi bavame ukubuza umbuzo: "Ungayilinganisa kanjani impilo yakho na?" Ngisho nempendulo enengqondo ingakutshela okuningi. Futhi lokhu sekuvele kuningi, ngoba ngokuvamile abantu bayahamba emjikelezweni ononya, bazichazela ukuthi lokhu "yikusasa", "karma". Uma uqaphela ukuthi usebenza ngaphakathi kwendaba efanayo, ungakwazi ukushintsha ngokucacile inkambo yezenzakalo - ungaphenduli kahle emazwini nasezenzo, wenze ngokuhlukile, noma uphathe abanye ngokuhlukile. Ngempela, noma ngabe silawula iskripthi sethu, noma thina. Ukuthatha umthwalo wempilo yakho, ungayenza umsebenzi wakho oyingqayizivele wobuciko.
Ukuphawula kwengqondo
Lapho useneminyaka eyishumi ubudala, izingane ziyingozi kakhulu. Ukulalela inganekwane, ingane izwa imizwelo yomlingisi oyinhloko - empeleni lo mlingiswa uchazwa ngokugqamile nangemininingwane eminingi. Ingane engazi ukuthi ihlangana naye. Futhi impilo yakhe iqala ukwakhiwa ngokuvumelana nesimo esithile. Akuningi kakhulu kubo. Ngesinye isikhathi, udokotela wezicabha odumile waseMelika u-Eric Berne wathola, wahlola futhi wachaza lezi zihloko: Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, njll. Izazi zengqondo zicabangela isimo sesimanje sezinsuku ezimbili zezinganekwane, ezavela ngokuphila ngokwayo - "Bambi" no "Godzilla." Ukudlala indima ethi "Bambi" owesifazane ubuthakathaka futhi akanakuzivikela. Uqinisekile ukuthi uthando kufanele luzuzwe. Abalingani abanjalo abadangayo basuke behlangana nabalingani bezinkohliso, egoists, gigolos, ngezwi, abathengi zothando abangakwazi ukunikeza okuthile ngokubuyisela. Endimeni ka-Godzilla, owesifazane wenza isisindo samandla, ufuna ukulawula yonke into, enze wonke umuntu adlale ngemithetho yakhe. Laba besifazane bazimele futhi banamandla. Bangakwazi ukwenza konke ngokwabo, bahlale bekulungele ukuphazamisa nokusiza. Ngenxa yalokho, i- "Godzilles" ihlangana nabantu abanobuthakathaka abangabathandi kahle. Kunzima kakhulu ukubala nokulandelela iskripthi sakho. Ngakho-ke, ukuze ushintshe isimo kangcono, thintana nesazi sengqondo.