1) Ifoni.
Shayela, shayela futhi ushayele futhi! Amadoda ngesizathu esithile akuboni ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuzikhumbuza ngokwawo phakathi kwesikhathi phakathi kwezinsuku, futhi ngokuphelele ngeze. Yiqiniso, akufanele ushayele amantombazane kusukela ekuseni kuze kube sebusuku bese umkhipha emsebenzini, kodwa okungenani kanye ngosuku ungathola isikhathi sokubuza mayelana nenhlalakahle yakhe noma imizwa yakhe. Futhi ungakhohlwa nge-sms! Abesifazane baqiniseka ngokwengeziwe ngemilayezo yothando, ngakho bajabula ngokufaka izincwadi.
2) Ubulili.
Kule ndaba, unikeza ilungelo lokukhetha intombazane. Abaningi bayesaba izinsuku zokuqala, ngoba akuzona zonke amantombazane abangathanda ukusondelana ngokushesha, kodwa akubona wonke umuntu ongalahla ngokuhlakanipha. Ngakho ungamfaki intombazane esimweni esihlazo ngosuku lokuqala, makhethi akhethe isikhathi lapho ukuhlangana okungathandekayo kuyobe kulungile.
3) Imali.
Kubalulekile ukugwema ukweqisa. Ukusola okunjalo kubonakala sengathi yizinsizwa ezizamazama zonke izinhlawulo, kanye nalabo abangacabangi imali nhlobo. Ngakho-ke, mema unkosikazi wenhliziyo ukuya e-cinema, endaweni yokudlela, ukuya embukisweni noma emakhonsathi, unike izimbali, amaswidi namancane, hhayi okuzibophezelayo, kodwa izinto ezincane ezimnandi. Kubaluleke kakhulu - ukunikeza izipho ezinjalo ezingeke zenze intombazane izwe iphoqelekile. Uma uqala ukubala inhliziyo yowesifazane ekubalweni uzoqala ukubuza owesifazane into ebiza kakhulu, ngakho-ke, cishe uzothola ukwenqaba okuqinile noma uzothola leyo ntombazane engathokozi lutho ngaphandle kwezipho kuwe.
4) Izingxoxo.
Abesifazane bathanda ngezindlebe zabo - basho kanjalo. Amadoda ngokuvamile ayinaki le nkulumo, kodwa alahlekelwe okuningi. Abesifazane yizingxoxo ezibalulekile ezingenangqondo, lena yindlela esheshayo yokubeka indlela enhliziyweni yowesifazane. Kodwa lapha kukhona ezinye izinkolelo. Ezingxoxweni, ungathinti owesifazane, ungamtsheli lezo zincoma ezingekho iqiniso. Gxila ekufanelekeni kwangempela. Uma uzama ukuthola ukuqiniseka okungekho emthethweni, ungabi obala futhi ukhulume. Tshela iqiniso ngawe futhi utshele okuningi, kodwa ungazigabisi ngezinto ezisezintweni zentombazane zingabonakala zibe amaphutha. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungamhlukumezi intombazane enemibuzo engambeka esimweni esibucayi. Phakade shiya isihloko sezinkathi zangaphambili nezihloko ezifanayo. Lezi zingxoxo azikho ngosuku lokuqala.
5) Abangane.
Ukwazi abangane bomunye nomunye kuyisigaba esibalulekile ebuhlotsheni. Bobabili amadoda nabesifazane bahlale bekhathazekile, bafuna ukuthanda imvelo yothandekayo wabo, kodwa bakhathazeka ngokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle. Ngakho ungasheshi. Qinisekisa ukuthi udinga ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isinqumo sokuqinisekisa abanye. Abangane bazokuhlolisisa wena nobuhlobo bakho, ngakho-ke uma kungekho lutho olubi phakathi kwakho, akufanele ujwayelane nabangane bomunye nomunye.
6) Izihlobo.
Amantombazane aphupha ngokukwazi abazali babo - kokubili kuye nakuvela ohlangothini lwakho. Kodwa bayaphupha kuphela uma beqiniseka ngokwabo nangemizwa yakho. Ngakho-ke, akufanele ugcizelele ekuhlanganiseni nabazali kusukela emihlanganweni yokuqala. Kodwa-ke, uma uhlangana isikhathi eside futhi uqiniseka omunye komunye, ungakhohlwa ukujwayela abazali bakhe bese uzisa intombazane emndenini wakho.
Umuntu ngamunye ufuna uthando olulodwa, kodwa njalo kukhona amanga amaningi kakhulu ebuhlotsheni obunamadoda abhekana nawo ukuphatha ukudideka emhlanganweni kanye nemithetho engabhalwanga yokuxhumana namantombazane. Mhlawumbe ukubaluleka okubaluleke kakhulu futhi okuwina ukunqoba kufanele ube ngokwakho futhi ube nomqondo oqotho emizweni yakho. Lesi yisiqinisekiso sokuthi eduze kwakho kuyoba intombazane engakwazi ukukujabulisa.