Uphi nokuthi ungathola kanjani ugqozi?

Kubonakala sengathi lo mbuzo ubaluleke kakhulu kubantu abasebenza ngobuciko - izinkondlo, abaculi ... Kodwa kunoma yimuphi omunye umsebenzi, ngaphandle kwenani elithile lokuphefumulelwa awukwazi ukukwenza - kanti iphansi lingasuswa ngemimoya ehlukile, futhi umphumela womsebenzi uyoxhomeka esimweni sengqondo. Futhi uzobona lo mphumela kuqala kuwe konke. Akusiyo imfihlakalo ukuthi ngisho nomphumela omuhle (ubulili obuhlanzekile noma inkondlo ebhaliwe) kungabonakala nge-ecstasy ("Aye yebo mina!"), Futhi ngokuzihlambalaza ("Ekugcineni ngiqedile lo msebenzi onyanyekayo, ukuthi wangikhathaza kanjani ...") ukuphefumlelwa kwabantu abasebenza ngobuciko kuthathwa - kubalulekile ukubabuza, futhi kubonakala sengathi "abayithathi", kodwa iyazithoba. Kungokuthi umuntu akakwazi ukubhala okwamanje le nkondlo, isithombe, njll. Abantu abajwayelekile, "abantu basemhlabeni", ngokuvamile bafanele basebenze, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lo msebenzi wawungekho. Uhlale udinga isinkwa sansuku zonke, phansi ehlanzekile, isidlo esimnandi ... Kodwa ugqozi aluhlali ngaso sonke isikhathi!

Singatholaphi lokhu okuphefumulelwe, lapho kudingekile ukwenza ibhizinisi lethu, kodwa akusikho, kahle, akukho isifiso sokwenza okudingekayo manje? Ayikho isifiso hhayi ngoba ubuvila, hhayi ngenxa yokuthi ayikho imizwa, kodwa nje nje ukwazi ukuthi ungahle kanjani kulokhu, mhlawumbe ngisho nemisebenzi ejwayelekile, imisebenzi?

Into yokuqala okudingeka uyenze kuyo. Ungazami ukufeza okudingekayo ngokuqinela, cishe ngezinyembezi nokuhlambalaza, kodwa uhlale uphinde ucabange ngalomsebenzi, mayelana nomphumela wokuthi uzoletha injabulo yalesi siphumo. Khumbula ukuthi wakwenza kanjani ngaphambili, ngoba uma wenzé ngenjabulo! Noma ujabulele ukusebenzisa imiphumela yalo msebenzi, eyenziwa ngabanye. Yebo, akusiyo imfihlo - konke kufanele kwenziwe kuqala okokuqala ngomsindo, ngokumomotheka, ngisho nangaphakathi.

Khona-ke, sinesikhali esiphelele ekulwa nanoma yikuphi ukunganaki, noma yikuphi okubi, noma yikuphi ukuhlukaniswa - lokhu kungumcabango wethu! Kuzosiza ukuvusa ugqozi, ukuphakamisa, ukusiza ukuthola amandla nganoma yisiphi isizathu. Khumbula ukuthi uphefumulelwe ngaso sonke isikhathi - isibhakabhaka? Ilanga? Ulwandle? Umuntu oyithandayo? Ake ucabange ngalokhu, cabanga ngomcabango wakho okukuthandayo ekuphileni kwansuku zonke - indawo enhle, ikhekhe elinethezeka, imakethe yezinyoni ezincane "emakethe yezinyoni," futhi kuzomamatheka, umcabango uzokuholela ekude, futhi ukugqugquzela okudingekayo kuzofika!

Kodwa lokhu kuyisizo ezindabeni zethu ezijwayelekile, izindaba zansuku zonke ... Futhi uma udinga ugqozi ukuze ubhale inkondlo enhle yokubonga, udwebe isithombe esingavamile, wenze isihloko kusuka ebuhlaluyeni? Izosiza konke okufanayo. Ukucabanga, uthando, isibhakabhaka ... Ukukhumbuza lokho okupholile ngakho kwenzeka ngaphambili. Ukwazi ukuthi omunye umuntu waphumelela kulokhu - bheka izithombe ezisekelweni ezihlosiwe, funda imisebenzi yabanye abantu. Futhi ukugqugquzela yilokho okudingekile njalo futhi kunoma yiluphi ibhizinisi, ukuqonda akusho ukuthi "kufanele kwenziwe - igazi kusuka ekhaleni!", Futhi ukugcwaliseka kwesidingo salokhu ukuletha injabulo ethile kuyosiza empilweni, kuzokutshela indlela efanele, bonisa ukuthi wazi kanjani ukuthanda. Ukwazi kanjani ukuguqula noma yiziphi izenzo zakho zibe inqubo yokuthakazelisa yokuthakazelisa.

Futhi-ke, ukufuna ugqozi akukona okwamanje lapho kungazelelwe "kuyadingeka ngokuphuthumayo." Kumele ufundiswe kuwe, ukuze uhlala njalo kuwe, uhlale ulungele ukukhanyisa, nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Ungakwenza kanjani lokhu? Kuzo zonke zithinta okuhle. Umculo omnandi, izinkondlo, ama-aromas, izinhlobo - konke lokhu kufanele kube empilweni yakho njalo, kukuzungezile, kuyimpoqo. Njengoba ujwayele ukuzungezwa ubuhle njalo, ngokuqinisekile uzofuna ukwandisa ubuhle emhlabeni, kodwa yini lokhu? Lona ugqozi! Futhi ungazungezi nje ubuhle empilweni yansuku zonke - vakashela iminyuziyamu, amakhonsathi, imibukiso, - njalo ujikelezwe ngethalente, abantu abanekhono, imiphumela yokuphefumula kanye nokucabanga. Ngaphandle kwalokhu, kunzima ukuphatha ... Futhi ngenhlanhla, asikho isidingo sokwenza, sekuye kwaba khona wonke umuntu. Ngisho nokuhlala ekhompyutheni kungenziwa kusebenze ukuphefumulelwa kwakhe.

Ngakho, kuphi ukuthola ugqozi? Akudingekile ukuyihlola! Kufanele ihlale ilungele, kumangalisa ukuthi akufanele iguqulwe, "ithuthukiswe", ibangele ngokuhlakanipha. Kumelwe ufike ngokwawo - kusuka emcabangweni, ezinkumbulo, ezinhlokweni ... kusuka kukho konke! Udinga nje ukuba umuntu ophefumulelwe - ukuphupha, ukuthanda, ukuthola i-charm kuyo yonke into, ukufuna ukwenza isimangaliso kunoma yisiphi isici. Ukuze ukwazi ukujabulela imiphumela yomsebenzi wakho nokuphumula, futhi ubenze ukuze kungenise injabulo kuwe kuphela, ukuhlobisa izwe elizungezile, ngisho nokuncane!