Ukuhluleka kwengane ukugxilisa ingqondo kungathinta kakhulu ukusebenza kwakhe kwezemfundo. Ngakho-ke, kusukela esemncane, abazali kufanele bakhokhe ngokucophelela ngalolu daba. Ochwepheshe, nabo, banikeza izinkomba eziningana zokugqugquzela ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo yengane.
Isiqalo sokuqala sinjengalokhu: uma usebenzisana nengane, qiniseka ukuthi ubonisa imizwelo yakho - smile, kumangale, ubonise isithakazelo futhi ujabule!
Isiqephu esilandelayo kulabo abahlanganyela ekuthuthukiseni izingane zabo ukuthi bona ngokwabo baqondisa ingane, bambandakanye emisebenzini ehlukahlukene, futhi babonise izici ezinhle zomsebenzi owodwa noma omunye. Thola futhi ufike ngezinketho ezintsha namathuluzi okugxila ukunakwa kwezingane. Into ekhangayo kakhulu kwengane yukuthi imibala engokomzwelo futhi engalindelekile, khumbula lokho.
Inkulumo yindlela engcono kakhulu yokuhlela. Ngokuvamile izingane zesikole ezincane nezinsana ezindala zasenkulisa, ukwenza umsebenzi, zisho ngokuzwakalayo. Ngakho-ke, inkulumo ngesimo semilayezo noma izidingo zomuntu omdala kusiza ingane ukuba iqondise ngenhloso. Imfundo yesinyathelo esinezinyathelo ihlale iphumelela kakhulu. Imfundo enjalo ihlinzekela ukuhlela imisebenzi yemntanakhe futhi ihlelele ukunakekelwa kwayo. Kulokhu kuvela inkomba yesithathu: yakha imiyalelo futhi ukhumbule ukuthi kumele kube isinyathelo ngezinyathelo, ngokuqinisekile kube mnandi, kuqondakala, kukhonkolo futhi kuphelele.
Ukukwazi ukuphikisa izinto eziphazamisa ingane kuyisimo sokugcina ukunakekelwa. Ukuphazamisa ingane kungabangela izinto ezihlukahlukene, ezivela ngaphandle, izinto, abantu, ekuhlangenwe nakho kwangokomzwelo kwangaphakathi. Ingane yakho idinga ukusiza ukuthuthukisa indlela yokulwa neziphazamiso. Ukuze usize kulokhu, abazali bangafaka imiyalo ehlose ukuqedela imisebenzi eyinhloko yengane. Ubuciko bokufunda kwabazali ikakhulukazi ukukhetha imisebenzi enjalo ngokusekelwe kwamakhono namakhono wengane.
Kulesi simo, umsebenzi omuhle ungomunye odlula okungenzeka kwengane. Lokhu kukhuthaza ukuthuthukiswa kwengane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amagama abazali, okuhlose ukugcina ukunakekelwa kwemisebenzi eyinhloko yengane, akufanele kube yinto engathandeki ngokomzwelo. Akungabazeki ukuthi uzoqedela isabelo uma umzali ekhuluma ngezwi ngendlela ehlelekile "Ungaphazanyiswa!", "Ungaboni nxazonke!", "Ungathinti amathoyizi!". Kulokhu, imishwana ephumelelayo kakhulu: "Manje sesiqedile lesi sigwebo futhi sidlale!", "Bheka, unezinhlamvu ezimbili kuphela zokubhala!".
Ezikoleni zasenkulisa ezindala, ukugxila kokunaka kuya ngcono kakhulu. Lapho uneminyaka eyisithupha kuya kwesikhombisa, izingane zingakwazi ukugxila emfanekisweni noma ngaphansi kwemizuzwana engu-20.
Ekuzinzile, ukunakwa kuyathinteka nokukhathazeka nokukhathazeka kwengane. Izingane ezikhathazayo nezibuhlungu ziphazamiseka kakhulu kunezinempilo. Kulesi simo, izinga lokuzinza kwabo lingase lihluke kuze kube yinye nesigamu kuya kokubili. Ekamelweni lapho i-TV noma i-tape recorder isebenza, ingane izophazanyiswa kaningi kunokamelo elithule, elithule. Umntwana othukuthele noma othukuthele futhi uncane kakhulu okwazi ukwenza umsebenzi nokuthuthukiswa kokunakwa. Kulokhu kulandela isihloko sesine sabazali: kufanele unakekele impilo yomzwelo nengokomzimba yengane yakho, uma ufuna ingane yakho isebenze kahle esikoleni nasemisebenzini yakho. Dala imvelo engabandakanyi iziphazamiso ezifana nenkulumo engokomzwelo, imisindo ephezulu, omagazini abathandekayo nezincwadi, amathoyizi akhanyayo, izinto ezihambayo.
Ukugxila okuhle kubonisa ukuthi konke okunye okuzungezile akubonwanga, ngaphandle komsebenzi oyinhloko. Ingane kufanele ibe nokunakekelwa okwanele, ukuze ingane idale le ndawo. Ukuba khona kokuzilibazisa kwengane, izinto zokuzilibazisa noma ibhizinisi, okuyinto azobe nesithakazelo kuyo, futhi kunomthelela ekuthuthukiseni ukuhlushwa kwengane. Ngokugxila ebhizinisini lakho ozithandayo, ingane izokwakha ikhono lokuhlushwa lokuhlushwa.