Kuhle ukuba nenhlanhla, okusho ukuthi ubani owazalwa ngehembe. Zahlulela ngokwakho: lapho, lapho yonke inkampani yendawo ewela khona emgodini futhi cishe wonke umuntu ubuhlungu, i hero lethu ngeke libe nelilodwa elilodwa. Abantu abanobuhle bayakugwema inkinga, futhi uma kwenzeka izinkinga, wonke umuntu ucabanga ukuthi umuntu "uhambe ngegazi elincane."
Lokho ngempela kwazalwa ngaphansi kwenkanyezi enenhlanhla. Asazi ukuthi kunjani ukubhula ngezinkanyezi, kodwa ngokuphathelene nokuphepha kwengane, ukwabelana kwengonyama nenhlanhla kwengane kuncike kubazali. Phela, silungiselela umntwana wethu umhlangano nezwe elikhulu. Futhi uma umuntu omdala eqondile ngokufanele, uma engagcini nje ukubeka izinsalela, kodwa umkhomba ingane ezindaweni eziyingozi, uma emnika ulwazi mayelana nendlela yokuthola indlela yokuphuma kwezimo ezinobungozi, khona-ke ingxenye yengxabano iyawa yedwa. Njengoba isaga saseMpumalanga sithi: "Ingqondo yikhono lokuphuma ezimweni ezinzima, futhi ukuhlakanipha ikhono lokungena kuwo."
Ake siqale nathi
Izingane zikhula ngokushesha, futhi uma ucabanga ukuthi izolo ukuthi into embi kakhulu ukuwa komntwana kusukela ekuthumeni, namuhla awunawo isikhathi sokuthatha inkonzo evela etafuleni (isahluko esincane esinqumayo nje sithintela indwangu yetafula!).
Ngakho-ke, into ewusizo kakhulu kubazali ukufunda iqiniso elilodwa elingenakuphikwa.
"Kungani kusengaphambili?" Ubuza, ngoba awukwazi ukuguqula umkhuba (empeleni, ukungafani kokuziphatha, isimo esithile sokucabanga) njengendlela evamile. "Izenzo ezivamile" zilotshiwe "eshadini lethu lokuphila, futhi akulula ukuba" ukubhala ". Ukuqeda umkhuba owodwa onobungozi wengane bese uwushintsha ngomunye, ephephile, kuthatha amasonto amathathu kuya kwamane, futhi akwanele ukuzitshela ukuthi: lokhu ngeke ngisakwazi ukukwenza. Umdala uzodinga ukulawula okunengqondo yena ngokwakhe nezenzo zakhe. Vumela wonke amalungu omndeni pobabl Futhi banabanye abantu ukuthi babone imikhuba eyingozi, umama oyedwa onomkhuba ongenacala ngokuphelele, angakwazi ukuhamba azungeze indlu ephethe i-toothpick emlonyeni wakhe, ngenkathi elahlekile, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lona wesifazane ulandelelani, futhi konke kuzoba kuhle, kodwa ngolunye usuku i-toothpick wathola ingane futhi waqala ukuyiphenya.Ukuqala, wazihlanganisa ngendwangu encane futhi ekhaliphile esandleni sakhe. Ukuduma kwamaphoyisa kwagijimela ngokushesha futhi kwasuswa. Ngenhlanhla, isandla, hhayi iso, sahlupheka.
Ngezinye izikhathi kufanele uzikhumbuze: "Ungafaki ingilazi yetiyi elishisayo emaphethelweni etafuleni!"
Uzophindaphinda izikhathi eziyisishiyagalolunye, futhi okweshumi ubheke - ingilazi yesikhumba ikhona njengokungathi akukho okwenzekile. Kodwa-ke, ungakwazi ukuqeda ukungafani kokuziphatha (umkhuba ofanayo) uma ubonisa ukuphikelela kanye nesifiso esiqotho sokwakha isikhala esiphephile kwengane yakho.
Abazali bezingane ezineminyaka engaphansi kweminyaka engu-3-4 kumele balethe ezenzakalweni zemikhuba yokuphepha.
Emaphethelweni etafuleni akufanele kube khona okushisayo.
Izinto ezihlabayo azikho indawo etafuleni, lapho zifinyelela khona ingane okungenani 1 ithuba ngaphandle kuka-10. Yika isinkwa - masuse ngokushesha ummese endaweni.
Imithi, amakhemikhali asekhaya, uketshezi oluvuthayo - konke lokhu akufanele kube khona kalula ingane.
Izintambo ezisuka ezigumbini zasendlini, lapho i-crumb ingafinyelela khona, kufanele zikhishwe ezitolo. Esigodini samahhala, kufanele ufake ama-plugs akhethekile.
Ukunikezwa kwegesi kubashisayo kufanele kuvaliwe.
Ngenkathi ubamba ingane, ungalokothi uthathe into enobungozi ezandleni zakho. Omunye kufanele acabange ukuthi yini engenzeka uma uphakamisa izandla zakho ngokuzumayo noma ulahlekelwa ibhalansi yakho. Sekuyisikhathi sokushintsha imikhuba eyingozi ekuziphenduleleni okuphephile!
"Izincazelo"
Uma amakhono angenhla acacisiwe kahle, lapho umntwana eneminyaka engu-4-6 kuphela ubudala, bayokwenza okungaphezu kwesisodwa bakusize wena nomndeni wakho esikhathini esizayo. Kodwa ingane yakhula futhi kakade inento yokuchaza. Okubaluleke kakhulu, kuyadingeka. Ngaphambili umntwana ngokwakhe unesibopho sokuphepha kwakhe, kungcono. Amagama - angakabi umeluleki othembekile kakhulu wentombazane encane. Kuye indlela ebonakalayo ebonakalayo ifaneleka kakhulu.
Ungakhathazeki ukudonsa indwangu yetafula izikhathi eziningana, kepha awuyikulalela umcibisholo? Kulungile, bese ubeka indebe epulasitiki yamanzi apholile emaphethelweni etafuleni, i-crumb iyodonsa indwangu yetafula - ingilazi izokwehla, ngokuvamile iphindwe kabili ukuvikela indaba ngokuqinile Indlela yokuchaza ukuthi insimbi iyashisa, ukushisa kancane bese uvumela ingane ukuthi iyithinte. Futhi ngaphansi kokulawula, zama i-cactus e-spiny, usize "ngobumnene" wehla emaphethelweni ombhede. Okuhlangenwe nakho komuntu kokushayisana nezinkinga kuzosindisa ingane ezinkingeni ezinkulu. Vele ungadabuki induku, ungesabi ingane. Futhi ungabonisi konke ngesikhathi esisodwa. Yenza kancane kancane. Qala ngalokho okuthandayo ingane namuhla. Thola into ongasoze uvumele ingane ukuba yenze. Uhlu lokuvinjelwa kufanele lube mncane, kodwa "insimbi" - akukho ukuzithokozisa, isibonelo, awuke uvumele ingane ukuba idlale nge-hobo yegesi.Ngesikhathi esilandelayo, ngokushesha nje lapho ingane ifika, usho ngokucacile ukuthi "awukwazi," thatha izingalo ezandleni zakho nazo zonke zakho uhlobo lokubonisa ukuthi luyingozi futhi luyingozi kangakanani. Ingane izozwa futhi ikhumbule ukwesaba okuqotho. Le ndlela isebenza ezingeni lezinzwa. Kodwa-ke, izifundo ezinjalo azikwazi ukuphindaphindiwe kaningi, ngaphandle kwalokho umphumela we-emoyeni oqinile ulahlekile, umane usabise futhi udidekise umntwana. Umsebenzi wakho awukona ukucima isinyathelo somntwana, kodwa ukuzivikela kunoma yiziphi izinkinga ezithile ezikhona.
Gcina amehlo akho!
Ukukhathazeka ngokuphepha kwengane kwasebusheni kuyasiza futhi ngoba ukuqeqeshwa okuhle kwabazali. Umkhuba wokuqapha usasebenza kakhulu. Uzofunda ukubheka ngokucophelela ezweni elikuzungezile futhi uqaphele lokho okuyingozi enganeni. Kamuva, uma kufanele ushiye ingane yedwa ensimini noma uthumele umuntu esikoleni, lokhu kuqondiswa kwemicabango kusiza ukuqaphela izingozi ezingakapheli isikhathi futhi uthathe isenzo.
Iya ekupheleni
Abazali abaningi benza konke okulungile. Bonisa, chaza, wesabe kancane, unike uzizwe. Khohlwa kuphela ukuthi konke kufanele kwenziwe kuze kube sekupheleni. Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi izikhathi ezingu-20 izimbumbulu azange zivunyelwe ukukhuphuka amaketeni kufasiteleni, kepha ku-21 kwaba khona! Futhi uyokhuphuka futhi lapho ngamandla amathathu!
Zahlulele ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lwesifundo ingane engayenza, uma abazali beyivimbela ngokuqinile, bese kuthi "awukwazi," kodwa ngandlela-thile udidekile futhi engaqiniseki. Uma ingane ingakwazi ukwenza okuthile, ayikwazi njalo.
Kubalulekile ukuthi yonke imindeni ibe eyodwa.
Mayelana nomphefumulo
Kunesinye isici sombuzo izingane okufanele zifunde ezipikili ezincane. Kuqondene nokuphepha komphefumulo. Lokhu akuncane, kepha mhlawumbe kubaluleke ngaphezu kokuvikela umzimba, ukufutheka, ukuqeqesha umzimba nengqondo yengane. Insizwa kufanele ikwazi futhi izwe ukuthi abazali bayo bayomqonda njalo, bamsekele, bahlanganyele naye, balalele futhi bamkhuthaze. Kulesi simo, usuvele ekhula evikelekile ngaphezu kokungaqiniseki yena kanye nabantu abazungezile.
Ingane eyayizungezwe ukunakwa kwabantu abadala, ayifuni ukuzilimaza yena nabanye, ngeke ibeke ingozi. Lowo ongaphephile futhi obuthakathaka njalo ulindele usizo lokuza ngokwalo. Futhi ngokuvamile ulahlekelwa isikhathi lapho kufanele usebenze khona. Umuntu okhule ngokuvikeleka okungokomoya, uthola kalula usizo uma kubalulekile. Futhi uyazi ukuthi angayicela kanjani. Futhi angasiza labo abadinga usizo.
Ukucabanga ukuthi omncane wakho "kakade uyazi lokhu." Uma usho okuthile izikhathi ezingu-10, futhi akubanga nezinkinga kuze kube manje, lokhu akusho ukuthi ngeke kubonakale. Izimo eziningi ezingase zibe yingozi zingalahleka futhi zixoxwe.
Sethemba, konke kuzozihlanganisa ngokwakho. Ngokuvamile izingane zabazali abanjalo azibatsheli ngale nkinga kuze kube yilapho konke kuhamba kakhulu. Futhi kungani usho ukuthi, uma kungekho usizo, noma iseluleko abayitholi.
Phindela ngemuva kwesimo esiyingozi bese uqala "ukugxila" emntwaneni yonke imithetho yokuphepha ngasikhathi sinye.Lokhu kuyindlela yokufa. Ngokuqhubekayo futhi kancane kancane - ingane ingakwazi nokufundiswa ezweni lethu eliyinkimbinkimbi.