Omagazini abaningi besifazane banikeza iseluleko sendlela yokuziphatha ukuze ugcine indoda yakho. Bazama ukujabulisa umyeni kubo bonke, futhi ngokubukeka kanye nobuciko bokugcoba, kanye nasezimpilweni zakhe zobuntu obuseduze. Bafunda u-Kama Sutra, bafunde eziningi zokupheka kwe-culinary, bahlale ezidlweni, bahlelwe ngendlela ehlelekile ekamelweni lokuzivocavoca, nasebuhle be-salon. Futhi konke lokhu ukuze ujabulise othandekayo wakho, abe ngowakhe njalo okuhle kakhulu futhi owodwa kuphela. Owesifazane uya emihlatsheni eminingi ukuze ekugcineni aqaphele ukuthi akakwazi ukuhlala nendoda yakhe, akayithandi, umkhathaze.
Futhi ngokuzumayo uyaqaphela ukuthi owesifazane omthandayo uyamshiya ngokuzumayo. Lowo owenzele konke, waxolela wonke ama-antics akhe futhi wamlalela ngokuphelele! Kuye, kuhle, ngomusa, ukuletha indlu umholo, isiphuzo kanye non-ukubhema!
Ngenxa yalokho owesifazane angasuka kumuntu? Ukubheka kuphi isizathu sokuthi abesifazane bayathukuthela amadoda nokuthi bangaziqonda kanjani lokhu? Kungani efuna ukuya kwenye indawo ngakwesobunxele? Ingabe abamele ubulili obuhle kanye neqiniso bazinzile kangaka?
Okokuqala, owesifazane kulezi zinsuku uyingxenye yecala. Futhi, uma lo muntu ekwazi ngakho, mhlawumbe wayezokwazi ukuvimbela isimo esinjalo njengokungathengiswa noma ukuhoxiswa kowesifazane wakhe.
Ngemuva kwalokho, amadoda acabanga ukuthi wamshada, okusho ukuthi manje unesibopho sokwenza konke akutshelayo noma okukucelayo, futhi ngokuqondene nemisebenzi yasekhaya, ngakho konke kufanele kwenziwe nguye, ngoba akuyona umsebenzi womuntu wokugcoba noma izitsha hlamba. Ngemuva kwalokho, uletha imali emndenini, nguye owenza ukudla. Futhi iqiniso lokuthi umkakhe usebenza futhi, uya ekhaya ekhathele hhayi ngaphansi kwakhe ... kodwa ngubani okhathalelayo? Lo mfazi kumele aphathe futhi asebenze futhi ekhaya ukwenza konke, ukubhekana nabo kanye nezingane. Futhi lokhu kuthathwa kalula! Futhi manje angakwazi ukuphumula, ngoba umkakhe unqotshwe, kukhona umsebenzi, futhi ungakwazi ukuphumula. Angakwazi ukukhulisa isisu, ukuhamba nxazonke ngenduku noma ukuhogela kabi ugwayi noma ukujuluka, ubukele ibhola ngenkathi umkakhe ezama ukumbamba, njll.
Futhi yilokho izinsuku, amasonto, izinyanga, neminyaka zidlule. Uhlala ekulindele ukuthi lokhu kuzophela, ukuthi ekugcineni uzofuna ukuhamba naye kanye nomdlandla ukuchitha kusihlwa, ukuthi okungenani ngezinye izikhathi uzothi "ngiyabonga" ngesidlo sakusihlwa esilungisiwe, izingubo ezihlanziwe futhi zinobuciko, ukufudumala nokuthandwa. Ubekezelela ubhiya bakhe nabangani abahlale behlabelela "umgomo!", Ngisho noma ingane iselale kakade. Ubuye ebekezelela ukuthi ubheka ukuthi uyisiwula ngaphezu kwakhe. Futhi akamvumeli ukuba akhulume nalabo bantu abathandayo, futhi agqoke lezo zinto azithandayo. Owesifazane unesiguli, usekulungele ukuthwala izinto eziningi emahlombe akhe ahlukumezekile. Ngesikhathi.
Ngesinye isikhathi, ukuguquka kuzokufika lapho engayikuma konke, uzoba nesibindi, futhi ngeke acabange kakhulu ngemiphumela yezenzo zakhe. Vele uhambe futhi yilokho. Iningi labesifazane, lizozama ukusindisa umndeni, kodwa lokhu kuyoba ngumshado osemthethweni, ngaphandle kothando, ukufudumala nokuthandwa.
Owesifazane uthola isithukuthezi ngokuba uhlelo lokusebenza mahhala lomuntu wakhe ekuphileni kwakhe okuyigugu. Akafuni ukuba yiprosesa yokudla, ukhathele ukwenza njengesidonsa senjoloba, umcamelo, ifenisha, noma into evumela indoda yakhe ukuba ikhululeke. Futhi nsuku zonke nobusuku bonke enhliziyweni yakhe nasemphefumulweni wakhe, isifiso sokufakazela wonke umuntu ukuthi ungumuntu ophilayo sikhula ngokwengeziwe. Ukuthi unemizwa, imizwelo, amaphupho kanye nezifiso. Yini ngempela enayo izwe elijulile elingaphakathi, elithakazelisayo futhi eliningi. Noma mhlawumbe unethalente ehlale iguqula imishwana yakho ewubuwula njengokuthi: "awuyikucula, kodwa uyaphuma" noma "umama wakho udansa kangcono kunakho", "ungazami, ngeke uzithole", njll, e. Futhi uyakwenza ukuze abe negunya phezu kwakho futhi angalahlekelwa wena nezinsizakalo zakho uma uthuthukisa ithalenta lakho. Futhi ukhathele yilokho indoda yakhe engafuni ukumzwa, ayithathi izingxoxo zayo ngokungathí sina. Ngemuva kwalokho, akabona lutho futhi akukho muntu emndenini, ngaphandle kwakhe kanye nezidingo zakhe.
Indoda idinga ukubonga owesifazane wayo ngalokho akwenzela khona. Nakuba kubonakala sengathi kukhona abayiziphukuphuku ukumbonga ngalokho okumelwe akwenze, yiziphi imisebenzi yakhe eqondile. Isibonelo, izitsha zokugeza, ama-socks ahlanziwe, indawo yokuhlala ehlanza kanye nakho konke akwenzela yena nemindeni yabo. Ngemuva kwalokho, kubonakala sengathi kubantu kulula ukuthi bakwenze ukuthi akudingeki babonge ngalokho, yingakho bengasho amazwi okubonga emkhatsini wabo. Bese basamangala ukuthi abafazi babo bakhathele ngokuba yizinceku, kanye nezinceku, njengoba kuyaziwa ukukhokha.
Uma umuntu eyeka ekuthuthukiseni kwakhe, uba esolisayo, engenangqondo, enesibindi nokuphikisana. Akakwazi ukuphendula ngokucacile imibuzo eminingi, ekuhlulekeni kwakhe kuqala ukusola wonke umuntu, ngaphandle kwakhe. Uqala ukubuka imibukiso ye-TV, ukuphuza ubhiya phambi kwe-TV, ukuhlakaza nokuqoqa inhlebo, uzoba isivakashi esivamile kumasayithi we-porn. Uyeke ukubhekana nokubukeka kwakhe, futhi ukholelwa ukuthi ama-panties akhe amadala, aphethwe yi-panties angakwenza ukhange ngocansi, futhi iminwe yakhe, ehlale iphunga njengogwayi, uvele uphuze ukuzwa ezindlini zakho.
Akafuni ukwenza lutho uma lokhu kungathinti ukwaneliseka kokuzijabulisa kwakhe, ukunethezeka nokuzifisa kwakhe. Usebenzisana nobuntu bakhe, akekho omunye obalulekile kuye. Futhi-ke, lapho lo wesifazane ehlushwa yizinto zonke, ngeke amvimbele ukuba angathandi, ukukhathazeka nokuhlonipha u-Ego. Uzomane amshiye, mhlawumbe kumuntu ombona njengowesifazane, futhi uyomthanda futhi amthande. Futhi angiphili mina kuphela, kodwa nomfazi wakho othandekayo.
Mhlawumbe, kunezizathu eziningi ezengeziwe zokuthi kungani indoda ingathukuthela owesifazane. Kodwa, ngicabanga ukuthi izici eziyinhloko zombuzo wokuziqonda: lapho intombazane idiniwe nendoda yakhe, ngavula. Ngikholelwa ukuthi ukwazi lezi zimpendulo ezilula ungacabanga ngendlela yokugcina owesifazane wakho. Futhi akalokothi akhathazeke.