Ukuthandwa kwabantwana abanezinkinga zemidlalo yekhompiyutha bobabili abazali, nodokotela, kanye nothisha. Ingane iyayeka ukudla, ukuphuza nokukhuluma - ayikho, ayikho yonke imilenze ebulawe. Kungani lokhu kwenzeka futhi ukuthi "ukuhudula" kanjani ingane kwesikrini sokuqapha?
Ukuze uqonde lokho ikhompyutha ekhanga kakhulu ezinganeni, kufanelekile ukuqala ngokwakho. Sikhathele ukukhiqizwa kwesinkwa samalanga nsuku zonke, asikwazi ukulalela indodana noma indodakazi yethu, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu kunalesi sinkwa. Ngaphandle kokulinda ukukhulumisana nabantu abaphilayo, ingane iphendukela emzimbeni ophilayo, ohluke kakhulu kubazali ngoba njalo ulungele "ukwakha inkampani".
Isivinini esenziwa ngalo lo msindo kakhulu ukudlula ijubane lokuzikhandla, uthi, imithetho yeRussia, namageyimu wekhompyutha namagama abonakala sengathi angabonakali "Amageyimu" nokuthi "Ukunqotshwa kweMelika" ngokunqoba angene empilweni yengane yakho. Uma kungazelelwe uthola etafuleni futhi "i-School Informatics Course", ungasheshi ukujabula: uhlobo oluthile lwezincwadi luthi cishe lusetshenziselwa ukuma itiye elishisayo.
Mhlawumbe, omunye wabazali uyaziqhenya ngethemba ukuthi, ngokwenza abangane nekhompiyutha, esikhathini esizayo ingane izoba isimemezeli esihlakaniphile.
Ngeze: kude nayo. wonke amathalenta amancane akwazi ukuyeka ukuzijabulisa ngokuya emakilasini, ngisho noma ekhompyutheni.
Nkosi wezwe
Imidlalo yekhompyutha inikeza ingane ithuba lokuba yinto engakwazi ukuyenza ekuphileni: amandla okuqondisa nokuqondisa komcimbi. Ukhula ngokwedlulele emehlweni akhe, ngoba akugcini ngokuhlanganyela ekusebenzeni komdlalo, kepha ngokulawula okugcwele.
Indlela le nqubo ezoqhubeka ngayo ixhomeke kuphela ekufisweni kwenkinobho yokucindezela. Umdlalo uba umlinganiso empilweni yangempela, lapho okuncane kuncike kumntwana. Njengengcindezi yengqondo, ushintsho olunjalo lwezindima luyadingeka kunoma yimuphi umuntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uneminyaka engakanani.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ihluzo eziphezulu zekhwalithi zinika ingane ingqondo ye-100% yeqiniso. Kodwa imithetho ethile yomdlalo wekhompyutha, isibonelo, ukuxazulula okusheshayo kwanoma yimiphi imibuzo ngomugqa ozenzakalelayo, kunganika ingane umqondo wokuthi leyo ndlela yokuziphatha iyasebenza ekuphileni.
Yiqiniso, izinga lokutholwa nokuzinza kwengqondo kuzo zonke izingane zihlukile, kodwa kunengqondo ukuthi abazali bahlale benesithakazelo ekuqukethwe kwemidlalo. Ingxenye enzima kunazo zonke ukulalela indaba ngokuzinikezela okuphelele. Kodwa-ke uzobe uziqhenya ngokuzwakalayo okuzwakalayo phakathi kwentsha, ukufaka ngokukhululekile ingxoxo nabo ngamazwi afana ne-warcraft kanye nesiteleka.
Ukulwa akunamsebenzi
Eqinisweni, asikwazi ukuphunyuka kulo mdlalo wokuzilibazisa wezingane zethu. Ikhompyutheni ingene ekuphileni kwethu futhi izohlala kuyo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi siyayithanda noma cha. Isimo sezulu esingalungile, imvula kanye ne-slush, futhi, ungasivuli injabulo ekhethekile, kodwa sithatha isambulela futhi sihamba siye emgwaqeni. Ngakho-ke isiphetho: ukuhlukumeza akusizi ngalutho, kodwa kubalulekile ukulawula.
Omunye wabangane bami, esephelile amandla okuphikisana, waqala ukuthatha igundane naye ukusebenza. Lena akuyona indlela engcono kakhulu yokuphuma, ngoba ingane ingaya njalo kumngane onomzali ongenakwazi izinyathelo ezinzima kangaka. Omunye umngane wami, intatheli, akasamshiyi ingane ngethuba lokuhlala ekhompyutheni isikhathi eside - njalo uhlezi ngemuva kwakhe.
Zama ukunikeza indodana yakho noma indodakazi yakho iziqondiso ezithile, isibonelo, mayelana nendlu, ngemva kwalokho unembeza onokuthula (uma uqinisekile ukuthi ukhona), ungahlala phansi ukuze uthole umdlalo. Uma ugogo wakho ehlala, uzoqapha inqubo ngezinsuku zamasonto.
Kodwa ungathembi kakhulu ekuqapheliseni, futhi okokuqala, lapho uthenga i-computer, ungafaki ukuqapha okuhle: izinkinga nombono zibiza kakhulu. Fundisa ingane yakho ukuthi ikhokhise amehlo, isibonelo, gxuma bese uvula abafundi kuqala, bese uya phezulu. Futhi ukushaja ngemuva - emva kwakho konke, ukuhlala okuhleliwe, lapho umntwana ehlala khona amahora, kuyisimo "esicindezelayo".
Funda, isibonelo, ukuvivinya "ikati ithukuthele": ukuma kuzo zonke ezine, uhlehlise ikhanda lakho ngenkathi ujikeleza emuva, hlala njalo imizuzwana engu-5-10, bese uphakamisa ikhanda bese uphenduka kahle. Phinda uze ube nesithukuthezi, kodwa hhayi ngaphansi kwezikhathi ezingu-5-6.
Cuff noma umngane omuhle
Manje ake sicabange ukuthi sifeze umsebenzi onzima kakhulu - isikhathi esithile sidabula ingane esikrinini. Kusele ukuthi sicabangele ukuthi singanikeza ingane ngokubuyisela. Ake sibhekane nayo: azikho izigaba ezemidlalo ezisezingeni elihle ezisele.
Mhlawumbe umgwaqo? Kodwa umgwaqo lapho thina esinomphefumulo ozolile uvumela abazali bakhe ukuba bangabe besaba khona. Ngisho "ezinsukwini ezinhle zakudala" kwakungeyona i-Institute of Noble Maidens, namuhla isuke isihlukumeze ngisho nokubulala - hhayi ngendlela engokomfanekiso, kodwa ngokusho okuqondile kwegama.
Akumangalisi ukuthi iningi lethu lithanda ukuthi izingane zichitha isikhathi esiningi ekhaya: ake ingane ihlale kukhompuyutha ingcono kunamapayipi ngokusebenzisa izindlela. Umbuthano uvaliwe?
Ngaphambi kokuba ngiqale ukusebenza kule ngqungquthela, nganquma ukuthola ulwazi oluvela emlonyeni wokuqala: Ngabuza indodana yami eneminyaka eyishumi nanhlanu ukuthi ngaphandle kokuphela kwezwe ingamqeda ekukhulumisaneni nezilo. Umbuzo wabamba ingane ngokumangala, futhi wathi kufanele ucabange. Kodwa umyeni, umsekeli wezindlela zezemfundo zezinzalamizi, waphendule masinyane: "Cuff."
Umqondo wokuthi kungenzeka ukusebenzisa amandla emzimbeni onamandla angamcasula indodana yakhe, kodwa yashesha inqubo yokucabanga. "Izifundo nezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu," wamemeza, ebheka phansi. Ngangikhala nje izinyembezi zemizwelo! Kodwa, ngokubheka izilinganiso ezesabekayo kudayari, ukucwaninga sekuyisikhathi eside kungeyona into ebaluleke kakhulu.
Ngangifuna iqiniso, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi libaba kangakanani. Ngifisa sengathi angizange ngikwenze - okunye okunye kukhompyutha kwakuyisithuthuthu! Ngalobo busuku indodana yami yafika kimi yathi: "Mama, ngiyazi ukuthi ngingakwazi ukufaka esikhundleni sekhompiyutha - abangane abalungile!" Mhlawumbe, lokhu kuyindlela engcono kakhulu ...
Isiqephu se-gingerbread ngeke silimale
Shayela ingane ingxoxo eyimfihlo. Ungamcindezeli - uzokwenza ngenhlanhla. Kungcono ukumsiza aqaphele ukuthi konke kunemingcele enengqondo, ukuthi ungamvimbeli ukwenza lokho akuthandayo, kodwa nje ufuna ukuthi ahlanganyele kulokhu kuphela. Mtshele ukuthi ujabule ukuthi unokuzilibazisa (ngisho noma kungenjalo ngempela), kodwa kusekhona izinto eziningi ezithakazelisayo emhlabeni.
Mhlawumbe uzothola izithakazelo zakho ndawonye bese uqonda ukuthi ingane yakho iyithandani. Ngokwesibonelo, engxoxweni enoNikita oneminyaka engu-14 ubudala, umfana waphupha ukwazi izimoto, okamangalisa uyise, umshayeli wemoto onolwazi: wayengabonakali uthando olukhulu lwekhono lobuchwepheshe kumntwana wakhe.
Kodwa abazali balalela, futhi kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, egalaji likayise, uNicita uchitha isikhathi esincane kunemva kwesimangalo. Futhi omunye umshini wekhompiyutha wathunyelwa ehlobo ... ekamu le-computer. Unina womfana wanquma ukuthi okungenani bayomfundisa ukuba abone umshini onzima hhayi njengethoyi. Kodwa lo mfana "wagcwalisa lo msebenzi" futhi akafundile kuphela uhlelo, kodwa wathola umngane wangempela, ophilayo.
Ukusikisela kwengane ukuthi ukwenza isinqumo sokugcina, Yebo, kuyohlala naye futhi ungangabazi ngakho konke okulungile. Isiqephu se-gingerbread asilimazanga noma ubani okwamanje, futhi isifubhe empilweni yakhe ingaphezu kokwanele.
"Sindisa imiphefumulo yethu!"
Kodwa-ke, uDeveli akayena wesabe njengoba eqoshiwe. Ikhompiyutha ikhombisa okuthile okufana ne-inkukhu, okuyinto cishe sonke esasiye sagula ebuntwaneni. Yiqiniso, kwakungekho injabulo enkulu kulokhu, kodwa akekho owakwazi ukushintsha inkambo yemvelo yemicimbi. Kodwa-ke, emandleni ethu ukwenza lesi sifo siphume ngaphandle kwezinkinga. Futhi, noma ngabe yini ongayisho, kuzothatha isikhathi nokubekezela, okuso sonke isikhathi esingenaso.
Vumela omunye wabazali bakhethe. Ngokuvamile sifuna ukushintsha okuzungezile (futhi kulula kangakanani ukubeka izingane ekugcineni!), Futhi abazimisele kakhulu ukuzishintsha ngokwabo. Siye sazimela futhi singathola izizathu eziyinkulungwane zalokhu. Kodwa akukho mithwalo yokuphila ilungele ukuguqulwa kwethu ibe yimishini yokuthola imali. Futhi iqiniso lokuthi imoto yaba i-interlocutor engcono kunazo zonke zezingane eziningi, yiyona iphutha lethu. Ngoba inkinga yekhompiyutha iyingxenye yenkinga ye "obaba nezingane."
Sonke kufanele sicabange ukuthi kungani izingane eziningi nokuningi zikhetha ukungokoqobo kweqiniso futhi zithinta ukuxhumana okuphilayo noxhumana nabo. Mhlawumbe ngoba ingane isaba ukuthi inganqatshwa futhi ingacaciswanga futhi ukuthintana okubonakalayo kuye kuyithuba elilodwa lokungabi yedwa? Ingabe sikwazi ukwakha okunye okungokoqobo ekukhulumisaneni okungekho "okungazenzeki" nokukhulumisana nomzwelo?
Kakhulu, uma nje sibheka ukwehluleka kwengane ngendlela elula njengeyethu, futhi siyayiqonda njengoba kunjalo. Thina, bazali, sikhohliwe ukuthi thina ngokwethu singaba ngabalingani emidlalweni, kanye nezinsiza zokuqeqesha ezibukwayo. Ngokuqondile, isiqondiso esisebenzayo esihlokweni esibizwa ngokuthi "Ukuphila."