Impumelelo eyenziwa yingane, ngokwesibonelo, ihlehlisa izinto zokudlala amathoyizi, ifinyelela ezintweni ezikude, lapho ecabanga kakhulu ngaye, ukuthuthuka kwayo kuqhubeka ngokuthuthuka. Uma ingane ithola okuthile yedwa, idala ukuthembela kuye, isifiso sokwenza okuthile ngokwakhe ngesikhathi esizayo. Uma ingane ihluleka kaningi, ngaphandle kosizo lwakho nokusekelwa, akakwazi ukubhekana nayo. Lokhu kungaholela ekubeni ingane ingabi naluphephelo noma ngeke ifune ukwenza lutho ngedwa.
Inkinga yonyaka wokuqala wokuphila ibuye ilandelwe ukuthi ingane ikwenza umsebenzi. Izingane kule minyaka yobudala zihluke kakhulu kumunye nomunye wezinga lomsebenzi. Ezinye izingane ziyasebenza kakhulu kusukela zisencane, abanye bacela ngokushesha abazali ukuba babasize. Inkinga yonyaka wokuqala wokuphila kwengane ibonakala, ikakhulukazi, eqinisweni, ukuthi abazali babona ubunzima bokuqala ekukhulisweni kwengane. Uma ingane ihlale ilalela kuze kube yonyaka, emva konyaka iba yingozi, inenkani, ngenhloso. Izingane zingakwazi ukulwa kusukela ezinyangeni ezingu-11, zivikela iphuzu lakhe lokubuka! Ezinye izingane azilwi, kodwa kunalokho zihlehlisiwe, uma abazali bazo benqaba into ethile: benza i-grimaces noma bayakhala. Futhi uhlobo lwesithathu lwezingane, naphezu kokuvinjelwa, qhubeka uyenza into yabo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane yakho isabela kanjani ekuvinjweni, ikuvumela ukuthi wazi ukuthi usevele engumuntu ozimele, ukuthi izifiso zakhe azihambisani ngaso sonke isikhathi nezakho.
Uma ingane yakho eneminyaka eyodwa ubudala ivele inenkani futhi iyingozi, kufanele wazi ukuthi lezi zinqubo zemvelo nje zokuba umuntu. Kwenzeka ukuthi izici ezimbi zomlingiswa wengane azizona eziyinkimbinkimbi.
Isici esihlukile senkinga yonyaka wokuqala wokuphila kwengane ukuthi kungaphezu kwesikhathi esifushane ingane ifunda amakhono amasha nolwazi. Ukubonakaliswa kwengcindezi ekuziphatheni kwengane kuxhomeke ekuziphatheni kwabazali ngalesi sikhathi. Ungaceli okungaphezulu kunomntwana kunakho konke, ungamvimbeli kakhulu, uhlole ukufaneleka nokuphumelela kwengane ngokugcwele. Uma kungenjalo, usengozini yokuwa ukungamukeleki. Abazali kufanele bahlale bezwela futhi belalelisise ingane kule nkathi enzima yokuphila kwakhe. Kufanele unike ingane yakho isikhathi esanele. Ukuhamba okuhlangene, imidlalo, amakilasi azokudonsa ndawonye nge-crumb, angeke akulimaze futhi enze konke ngokuphikisana.
Yiqiniso, ukuzimela kwengane kuzobangela inkathazo enkulu kubazali: izinyane lezinyane manje nesikhathi sithatha isipuni ngesikhathi sokudla, sigqoka ukuhamba, ukugoba imilenze nezandla, ukulala, ukukhohlisa.
Ngezenzo ezinjalo, umntwana uyaziqinisekisa. Phela, akazizi ezinye izindlela zokuzivuma. Futhi ngakho izingane ngokuvamile ziziphatha kuphela nabantu abaseduze. Ngabantu abangabazi, ababonisi inkani enjalo.
Uma phakathi nenkathazo abazali bahlonipha izifiso kanye nempumelelo yengane, khona-ke i-vagaries yakhe yancipha kancane kancane. Usuvele ufunda ukwehlisa abantu abadala, ulalela izicelo nezidingo kalula. Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, ukungakwazi ukudla, ingane izama ukususa i-spoon kumama wayo, kodwa ngokushesha nje lapho efunda ukudla kwakhe eyedwa, uthanda ngisho nokudla.
Ekupheleni konyaka wokuqala wokuphila, ingane isazi kakade ukwenza izinyathelo eziyinkimbinkimbi, inezinhlobo ezimbili zokuxhumana. Lokhu ubuntu obuncane, ukuthuthukiswa okuqhubekayo okuxhomeke ngokuphelele kubazali.