Abaningi besifazane banesizathu esisodwa sokukhononda ngokuntuleka kokunakekelwa okukhokhelwe kuso. Ukungabi nabesifazane kuzo zonke izizathu kubangela ukuthi indoda iqala ukuhlupheka ngaphansi kwayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma owesifazane engamchazi isizathu sokuziphatha okunjalo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, umphumela kungenzeka ukuthi le ndoda iqala ukufuna induduzo kwezinye izindawo, ikakhulukazi nabanye besifazane. Futhi-ke uqala ukuzibuza ukuthi benzeni uma abesifazane bevame ukuyeka.
Inhloko igula . Amazwi anjalo cishe ajwayelekile kubantu besifazane, uma, ngokuxubha isandla kumuntu, ubonise izinto zokuqala kunoma yikuphi okushiwo ngocansi. Nakuba inhloko yekhanda ingase ingabi yinto eqanjiwe njengoba ibonakala ekuqaleni. Kungaba khona ngenxa yokuthi owesifazane usebenza ngokweqile emsebenzini noma uhlale enenkinga yokusebenza. Ngokombono wezinto eziphilayo, kungashiwo ukuthi lo wesifazane wenqaba ngokuzithandela imithi engcono kakhulu futhi ephumelelayo kakhulu. Kungukuya ocansini okungasheshe kugweme ukukhanda ikhanda elinjalo ngokuphuthumayo ngenxa yokukhululwa kwamahomoni, okuzokwenza futhi kukhululeke ubuhlungu. Phela, ososayensi sekuyisikhathi eside befika esiphethweni sokuthi ubudlelwano bocansi angeke bube uhlobo lwenjabulo kuphela, kodwa futhi lungabasiza ukuzivikela komzimba omzimba obuthakathaka. Futhi okufanele uqaphele ukuthi ukuyeka isikhathi eside kwezocansi kungabangela nje ukuphathwa ikhanda, kodwa ngisho nokuphoqa i-migraine. Ngakho-ke, uma indoda isifiso sokucindezela umkakhe, ungamlahli. Ngempela, ngisho nangaphandle kwe-orgasm, ubulili bungaba nomphumela owusizo kuphela, okungukuthi kuyodingeka impilo yabesifazane.
Ngifuna ukulala . Abanye besifazane abaya ocansini babhekisela ekhanda, kanti abanye bekhathele kakhulu futhi bafuna ukulala. Yebo-ke, ukungalali kungaba yisizathu esihle sokuzizwa komzimba wesifazane ombi, okuchaza ukungafuni ukubandakanya izidakamizwa embhedeni nomthandi wakho. Kodwa lokhu kungaba kuphela okuzuzisa umlingani wakho, uzokwazi ukuphumula futhi akujabulise nge-caresses nozwela, okuzokwenzeka esikhathini esizayo kungenzeke iphutha lasendle kokubili. Mhlawumbe, mhlawumbe, lo muntu uzodinga ukwenza imizamo emikhulu ukuze ngandlela-thile avuselele ubuhle bakhe obulele. Kodwa imiphumela yokugcina neyifunayo iwufanele imizamo enjalo eqhubekayo. Phela, umthandi othokozelayo uyojabulela injabulo yowesifazane othandekayo wakhe. Iphutha elimnandi emva kokuya ocansini oluhle lizoba amaphilisi engeziwe okulala. Ngakho ubuthongo obuhle, obuqinile futhi obuhle ngemva kobusuku obunjalo, ungasho ukuthi unikezwa, kanye nokuvusa okuncane.
Kunesizathu esihle . Odokotela okwamanje abanombono ovamile mayelana nokulala ocansini phakathi nezinsuku ezibucayi ngenxenye yesifazane yabantu. Nakuba abesifazane abaningi bezishaya injabulo yalezi zinsuku. Futhi isikhundla esinjalo singaqondakala futhi samukelwe njengengqondo. Kodwa nakanjani akukho ukuvinjelwa okuqondile, kanti kamuva kwamanye abesifazane beshukumisa isifiso nokufisa ukuthola ezinye izindlela zokuthola injabulo ngendlela engavamile. Kukhona nombono omuhle wokungalali ucansi ezinsukwini zabafazi abalukhuni. Ngokufanayo, ososayensi abathile bafinyelela esiphethweni sokuthi ukugqugquzelwa kwesifuba sesifazane ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini kungasiza ekunciphiseni izinzwa ezibuhlungu ezihambisana nalokhu. Ngakho-ke kudingekile ukucabangela ukuthi kuyadingeka ngempela ukugwema ubulili kubantu besifazane ngesizathu esihle.
Isimo esibi . Yisinye isizathu sokungafuni ukulala nobulili namantombazane. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kubonakala ukuthi lapho ubhekene nezinkinga ezithile emsebenzini noma ekhaya, izinkinga zasemakhaya noma izinkinga ezincane, owesifazane angakwazi ukuwohloka ngokuqondile. Amanye amantombazane aqala ukufuna izixazululo zalezi zinkinga ngokudla okumnandi noma ukubukela ifilimu yama-lyric. Noma mhlawumbe udinga nje ukuzama ukuxazulula le nkinga ngesimo sengqondo esibi nomyeni wakho othandekayo ngosizo losizi olukhukhulayo, ukukhohlisa izingane noma okunye okunye? Yini ekugcineni ingabangela ubulili obuhlukile nokungalindelekile.
Owesifazane oqala ukuvimba ucingo wakhe othandekayo nazo zonke izinhlobo zezizathu zokuzilandulela uqala ukumhlukanisa naye. Ukuziphatha okunjalo njalo kunganciphisa noma yimiphi imizwa eshisayo. Futhi ukusondelana akukwazi nje ukunikeza umuzwa wokulondeka nokusekelwa, kodwa nakho kungabhekana nazo zonke izinhlobo zezinkinga.
Kusukela ekuthukutheleni . Kubuye kwenzeke ukuthi othandekayo wakho wakucasula ngandlela-thile, ngoba akukho nakancane isifiso sokuhlanganyela nombhede naye. Noma nje indoda yakho yenza okuthile okungalungile, njengoba ungathanda. Kodwa kunoma yikuphi, ungathola okunye, futhi kunengqondo ukuchaza kuye isizathu sokucasuka kwakho. Emva kwakho konke, indoda ayinikezwa ukuqagela noma ukuzwa intuitively, njengoba cishe bonke abesifazane bangakwazi, lokho akwenzile okungalungile noma okungahambi kahle. Kudingeka basho amaqiniso athile, banikeze izibonelo, bachaze ngeminwe yabo konke abakwazi ukukuqonda ngaphandle kwenkomba. Imfihlo yokufihla izikhalazo kanye nokuthungatha othandekayo. Futhi ukuqedela, ngemuva kokuthola ukungaqondi kahle, ungabhema naso ipayipi yokuthula, igama elingacatshangelwa ndawonye, ngenkathi inqubo yengxoxo yayo eqinile embhede womndeni.
Ubulili nabesifazane kufanele bube ngangokunokwenzeka kokubili abalingani. Ungazibekezi ngesizathu esisodwa noma esinye, ngoba isisombululo esingcono kunokuba ubuhlobo bomuntu nomuntu oyifunayo, akumane nje. Thandanani kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini.