Ukwehla kwe-inferiority - ukuqhuma okungapheli noma ukunyakaza okuphakade


Kwangathi, ngoJuni, ngoJulayi, ku-Agasti - ukushisa, sekuyisikhathi sokuba izintambo kanye nokugibela, izinqamuleli nezinsizakalo. Futhi ukuthi ufuna ukugqoka ingubo elula futhi uphume emgwaqweni. Ukudonsa ngalesi sigqoko, uqala ukuzibuka esibukweni. Futhi ubonani? Isisu sithukulule, izinhlangothi ziphuma, umpristi waphelelwa ngokuphelele, isifuba sincane ... noma mhlawumbe konke kubonakala kuwe ??? Mhlawumbe uzigxeka kakhulu wena nombalo wakho? Konke mayelana nezinkimbinkimbi. Izakhiwo zezintombikazi ze-rasprastranennye kunazo zonke lapho usebenzisana namadoda ubukeka besifazane, ikakhulukazi lapho kufika ihlobo. Noma yisiphi isakhiwo esiyinkimbinkimbi kubhekwa njengento encane kakhulu. Ngakho - ke ubunzima obuphansi - umshini wokugweda noma umshini wokuhamba njalo ???? Ukuhlukunyezwa okuphakade ngaphambi kokuthandana namadoda noma ukunyakaza okungapheli okuzozibuza wena?

Ngibonile ukukhangiswa kwamaflake amaFitnes, ngacabanga ngezinkimbinkimbi kanye nemvelaphi yazo. Intombazane esesikhangisweni, ehamba phambi kwesibuko endaweni yokudoba ngaphakathi, yamboza isisu sayo ephelele nesigqoko sakhe se-beach, futhi sinesihe, ukuze kungabikho muntu ozobona uhlobo lwakhe lokungafezeki, futhi ikakhulukazi amadoda. Futhi ngacabanga ukuthi, uma umuntu enezinkinga eziningi, kangangokuthi engakwenzi, kulokhu, elahlekelwe isisindo, akasaziqedi.

With the complexes udinga ukulwa ezingeni lezingqondo. Ngemva kwezinsuku eziyishumi nane, intombazane efanayo enesibalo esifanayo yayiphenduka ngasese echibini ngamabhayisikili amancane, kanti indoda enhle yayimbheka. Futhi ngaphinde ngacabanga, kanti lawa maantombazane agqoke i-bikinis, esiswini sakhe sikhulu ngokweqile kunezifuba zabo, futhi banezinkinga? Ngithembele ogwini, ngangibukele amantombazane enjalo, futhi ngithi basuke beqiniseka ngokuzethemba ngogu lolwandle ngokubaluleka kwabo. Laba bantu abangenazo izinkimbinkimbi ngenxa yesimo sabo hhayi amafomu afanelekayo. Isisu sibheke ngoba wabeletha izingane ezintathu futhi wabakhulela abantu abafanelekile, futhi yena, ngesisu sakhe, uhamba ngokuziqhenya wathi, "Bheka, ngiletha abathathu, kodwa akunjalo?" Noma owesifazane unesilwane esikhulu, kodwa futhi akayinkimbinkimbi ngakho, ngoba ungowesifazane ophumelelayo oqhuba iLexus futhi emsebenzini wonke umuntu uyamthandaza.

Ukuphumelela yilokho okubhubhisa izinkimbinkimbi, futhi ukuze uphumelele, udinga ukuba nesibindi, futhi ungesabi lokho abantu abakucabangayo ngawe, ngoba sonke asiphelele. Futhi ngisho namamodeli awaphelele. Uyabheka, banamachashazi yonke indawo, ukuthi ungakwazi ngisho nokubala emaphethelweni. Ingabe lo sexy? Futhi noma yikuphi, ngubani okhuphuke nomqondo omuhle? Futhi ngubani othi isibalo esihle kufanele sibe 90-60-90 ??? Wonke owesifazane unelungelo lakhe, elingekho. Ubani owaziyo umuntu ongcono ozobhekwa njengelungile kuwo wonke umuntu emhlabeni? Ngomuntu, angazi izinhloso ezinjalo.

Ukuqeda izinkimbinkimbi, okokuqala, kumele sivume ukuthi abanye abantu nabo banamanye ama-complexes nezinkinga zabo. Yini eyoqeda izinkimbinkimbi ezihlobene nokubukeka, ume phambi kwesibuko futhi ubheke umzimba wakho, njengesisu, zama ukubona kuwo ungabi amanoni, kodwa ama-cubes. Uma unezinkimbinkimbi, khona-ke usazama ukukuqeda, ugijimela ejimini noma ugijima ekuseni, noma uhlezi ezidlweni ezahlukene. Ngandlela-thile, unesimo esihle kakhulu, kuphela wena ozigxeka kakhulu. Zama ukuziqinisekisa, isibonelo, ukugqoka okuthile okuqinile futhi uzame ukuhamba emgwaqweni, ngicabanga ukuthi bonke abantu bayokujabulela ukuphendukela ezinyathelweni zakho.

Hangisa izithombe zakho ezungeze indlu, ukuzibona nsuku zonke ezindongeni uzozizwa ukuthi awukho okubi kakhulu, futhi abantu abazofika ukukuvakashela lapho bebona izithombe zakho bazoqala ukukubona ube mnandi, ngoba uzame ukulenga eyakho isithombe ngendlu. Ngakho-ke, uyazethemba wena futhi awunazo izinkimbinkimbi, futhi lokhu kuzokwenza izivakashi zakho zijabule, ngoba zizwa ukuthi uyazethemba, futhi ukuzethemba kwakho kuye kwaba nomthelela oqinile kubantu. Uma ubeke ama-portraits akho eduze kwendlu, uyaziqhenya wena nomzimba wakho, okusho ukuthi uyaqiniseka, uma uqiniseka, ke uphumelele! Ungesabi ukuthi abantu bayokucabanga ngakho, ngoba bonke abantu besaba ukuthi uzocabanga ngabo. Yiba nesibindi, futhi uzithanda ngokwakho ukuthi ungubani, futhi abanye bayokukujabulela.

Yazi ukuthi ngabe uNkulunkulu wakudala ngalokho oyikho, khona-ke uhle, futhi uma unesiphambeko, khona-ke kukhona umphumela omuhle kuwe okhokhela ukwehluleka kwakho. Nginomngane oyedwa, unesifuba esincane kakhulu, kahle, kodwa kuthiwani uma enesimo esinjalo sokuzamazama! Futhi ngenxa yalokhu njalo uthi, "Ngakho-ke, ukuthi nginaso esifubeni esincane, kodwa imbongolo yami izosula impumulo yanoma yisiphi isifuba." Noma esinye isibonelo, nginezinwele eziqondile, futhi abaningi engangibajwayele, abanamakhanda ama-wavy noma ama-curly, bangitshele izikhathi eziningi ukuthi baphupha izinwele ezinjengami. Futhi mina, ngithule, ngezinye izikhathi ngicabanga ukwenza i-chic noma ukudweba, kodwa angitsheli muntu ukuthi ngifuna izinwele ezisekhaleni. Ngiyathanda izinwele zami nokungaqondile, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ngifuna izinguquko, yingakho ngivame ukushintsha umbala wami wezinwele. Ngokuvamile, sifuna lokho omunye onakho, hhayi ukwazisa lokho esinakho ngokwethu. Ngikholelwa ukuthi othile ufuna izipikili ezifanayo, noma izinwele ezifanayo, noma ubukhulu obufanayo besifuba, noma isisu esifana nawe.

Ngakho, amantombazane amantombazane, besifazane, thola into enhle kuwe ekubukeka kwakho futhi uziqhenye ngakho, ngoba abantu abaningi bayakuhawukela! Mhlawumbe kunamehlo amakhulu, noma i-eyelashes ende, noma mhlawumbe isisu esisendlini, noma imilenze ende. Kulowo nalowo kukhona ucezu lobuhle olwenza ube mnandi. Khumbula ukuthi ayikho abesifazane ababi, kunabesifazane abahle, noma ngabe siphi, sihle.