Umfana akathandeki kunoma yini. Yini okufanele ngiyenze?

Ngokuvamile ubudlelwano bokuqala buqala ngokusheshisa kakhulu - uhlale unento yokukhulumisana ngayo, unomdlandla ngokuya ezindaweni ezavame ukubonakala njenge-banal futhi ziyakunxusa. Wena nsuku zonke uzokuzithokozisa okusha, ugcwalise impilo yakho ngokuzithiba okungavinjelwe futhi ujabule yonke imizuzu esetshenziswa ndawonye. Kodwa ngokushesha ukuzwakalisa kancane kancane kuyanyamalala, konke kuqina. Futhi, kubonakala sengathi, izinguquko eziholela ekuzinzeni, kufanele zijabule umbhangqwana ojabulayo ... Uma bevame ukungadabuki nokudabuka. Amantombazane angabantu abathandana kakhulu, bangathola injabulo ngisho nokucabangela amahora wamehlo abo abathandayo abomvu. Kodwa ukumangala nokujabulisa lo mfana kunzima kakhulu. Esihlokweni esithi "Umfana akasenasithakazelo. Yini okufanele siyenze? "Sizozama ukuthola isixazululo kule nkinga, okuzosiza ekuqedeni unomphela ukukhungatheka ekuphileni kwakho.

Ngakho-ke, isikhathi sesifikile lapho uqala ukuphawula ukuthi umfana wakho akanandaba nanoma yini. "Yini okufanele uyenze?" - ucabanga, ukuphuka ikhanda lakho ngenhloso yokulungisa isimo. Okokuqala, unqume: kungani umfana wakho engase abe nesithukuthezi? Mhlawumbe uvele ume endaweni ethile ukuze uphume, ukhohlwe ukuthi ungamjabulisa ngokunye okumangazayo? Noma, mhlawumbe, wena ngokwakho uye waba yisithukuthezi, uye wangena empilweni yansuku zonke. Konke lokhu kungaholela ekutheni indoda yakho ayizange ibe yinto ethakazelisayo, wangena embusweni ongathandeki futhi ulale usuku lonke phambi kwe-TV, engafuni ukwenza noma yini.

Uma iphuzu lonke liwukuthi uyeka ukuya ezingxenyeni ezijabulisayo, ngakho-ke akukho lutho olulukhuni ekubuyiseni umfana emuva ekuphileni okuvamile. Udinga nje ukuya kuma-nightclub kaningi uma ethanda. Uma engathandi amaqembu, khona-ke ungahlangana nekhampani ejabule futhi uya e-ice rink. Le ndawo enhle lapho ungahle uhlehle ngokuzenzekelayo ngokwakho, uzuze izibhamu ezimbalwa, uthole imali ephelele ye-adrenaline bese ukhohlwa zonke izinkinga. Uma ucabanga ukuthi lokhu akwanele, ungaya futhi uphuze isikhathi esihle nge-cocktail okumnandi ebhajini eliseduzane. Izingxoxo ezimnandi kanye namahlaya avamile ziphazamisa lo mfana kusuka emicabangweni enzima futhi izoletha kokubili kuye kanye nani, ukuphumula okulindele isikhathi eside nomzwelo wokuthi lolo suku aluzange lube yize. Ekugcineni, awukho ubudala - udinga ukuzijabulisa!

Enye indlela - ehlobo ungakwazi ukuqoqa bonke abangane bakho abahle kakhulu futhi uhlasele emvelweni. Emanzini asehlobo asehlobo ukusabalalisa impahla yabo, khipha imilenze ekhathele emgwaqeni, uhlale elangeni. Dlala i-badminton, kuyilapho la madoda ezobe esebenzela ukulungiswa kwe-shish kebab enhle kakhulu yokupheka ngesandla (okuyinto ngokuvamile eyenza inyama ibe yi-priori ngisho ne-tastier). Ukubeka umculo ongokomoya, ukuhlabelela izingoma zomculo ngaphansi kwegitala emlilweni othungayo. Ukwamukela, ukubukela amalahle wokugcina aphume, ahloniphe izinkanyezi ezinkulu ezihlanzekile ...

Uma umgwaqo ubumnandi ekwindla, ebusika noma ekuqaleni kwentwasahlobo, futhi ukunyuka emvelweni kungenakwenzeka ngenxa yezimo zezulu, futhi awufuni ukuya noma yikuphi - ungaba nekhaya ekhaya. Futhi ukwenza kube mnandi futhi kuthakazelise - yenza kusihlwa, isibonelo, i-costume ibhola-masquerade. Uzobona, kanye nezivakashi, futhi wena ngokwakho uyojabula, ngoba isikhathi esiningi uzoya ekulungiseleleni kwangaphambili kwalesi senzakalo esithakazelisayo!

Uma konke lokhu kungabangeli isoka lakho ekuphenduleni okujabulisayo - cabanga ngalokho akuthandayo. Uma engumdobi othandekayo - ungaya emfuleni ndawonye. Uyomcela ukuba afundise konke ukuhlakanipha kokudoba futhi athembisa ukuhlala ngokuthula. Ukuze uhlanganise umphumela futhi ujabule othandekayo, udinga ukuzithokozisa ngenhlanhla yonke inhlanzi, bese uthanda ikhono namakhono omfana futhi uthi inhlanzi yakhe inkulu!

Umdlali webhola anganika amathikithi emdlalweni othakazelisayo, mvumele ahambe nabangani, abalandeli, i-poboleet yeqembu lakho ozithandayo. Uzojabula ngokuthokoza ngalokhu, njengoba ngokuvamile abantu becabanga ukuthi intombazane ayikwazi ukuqonda izinto ezithandwayo zebhola noma yimuphi omunye umdlalo.

Uma umuntu wakho ethandana nokujula komphefumulo wakhe, hlela uhambo oluhlanganyelwe ukuya kuma-movie womugqa wokugcina, gcina isimo sengqondo esifanele futhi umhluphe ngothando ngesikhatsi sonke sesifundo. Ngemuva kwe-movie, ungangena ku-cafe yesigamu esingenalutho, udle ingxenye ephindwe kabili ye-ayisikhilimu uhambe uhambe emgwaqeni ogwadule, ubambe izandla.

Hhayi, ekugcineni, into engekho umfana ongayenqaba, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiziphi izinto zokuzilibazisa ayenazo. Lokhu - isidlo sakuthandana ekhaya, ngamakhandlela, ubumnene obuhambisana nama-exotics. Lungiselela isimanga esinjalo kusengaphambili. Ngesikhathi esekho (isibonelo, emsebenzini), kufanele ube nesikhathi sokupheka isidlo esiphundu esibucayi, sithenge ebhodleleni lewayini lakho elithandayo, ukuthenga namakhandlela akhanyayo. Yenza okukhethwa kukho izingoma zakho ezithandwayo kakhulu zothando - vumela lo mculo omnene ukuhamba nawe kusihlwa. Khona-ke lesi script sincike kuwe. Ungaba nesibindi esikhulu futhi ungagwegwesi.

Mhlawumbe uyakwazi ukudansa kahle - bese uhlela ubusuku bokudansa ngaye. Kubonakala kunhle ekukhanyeni komdanso wesibhakabhaka sase-eastern belly - kusukela kulesi soka sakho kuzoba yizilozi, hhayi kusuka ku-hop. Hhayi, futhi uma unamakhono emidanso yaseplastiki - hlela i-striptease yakho eyintandokazi. Siyaqiniseka ukuthi uzojabula futhi ngokuqinisekile uyoziqhayisa kubangane bakhe ukuthi ungumuntu onohlakaniphile kangaka!

Yebo, ukudansa kudinga kuphela ukuqeda ngobulili obuhle kakhulu. Ungadlala imidlalo yokudlala indima noma uvele uyibeke ekufeni - emva kokulungiswa okunjenge-striptease noma isisu sokudansa insizwa yakho iyobe ingenasiphelo futhi ithandeke kakhulu.

Ukuthandana okunjalo (ungasho nokuthi, ukuhlwa) kusihlwa kuzokunikeza wena nesoka lakho isimo sengqondo esivelayo. Uzohamba ezinyaweni zothando nozwela, uzovula eminye imicu emisha yomphefumulo - okuhlale kulungile kunoma yimuphi ubuhlobo. Ngakho-ke, uthando lwakho luzokhula lube namandla, futhi uzophinde uqhubekele ekudleni konke okudliwayo, okusho ukuthi impahla iyancipha ngemva kobudlelwane obude kakhulu.

Futhi, uma ngokungazelelwe uqaphele ukuthi inkinga ikhona kuwe ngokwakho - khona-ke udinga ukuzixazulula ngokwakho. Cabanga: yiziphi izici zomlingisi wakho ezicishiwe kusukela ngesikhathi, nakuba zithandwa kakhulu nomfana wakho ekuqaleni? Mhlawumbe uyeka ukuhleka kakhulu futhi waqala ukukhubekisa futhi umgxila okuthile? Lesi yisikhathi sokuphinda ubuyekeze kabusha ukuziphatha kwakho. Nakuba kunjalo, kunezimo ezinjalo ukuthi abantu ngokwabo bavusa lokho "ukukhononda" kwentombazane. Kodwa uhlakaniphile, kufanele uqonde ukuthi lena yimbuthano enonya, futhi uyakwazi kuphela ukuyiphula. Yiba yilokho ayithandayo - futhi konke ukucasula kwakhe njengesandla kuzosusa.

Kwenzeka ukuthi indoda ifuna okuthile okusha empilweni: zama ukuqala ngokwakho. Shintsha i-hairstyle yakho ku-cardinal ngokuphambene, shintsha isitayela sezingubo, futhi uvele phambi kwayo "indima" entsha. Uyakwazisa lezi zinguquko, ikakhulukazi uma udale isithombe esivumelanayo nesifanele.

Into eyinhloko ukuqaphela ngesikhathi lapho impilo yakho iqala ukudabuka nokuthola izici "ezindala" ezimbalwa. Uma uqonda ngokushesha ukuthi yini engalungile, uzokwazi ukulungisa konke futhi unikeze ubuhlobo bakho umoya omusha!