Kule minyaka yobudala, amantombazane avunyelwe kakhulu, ngisho nokuzimela ukuze bajwayele abafana emgwaqweni. Madoda othandekayo, ungesabi ukuhamba kuqala, kodwa qaphela, ungenzi lutho olungathandeki, kungenjalo uzokwesaba lo mfana. Ungazijwayele noma yikuphi. Lapha kusitolo, isibonelo, cela iseluleko sakhe, uma kuthiwa ukhetha isipho kumbe othandekayo wakho noma ifoni entsha. Amantombazane afisa ukukhombisa ukuphakama kwabo, ngakho akekho kubo ongenqabe ukusiza intombazane enhle.
Futhi emvula, ungakwazi ukufihla ngaphansi kwesambulela bese uthi ngezwi elimnandi: "Ngicela ukuxolela kwakho, ngikhohliwe isambulela ekhaya, lokho engikuhluphekile - angijabuli!" Futhi lo mfana uzoziphatha kahle njengesikhulu futhi akuyise endaweni edingekayo, futhi ekugcineni ukuhamba kuzothatha inombolo yefoni yakho.
Imfihlo yokukhohlisa iyinombolo ezimbili.
Siyakuhalalisela, uthathe isinyathelo sokuqala ekukhohliseni indoda. Kodwa akukhona konke. Kudingekile ukwenza kanjalo ukuze uhlale uphelele imicabango yakhe, ukuze ube yinto yokudumisa kwakhe. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, khumbula ukuthi abantu bathanda ukuzihlula, basaphila ama-knights asephakathi.
"Futhi manje yini okufanele uyenze?" - uyabuza. Ngokumane nje, udinga nje ukuvumela umfana ukuba anqobe. Mbonise ukuthi ubuthakathaka kanjani, ake uzizwe njengendoda yangempela. Ikhompiyutha yakho ayisebenzi, awukwazi ukuthola i-headset efanele efonini, awukwazi ukunquma lapho ukhetha imoto, futhi mhlawumbe unayo leyo nto oyidingayo kakhulu manje. Uyabona, isizathu sokuthatha inombolo yakhe yocingo akulula ukuthola!
Imfihlo yokukhohlisa iyinombolo yesithathu.
Amadoda athande amehlo. Ngakho-ke, kufanele ubukeke uphelele. Akekho umfana ongayithanda uma kukhona intombazane engaphephile eceleni kwakhe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukubukeka kwakho kufanele kube ngo-sexy, kodwa akusiyo inhlamba. Isiketi esifushane, inkinobho engasetshenziswanga ngaphandle kwe-blouse, i-jeans eqinile - kulokhu zonke izindlela zilungile.
Imfihlo yokukhohlisa yinombolo ezine.
Futhi manje menze azi ukuthi wena, omuhle futhi omuhle, mhlawumbe uzame wonke omunye umfana. Mcele iseluleko, athi bayathandana. Ubani? Akuyona ibhizinisi lakhe! Masihlupheke.
Lapha, mhlawumbe, nakho konke ongakwenza esigabeni sokuqala sokukhohlisa. Okulandelayo - ukuhamba kwakhe. Uma umfana engeke egijima ephethe isimemezelo sothando, kahle, ke unezinye. Myeke ngokuthula. Futhi uma ethandana nawe futhi uhlangene, ke ungaphumuli, udinga ukudukisa umfana nsuku zonke. Nazi izimfihlo zokugcina ezilandelayo.
1. Ungavumeli umfana ahlale entanyeni yakho, ungalokothi uthi "yebo" kuye. Qhubeka udlala ngothando naye.
2. Buka iphunga lakho. Kufanele uphuze okuhle. Unganaki imimoya ene-pheromones.
Hlala ngokwakho. Uma umfana enza lokho okuthandayo, mkhuthaze.
4. Ungabi abangane namantombazane ahle kunawe.
5. Abangane bakhohlisa, qaphela.
6. Akukho buhlobo phakathi komfana nentombazane. Iphela noma ngothando olungathandeki, noma ngempi.
7. Nesithakazelo kulokho akuthandayo, khona-ke uzothola okuthile okumele ukhulume ngakho.
8. Gqoka izithende eziphakemeyo, futhi ukuhamba kwakho kuyoba yinkimbinkimbi kakhulu.
9. Funda ukulalela. Mye akhulume.
10. Ungesabi ukubonakala sengathi uyisiphukuphuku, abantu bayathanda ukuhlakanipha kunamantombazane.
11. Ngaphansi kwezimo futhi ngaphansi kwezimo kufanele uzinike isizathu sokucabanga ukuthi ufuna ukushada naye, noma ukuthi unesithakazelo semali yakhe kuphela.
Yiqiniso, kunzima ukuvumelanisa zonke izimfihlo zokukhohlisa abantu kusihlokweni esisodwa, ngoba kukhona ubuciko obuphelele. Kodwa ngithemba ukuthi ngemva kokufunda lokhu, usengakwazi ukunqoba umfana oyithandayo. Inhlanhla kuwe, amantombazane othandekayo. Khumbula ukuthi izidalwa ezinhle kakhulu emhlabeni wonke.