Isidalwa esincane, kusukela ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kwayo, sidinga umhlahlandlela onokwethenjelwa, ozoyifundisa ukwazi izwe elizungezile futhi amvikele eziguleni nasezifo ezihlukahlukene. Umqhubi womntwana osanda kuzalwa ungumama wakhe.
Ngamunye wethu uhlangabezana nokuqapha okuthile noma ukwesaba, ukubhekana nokuphila ngento engaziwa. Ngomntwana osanda kuzalwa omusha nxazonke! Sekusekho isibeletho somama esifudumele futhi esinobuhle, ukukhanya okuthakazelisayo kwanyamalala, futhi umsindo othukuthele waba mnyama. Ingane ikwesaba futhi ... iphendula ngokukhala okukhulu. Lokhu kungokwemvelo ngokuphelele. I-instinct efanayo idala ukuthi i-crumb ithole futhi iphose izibambo nganoma yiliphi umsindo elibukhali, i-squint, livame ukukhanya ngokukhanya okukhulu. Umntwana unamandla kakhulu futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ngokuphelele ... angenasici. Futhi angafa uma engenayo iziqondiso ezithembekile kuleli zwe. Futhi iziqondiso ezihamba phambili, kunomama nobaba, ukuze ingane ingatholi. Umama, njenganoma yimuphi omunye, angathulisa iziqu. Usana olusanda kuzalwa luyazibona yena kanye nalo lonke lwaso. Lapho evuka, nomama engekho, uyesaba futhi uqala ukukhala. Thatha umntwana ezandleni. Ukuzwa ukufudumala komzimba wakho, ukuzwa ukushaya kwenhliziyo nezwi elijwayelekile, uzizwa ephephile. Mama, ungahambi! - uthi ukuziphatha kwakhe. Kudingekile ukuthi ufunde ukuqonda izifiso kanye nezicelo zomntwana kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuphila kwakhe.
Phakathi nezinyanga zokuqala umntwana akaqondi ukuthi unobuntu ababili obuhlukile. Futhi uma umama engaboni, kubonakala sengathi akwanele. Ngakho-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi usana alukwazi ukuxhumana ngokomzimba. Ngokuvamile uthathe izibambiso, uzibambe, uzibambe, uziqede. Lokhu kumenza abe nomuzwa wokulondeka. Izazi zengqondo nezidokotela zezingane zincoma ukuthi njalo zigqoke iziqu ku-sling noma nge-kangaroo. Ngakho umama uzoba nethuba lokwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ukuthi umntwana angase azizwe enesizungu. Abesifazane base-Afrika bahlala bephethe izingane zabo, ngakho izingane zabo zikhula kangcono futhi zikhuthele, zihlale zixhumana nomama wazo futhi zibuka umhlaba obazungezile.
Enye into engabalulekile: ukukhwabanisa noma cha?
Izingane ezisanda kuzalwa zagqotshwa amakhulu eminyaka. Futhi kuphela ekupheleni kochwepheshe bekhulu lama-XX baqala ukukhuluma ngokuthi kuyingozi ekukhuleni kwezinto eziphilayo. Phela, ngokwemvelo akukho zitshalo eziphilayo ezibeka intsha yayo ekuhambeni. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kunezifundo ezifakazela ukuthi ingane, eboshwe ngengubo efudumele, iyancipha kakhulu. Uzizwa evikelekile, kodwa ngoba uyakhala kancane bese elala kangcono. Kucatshangwa ukuthi "isidleke" esinjalo esibucayi sikhumbuza ingane yokuphila esiswini sikamama. Buka i-crumb: yena ngokwakhe "uzokuveza" kuwe "for" futhi "ngokumelene" swaddling.
Angimazi nhlobo! - yilokho ukusabela kwezingane kubantu abangabazi. Ekuqaleni lo wesifazane omncane uyamamatheka kuwo wonke umuntu oguqa embhedeni wakhe. Futhi ngenyanga yesishiyagalombili isimo sishintsha ngokuzumayo. Uma umuntu engazijwayele ephenduka ingane, uqala ukukhala kakhulu. UKroha waqala ukwesaba abantu abangabazi. Futhi uzizwa esaba, ngisho ehlezi ezandleni zomama. Ungakhathazeki - lobu bufakazi bokuthuthukiswa okujwayelekile. Futhi isizathu, kungenzeka ukuthi, ikhona ukuthi i-karapuz isivele iqaphela ngokucacile umama phakathi kwabanye abantu abadala. Futhi uma othile ezama ukuziphatha njengoye, lokhu kubangela ukungathembeki nokusola. Ungavumeli ukungajabuli nokuziphatha okunjalo kwemvuthu, ngoba ingane izwa konke. Iminyaka engakapheli nengxenye ukwesaba abantu abangabazi kuzodlula.
Ungayithulisa kanjani imvuthu? Ungacabangi ngokukhala kwakhe! Ngisho noma kubonakala sengathi umntwana akanalo izizathu ezimbi zokwesaba, faka: kuye konke kubaluleke kakhulu! Ungesabi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungani ingane iqhuma izinyembezi, ungathathi imizwa yakhe. Thatha ingane emaceleni. Bamba ngokuqinile futhi imizuzu embalwa, vala. Shake it, ukushaya ikhanda. Ngalokhu uzokwazisa ukuthi uzwelana naye. Faka kancane esifubeni sakho. Lapho ingane icela, i-serotonin, i-hormone yenjabulo, ikhiqizwa ebuchosheni bayo. I-crumb izophuza ubisi lomama, futhi lokhu kuzomdambisa phansi.
Ungangenza ngibonise isibindi. Uma le kid eyesaba ugogo wakhe, engakabonanga isikhathi eside, masihlale ekhanda lakho bese ekhululekile. Ungazami ukuphula ukwesaba. Ingabe i-carapuse iyesaba umsindo omkhulu wedoli yomculo? Kungcono uthathe ekhoneni elide bese uyishiya lapho. Ingane izoyifinyelela kuyo futhi cishe izoyifinyelela ngokushesha maduze.