Ngokuvamile, ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila kwengane, isisindo sakhe sinyuselwa kathathu (okuyiqiniso, lokhu kuyimfihlo futhi lesi sibalo siyisilinganiso), futhi uyalinganisa, mhlawumbe, ngaphezu kwamakhilogremu ayishumi. Ukulinganisa i-karapuza yakho kule minyaka iyanele kanye ngenyanga. Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi abazali abanakekelayo basabhala isisindo somntwana etafuleni. Ngakho-ke, esikhathini esukela ngonyaka owodwa kuya kwesinye, umntwana kufanele athole ama-250 amagremu ngenyanga ngesisindo.
Ngakho-ke, yini okufanele ingane ikwazi ukuyenza ngonyaka ongu-1? Cishe, ngalesi sikhathi uzoba namandla kangangokuba uzokujabulisa ngezinyathelo zokuqala zokuzimela. Ezinye izingane sezivele zihamba kahle ekuhambeni, kanti ezinye sezivele zigijima. Ekuqaleni wena uhola umntwana ngesandla, kodwa-ke, lapho umntwana esevele eshintshile, uvumela ukuhamba futhi - kuthatha izinyathelo zokuqala zodwa, ngezinye izikhathi kuhambisana nenjabulo nokwesaba emehlweni akhe. Kodwa umntwana uzama kakhulu, ngoba ufuna ukufana nabazali bakhe.
Uma ingane yakho ihamba futhi izama ukulungisa amakhono akhe, akufanele iphazamise noma yini futhi, lezi zifundo akufanele zihambisane nokulimala. Uma kungenjalo, ingane izoqala ukwesaba futhi yeke ukuzama ukuhamba, izoqala ukukhahlela futhi. Futhi akumangazi ukuthi ngenxa yalesi simo, uzizwa eqiniseka kakhulu. Qinisekisa ukuthi phansi, lapho azonqamula imilenze yakhe, akukho lutho ngaphandle, akukho amathoyizi, kanye nephephethi kuzosuswa kangcono esonweni. Phela, abazali abasha akufanele bakhohlwe ukuthi i-small crease emaphepheni ingaba yisithiyo esiyinkinga esinyakatho esingaqiniseki nesingaqiniseki sentombazane yakho encane.
Ungazami ukukhohlisa imvelo, ungacabangi ukuthi ingane yakho ihamba ngemuva ngemuva kokuthuthukiswa uma ingakakwazi ukugijima, kanti ingane yomakhelwane ibilokhu ibashayela amajuba izinyanga ezimbili ezitaladini. Vele uzithobe futhi ulinde - konke kuzohamba inkambo yayo, isikhathi esisodwa sidingeka, futhi ingane izobamba.
Ngakho, wahamba izinyanga ezingu-12. Izingane zivele zibonakala zihamba, kodwa uhlushwa yizinsolo ezihlukahlukene: zithi, futhi i-gait ifana ne-duck, futhi imilenze isethwe kabanzi. Kusukela kulezi zinkinga bese ulala lapho. Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi ngesikhathi ingane iqala ukuhamba, ezinye izigugu ezindala futhi zibonakala zikhohliwe, isibonelo, izibhamu, noma ukuhlukaniswa kwe-hip joint, okuyinto ingane eyamukelwa ngokusebenzisa ukunganaki odokotela noma abazali, avele. Ezimweni ezinjalo, kufanele uthintane nodokotela ngokushesha. Kumele futhi ucabange ukuthi izingane ezingakafiki, futhi izingane ezibuhlungu kakhulu zingahamba kancane kancane.
Unyaka wokuqala wokuphila sekuyisikhathi lapho ingane yakho kufanele icele khona ibhodlela, kodwa uma lokhu kungenzeki, cishe kungenzeka ukuthi uyomangalela kuphela. Yenza iziphetho ezifanele futhi uzifundele ingane yakho "ebusuku". Kumele uphikelele futhi ukwazi ukuchaza ngomntanakho ngesineke lokho okudingekayo kuye. Ungenzi ngokusheshisa futhi ucindezele ingane ukuba ihlale ebhodini amahora - akusikho lutho. Udinga nje ukwazi futhi ukhumbule ukuthi izitshalo zezingane zihamba cishe ngesikhathi esifanayo: ngaphambi kokulala noma emva kokulala. Ngakho-ke, vele usebenze isimiso sokuthi "uvakashele" embizeni, ngoba ingane isivele iyayiqonda kahle yonke into ngalesi sikhathi, futhi ungangabazi, uzokwazi ngokushesha ukuthola lokho okudingekayo kuye. Uma uqala ukufundisa ingane ukuba iguze ebhodweni, yeka ukugqoka izindiza nezindiza. Omncane wakho uzozizwa ekhululekile, ngoba manje sekugqoke ama-panties kuphela futhi kuye kwaba lula kakhulu ukuhamba, kodwa kuyafaneleka ukumchazela ukuthi uma ungahlali ebhodini ngesikhathi, induduzo izophela futhi ama-panties ayobe emanzi.
Sesivele sisho ukuthi izingane ezineminyaka eyodwa ubudala sezivele ziqonde konke ngokugcwele, futhi uma uzigxila ngokuphindaphindiwe kulokhu, ingane izokhumbula, futhi izocelwa ukuba iya endlini yangasese ngesikhathi, ngoba ayifuni ukubuyela kuvalini noma izindiza ezivuthayo.
Ngesikhathi eneminyaka engu-1 ubudala, ingane ingakwazi ukuziqhayisa amazinyo angu-12. Kungenzeka ukuthi kuyoba 8 incisors kanye 4 amazinyo ukuhlafuna. Kodwa kulungile uma i-crumb yakho ingenayo amazinyo amaningi enyangeni eyizinyanga eziyishumi nambili - ingavela ngaphandle kwenyanga eyodwa noma ezintathu, futhi lokho kuyinto evamile. Into ebaluleke kakhulu abazali abangayikhohlwa ngesikhathi sokukhula kwamazinyo ukuthi ingane kufanele ibe ne-calcium, i-phosphorus ne-vitamin D. ngokwanele.
Ngonyaka owodwa ubudala ingane yakho kufanele ikwazi:
- ume emilenzeni ngaphandle kosizo;
- Hamba ngokuzimela;
- Run, mhlawumbe, ngosizo lwakho;
- ukulingisa izenzo ezithile zabantu abadala;
- Phuza inkomishi, yebo, ngaphandle kokungenelela kwakho;
- ukusho amagama alula;
- baqonde izidingo zabazali;
- wazi futhi wabize wonke amalungu omndeni ngegama;
- futhi, yiqiniso, iya embizeni.
Ukukhula kwengane kulesi sikhatsi kufinyelela kumamitha angu-70 kuya ku-75. Kodwa, futhi, ungathukutheli futhi ungazithembi uma ukukhula komnyaka wakho wokuphila kuwuhluke kakhulu kulezi ziminganiso - ngoba zonke izingane zikhula futhi zikhule ngokuqinile ngokuvumelana newashi lakho lezinto eziphilayo!