Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi sonyaka, impilo evamile yansuku zonke ifuna ukuhlanjululwa ngemihlangano emnandi, amaqembu, amaqembu. Kwenzeke ukuthi ezweni lakithi kuyisiko ukuhlela ukujabulisa kuphela ngesizathu esithile. Kodwa emva kwakho konke, isifiso sokuphumula ngemuva komsebenzi weviki, ukushintsha isimo, ukuguqula kungasetshenziswa ngokuphumelelayo empeleni. Futhi kumele ngithi kulokhu kuvela zonke izindlela zilungile. Into eyinhloko ukuthi bonke abanye "abashayi" kakhulu ephaketheni, ezempilo kanye nedumela.
Namuhla, ngaphezu kwemikhosi yemindeni evamile yemihlangano nabangani, kunezinketho eziningi zokuchitha isikhathi esimnandi. Omunye uzoya e-club, cafe, restaurant, bowling, ibhola, ihockey, i-paintball nokunye. Futhi abanye, ngendlela endala, banquma ukuhlela umhlangano efulethini noma, njengokuzikhethela, endlini yezwe, ezweni. Kubalulekile ukwenza kube ngokoqobo futhi kumnandi. Ngamanje, imihlangano ehlelwe ensimini yawo ibizwa ngokuthi amaqembu asekhaya.
Ngenjabulo enkulu, manje sekuyindlela ehlelekile ukuhlela amaholidi hhayi ngokwezibonelo zemikhosi enhle, lapho izivakashi zinikezelwa khona ngezinga elincane lokuzijabulisa. Abantu abaningi, ikakhulukazi abasha, bacabanga ngokucophelela futhi bahlele isikhathi sabo sokuzilibazisa. Iholide esesitayela sezaseSoviet ingaba inketho ethakazelisayo kakhulu yokwenza umkhosi noma umhlangano ojwayelekile nomndeni nabangane kubantu besizukulwane.
Ungayilungiselela kanjani i-home themed party? Okokuqala udinga ukumema izivakashi. Umthetho wokuqala wokuhlwa okuhle yinkampani enhle. Ekhaya lekhaya, labo abathola ulimi oluvamile kanye nama-themes, abangakwazi ukuzijabulisa futhi bahlanganyele emisebenzini, abangenakunqoba imodi yokugcoba, kumele babe khona. Uma kukhona ukungabaza ngomuntu, kungcono ukungammemeli lo muntu, ngoba ukuqeqeshwa kuzothatha isikhathi esiningi futhi kuzodinga amandla amaningi ongafuni ukuwachitha noma ubani. Okufanelekile, udinga ukwenza amathikithi amakhadi, azokhombisa isikhathi somcimbi, indawo, izifiso ezikhona.
Isibonelo, uma kusihlwa kusihlwa, bese uchaza ikhodi yokugqoka oyifunayo kanye nezinye izinto ezihamba phambili. Emva kwakho konke, abakwaSomandla kufanele balungiselele iholidi, kanye nezivakashi, ukuze wonke umuntu abe nomuzwa wokuthi uyaqiniseka futhi ukhululekile. Ukuze kube khona isiteji ngesitayela seSoviet kungaba kuhle, isibonelo, ukuphrinta izimemo kumshini wokubhala ngomshini we-telegram encane, ngendlela okwenziwe ngayo kuma-telegraph. Kwanele ukuthenga amakhadikhadi egciniwe alula kakhulu kunoma yisiphi isithombe esikhumbuza leso sikhathi. Umbhalo ungacatshangwa ngokuphelele, usebenzise isilulumagama futhi ucabange ngesitayela sokubhala se-Soviet period.
Into esemqoka ukuqala. Uma uthayipha isimemo, kuhle ukucacisa izifiso ekubukeni kwezivakashi ngento ehlukile. Vumela usuku olulodwa noma kusihlwa indlu ezoba umhlangano wamaphayona, stilyag, fashionistas nezinye izinhlamvu ezaziwayo ngaleso sikhathi.
Isinyathelo sesibili ukucabanga ngemenyu. Ngokuvamile, izivakashi kufanele zilashwe. Kudingekile ukwenza uhlu lwezitsha neziphuzo ezizovumelana kahle nasemkhathini nasenhloko yeqembu.
Futhi ungakhohlwa mayelana nokuklama kwetafula kanye nendawo yangaphakathi. Ukuze uhlele umcimbi onomlando ekupheleni kwekhulu leminyaka elidlule, akudingekile ukuba usungulwe amamenyu neziphuzo okumnandi, ukuhlobisa indawo yomhlangano ngento ethile ekhethekile. Wonke umuntu uyazi kahle ukuthi badla, baphuza, nokuthi cishe zonke izindlu zenkathi yamaSoviet zibukeka kanjani.
Uma ubeka indwangu yetafula (mhlawumbe indwangu yelineni ehlanganiswe ne-oilcloth, hhayi engcolile), itafula le-herring ngaphansi kwengubo yoboya, i-olivier, ama-sandwich nama-sprats nezinye izitsha ezijwayelekile zaleso sikhathi, khona-ke ukuphathwa emcimbini kuyoba isihloko. Ukukhathazeka ngeziphuzo ezidakayo nezidakamizwa akuyona inkinga. Uhlu lwale mikhiqizo luqala ngekhaya lucindezela noma luphephe futhi luphephe nganoma yini ekuqondeni kwamabandla kanye nezivakashi zeqembu. Kuze kube manje, imakethe inikeza ukhetho olukhulu kokubili utshwala nezinye iziphuzo.
Isigaba esilandelayo sokulungiselela iqembu elihle nelithakazelisayo ngokuvamile liyisizathu "sokuzijabulisa". Lapha, ngokwesihloko esinikeziwe, akunakwenzeka ukuthi imidlalo ehlangene izohlangana nekhompyutha noma i-mafia. Ezikhathini zamaSoviet, abantu bazibheka hhayi nje ngezingxoxo, kodwa ngezingoma nemincintiswano. Into eyinhloko yukuthi wonke umuntu eholidini wahlanganyela futhi wajabulela. Ungakwazi ukudlala noma yikuphi imidlalo yethebula noma imidlalo nemisebenzi, ukudlala i-backgammon, ama-darts, ama-dominoes, i-lotto, amakhadi, i-karaoke yengoma, ukudansa kuma-hits ngaleso sikhathi. Konke kuncike ekucabangeni nasekufisweni kwabahlanganyeli. Kodwa lungiselela izidingo zokuzijabulisa kahle futhi kusengaphambili. I-repertoire kufanele ihambisane nesihloko esinikeziwe, izimfanelo zemincintiswano kufanele zibe endaweni futhi zilinde ukusebenza.
Kungakhathaliseki ukugubha, kuyoba nesizathu noma umhlangano ojwayelekile. Into esemqoka ukukwazi ukuphumula kahle futhi ngokuthakazelisayo ukukhumbula lolu suku. Kukhona njalo isizathu sokubona abangani, abangane, abantu abaseduze. Futhi kubaluleke kakhulu ukunikezana ngalezi zikhathi injabulo yokuxhumana nemizwa emihle. Iholidi ngumsebenzi omkhulu, okumele uxoxwe ngokuziphendulela, ngombono kanye nokubala okulungile endaweni ngayinye.