Sekuyisikhathi eside othisha beqaphela: ingane ivulekile ulwazi olusha. Kodwa ukuze bafunde kahle, hhayi izifundo ezivamile. Amakilasi ngomqondo ovamile wegama awafaneleki neze izingane. Kodwa uma ubahumushela emdlalweni wegeyimu, umphumela uzomangaza wonke umuntu ngaphandle kokuhlukile. Ikakhulukazi abazingelayo. Nokho, ekuqaleni ukujabula. Ngenye indlela kude nephuzu eliphelele kuvela ukuthi izingane, ezigxilwe ngolwazi, zibuthaka ngokomzimba. Lokhu kungavinjelwa kanjani? Sasizicabangela ukubonwa kwabafundi be-physiologists, abaqeqeshwayo nabahlengikazi futhi banikeza indlela entsha ekuthuthukiseni ingane - into ephathekayo.
Ake sihlole amathuba
Izingane ezisanda kuzalwa zikhumbula konke aziwa ngesikhathi sokuphila kwe-intrauterine ngesikhathi umsebenzi wengane njengentuthuko yengqondo. Wayenombono omuhle womzimba: wathinta izingalo nemilenze yakhe, wadlala ngentambo yomzimba, wanyunwa umunwe wakhe, wawa, welula futhi waphakamisa. Kwenzekani ngemva kokuzalwa? Umzimba omncane awulaleli, akunakwenzeka ukuphenduka. Kodwa ukuzwa okunamandla, izithombe ezihlukahlukene zezinto ziboniswa, i-palette yokunambitheka iyanda. Ngamanye amazwi, usana luyakuthola kokuhlangenwe nakho kokuqala, elinye, kodwa aluxhumani nomunye nomunye. Futhi kungadingeka ukuthi bathengwe ngokufana. Le ndlela izokuvumela ukuba ucabange ivolumu, yonke, futhi, ngaphandle kokukhipha izingxenye zomuntu ngamunye. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuphila ukuya kumvuthwandaba wokuzivocavoca, ukuphunga umzimba, ukufundisa ukudoba. Lokhu kuhlanganisa ama-lullabies omama, ukubheka abantu abaseduze, okuhlangenwe nakho okusha kanye nabajwayele. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, uzothola izinzwa ezibucayi, futhi enze iziphetho ezilula. Okusho ukuthi, ubuyela ingane kakade amathuba okujwayela futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo unikeze ukuze ufunde okwengeziwe. Bese uhlanganisa yonke into ibe yinye ulwazi.
I-protagonist
Cishe inyanga iyadingeka ukuba usana luvumelane nalo mhlaba, ukuqonda okudingekayo emisebenzini yengane njengentuthuko yengqondo. Ngalesi sikhathi, akaqoqi nje kuphela ngo-kilogram futhi enezela amamitha amaningana ukuphakama. Omncane ufunda uhlobo lwabazali, wakha ubuhlobo. Uyazi kakade ukuheha, uyakwazi ukuxhumana nokufeza okufunayo. Futhi ubonisa uhlamvu lwakhe. Abazali bayamemeza bathi: "Hhayi, futhi ngobuqili!" Kodwa akusikho ubuqili yini uphawu lwengqondo? ..
Yilokhu okuchaza izimfundiso zikagogo nomkhulu: bathi, kubalulekile ukuqala ukukhulisa ingane kusukela ekuzalweni. Ngempela, uma ubelethe umntwana ezandleni zakho kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala, awukwazi ukujwayela ukulala embhedeni nokuzibamba. U-Kohl wagijimela kuye okokuqala, khona-ke ingane enosizo lokukhala izama ukufeza okuningi. Lokhu akusho ukuthi akufanele uhlangabezane nazo zonke izidingo zomntwana. Ulwazi lunikezwa okucatshangelwayo: akudingekile ukucabangela umntwana njengomuntu ongenangqondo.
Ngiqhathanisa
Ngenyanga ngayinye yokuphila, i-crumb ihlala iphapheme isikhathi eside. Futhi lesi sikhathi kufanele sigcwaliswe ngokugcwele. Nikeza i-karapuzu ukudla okuningi kwengqondo ngangokunokwenzeka! Nokho, kufomu elithakazelisayo. Ucabanga ukuthi yikuphi lapho ingane eyokhumbula khona ukuthi i-duck ye-rubber inomqondo omuhle kakhulu: uma uyikhombisa noma uma ihlaya ithoyizi ngamagundane ngengozi? Ngokungangabazeki, ukhetho lwesibili ngeke ulethe injabulo yokukhala umsindo, kodwa futhi injabulo yokuthola. Ukusabela kuyoba okungalindelekile kakhulu: kusukela kumnandi wokuziqhaqhazela (konke okufanayo kwakunqotshwe ngokungalindelekile). Kodwa kunoma yikuphi, yilokho ubuhlobo obusungulwayo bubunjwa khona.
Emoyeni!
Ingxenye yesithathu yomsindo ophelele we-oksijeni owadliwa ngumzimba uhanjiswa ebuchosheni, futhi uma lokhu kuqhubeka, ukuthuthukiswa okungcono kakhulu kuwukuthi. I-saturation nalesi sici ingcono nakakhulu ingane ihamba phambili ngenkuthalo. Ingabe ulele noma ahlale esitokisini? Izinga lomoya-mpilo egazini lilinganiselwe. Ukugijima, ukuxuma, ukuxuma? Ivolumu iyakhula. Futhi kuthiwani uma umgwaqo usashaja? Umama, ngawe akuyona into engafanele kunezingcezu. Ingabe ufuna ukukhulisa umnichku? Cabanga: kubalulekile ukuthi ingane ihambe kakhulu. Futhi hhayi emigwaqweni enothuli, elayishwa kakhulu ngezokuthutha. Lapho, izinga lokusetshenziswa kwe-oksijini liyehla. Futhi emvelweni, lapho kukhona khona izihlahla eziningi. Uma kungenakukwazi ukuya epaki nsuku zonke, yenza umzila kude nemigwaqo enomsindo. Ngendlela, nje emoyeni omusha, ngaso sonke isikhathi kukhona into yokuhlala engqondweni. Cabanga ngamapheshana, ubukele impilo yezinambuzane, udla izinyoni, ugobe izimbobo uphinde ubheke izibungu. Izindawo zokudlala zezingane, futhi, ungashiyi ngaphandle kokunakwa. Ngaphandle kolwazi lwemvelo, zama ukufundisa okuyisisekelo sokusinda: funda ukuthi uqaphele, uqaphele. Kungani lezi trainings? Ingqondo iqala ngokubandakanyeka kwayo njalo emisebenzini ehlukahlukene. Kwenzekani? Kungani? Lokhu kuxhunyiwe kanjani? Intshisekelo yemvelo idinga ukucima. Ingane ijwayele ukubuza imibuzo nokuthola izimpendulo kubo. Ngakho, ukucabanga kwakhe akumi. Futhi nakuba ososayensi bathi umuntu omdala usebenzisa ingxenyana encane yobuchopho, akukhiyi ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ukwandisa amathuba okwenza kahle. Kodwa lokhu kungenziwa kuphela ebuntwaneni. Into esemqoka ukusebenzela okusemandleni akho!
Ingane iyasebenza, ikhetha imisebenzi ejwayelekile futhi eqondakalayo, ayizizweli kakhulu. Ungavumeli lokhu! Emgwaqweni kukhona intwasahlobo, okusho ukuthi kufanele uhambe amahora amathathu ngosuku, ulale ngefasitela evulekile.
Ukuvakashela i-Drema
Kungani izingane zezingane ziphikelela ngokulala kwezingane eziningana? Ingabe kuyadingeka ukuba ube nehora elizolile ngesikhathi sokudla kwasemini? Lokho ososayensi abaye bakufunda kuze kube manje, kugcizelela kuphela isidingo sokulala ngesikhathi. Ngesikhathi umntwana elele, izitho nezinhlelo zisebenza ngokuvumelana nesimo esithile. Esigabeni sokulala okusheshayo, ubuchopho busebenza ngenkuthalo ngolwazi olwamukelwe ngesikhathi sokuvuka, luyakhumbula, lubeka konke emashalofini.
Isistimu yezinzwa ibuye iqhaza ohlelweni lokukhiqiza kanye nokucubungula kwezimo ezingokomzwelo (izimpumputhe, izinyembezi, izibhamu). Kuleli qophelo, isimiso semisipha singasetshenziselwa (ingane iphendukile, iqhuma endaweni ethile, idonsa amazinyo). Futhi kuphela ngesikhathi sokulala okujulile umzimba ekugcineni uphumule futhi uphumule. Lezi zigaba ezimbili zihlobene kakhulu! Kodwa yini okufanele ukwenze, ubuza, uma ingane yenqaba ukulala ntambama, ayikwazi ukubeka kusihlwa isikhathi eside? Impendulo ayinangqondo: ukungena embusweni futhi ukunamathela ngokuqinile kulo, ukuze ungadluli isimiso sezinzwa semivuthu ukuze sikhathele.
Ingane ejabule, eyatholwa okuningi (kokubili okubukwayo nomzwelo) phakathi nosuku ayizange ihlaziye ngokushesha lapho umsebenzi wengane njengentuthuko yengqondo. Ikakhulukazi uma udlala umdlalo omnandi. Izindlela zakhe zokuwaphuza azidonswa, ubuchopho abuvuthiwe ngokwanele ukuma futhi buzivumelanise nesimo sengqondo sokuzola. Ngakho, lokhu kufanele kwenziwe ngumama. Vumela isignali yesenzo kuwe kuyoba ukungalawulwa kwengane. Akenzanga i-bullshit, akazange aphume esitokisini. Akakwazi ukulawula ngoba isimiso sakhe sezinzwa sisemaphethelweni. Futhi ukuphumula okuhle kakhulu kuphela kungambeka esimweni: embhedeni wakhe, umbhede okhululekile (hhayi emotweni, ngenkathi uya endaweni ethile, ungavakashele umngane, hhayi lapho elala khona, ephelile). Ngesikhathi esifanayo ngesikhathi sokulala ekamelweni lomntwana kufanele kube nokuthula, okukhanyayo okukhanyayo. Akukhona ukuthi ubuchopho buzoqoqa imisindo engaphandle, uphazamiseke yibo, zama ukucubungula. Yini ngempela okunye!
Ingabe wabona ukuthi omncane waba mnandi, wesaba? Thatha ezandleni zakho, unikele ukufunda le ncwadi. Khuluma ngezwi elithulile nelizolile (siyaqonda ukuthi kunzima, kodwa zama ukuzivimbela). Noma uhlale phansi emadolweni akho, kwenze, usebenzise umhlane wakho.
Ungalethi izinyembezi, noma usheshe uziyeke (ngoba lo mntwana uzozisola). Kubekwe ekhoneni - futhi akuyona inketho. Kanye nokuthumela ukucabanga ...
Ngakho-ke, izinzwa ziphelile. Izinyembezi nentukuthelo iphelile. Yebo, lapho ehlupheka, ingane ilele ngokushesha. Kodwa ukuguquka okunjalo ngokomzwelo kuthinta impilo, umsebenzi wengqondo. I-psyche engaqiniseki ivimbela ukuthuthukiswa. Futhi ukuzama ukufundisa okuthile ukuhlukumeza akumjabulisi. Ingabe yilokho esizama ukukufeza?
I-Archive yomuntu siqu
Izazi zengqondo zinezincazelo zazo ngokwaneliseka kwengane: i-physiology idlala indima ebalulekile. Ochwepheshe bathi akunakwenzeka ukufundisa ingane into uma engayilungele. Kuze kube unyaka nonyaka, akakwazi ukulawula ngokugcwele inqubo yokuchama nokuhlunga. Kuze kube kathathu - ngesikhathi sokumisa nokuvimbela ukudla. Futhi cabanga ngaphambi kokwenza noma yini. Konke lokhu kunjalo. Phela, akekho ophumelele ekuthuthukiseni ukwakheka kwezindawo ezithile zobuchopho.
Kodwa ungakha isisekelo esithile solwazi, okuyinto okwesikhashana kuyoba ukuhamba kwemvuthuluka yakho. Ake sithi akazalisi i-akhawunti elandelanayo eyishumi. Kodwa ukubala kuzothi ngaphandle kokungabaza. Ngesikhathi esifanele, uyaqaphela indlela yokusebenzisa ulwazi olukhona, uxhuma inkumbulo.
Isifundo sokuphumula
Abantu baseMpumalanga banaka kakhulu ikhono lomuntu lokuphumula futhi ngaleyo ndlela baqhuba i-yoga yezingane ngokoqobo kusukela ekuzalweni. Bafundisa izingane ukuba zisheshe zishintshe isigqi sokuphila sokuphumula okuthulile.
Nokho, hhayi nje ngosizo lwe-yoga ungafundisa ingane ukuba iphumule. Izingane eziningi zijabulela ukuphumula kwamanzi. Ingabe kukhona ichibi lokubhukuda eliseduze nendlu yakho? Yenza ukungena okusheshayo lapho, ngeke ulizisole! Okokuqala, ukubhukuda kunomthelela omuhle emkhakheni we-psycho-emotional. Ingane ihlangabezana nemizwelo ekhanyayo: injabulo, injabulo. Okwesibili, lifundisa ukuzwa umzimba wakho, ukuyilawula, ukuyiqonda. I-crumb iqina futhi ingokomzimba (ukuzivikela, ukuma, imisipha), nokuziphatha.
Okwesithathu, ukuqonda ukusatshalaliswa komthwalo. Eyinkimbinkimbi, lezi zinto ezintathu ziholela ekuvuthweni kwamangqamuzana obuchopho, ukumelana nokucindezeleka. Lokhu kudala izimo zokufunda.
Ngifuna ukwazi konke!
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izingane zizama kangakanani ukuqonda nokunqoba izwe lonke, eziningi zazo ziqaphela konke okusha. Lokhu kungenxa yezinkumbulo ezingathandeki, okuhlangenwe nakho okubi. Kodwa emva kwakho konke, umsebenzi wethu ukuhlinzeka ingane ngethuba lokutadisha ngenjabulo, ukuvuleka kokuhlolwa futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ukuze ube nokuphila okusebenzayo. Yenza kancane kancane. Ngokuqinisekile waphawula ukuthi i-karapuz inemidlalo ayithandayo nemisebenzi, lapho ebuyela khona ngokuphindaphindiwe. Ngakho qala ukwenza ezihlukahlukene kuzo. Intshisekelo, inhloso. Siyakuqinisekisa ukuthi, ilukuluku luzoqhubeka.
Isisekelo sezinto eziyisisekelo
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthini, nomzwelo womama ofundisa okuthile kwengane, uyayithuthukisa ngokuyinhloko, ngokuyinhloko inquma ikhono lokuthola ulwazi, ulisebenzise. Ingabe wenza konke ngentshiseko, ngomdlandla? Ingane iyayizwa futhi iyithathe kalula. Kuye, isitayela sokuphila iba isifundo, okuhlangenwe nakho, ukucinga iqiniso. Ukuze ufike kuso, i-crumb ayisebenzisi kuphela ingqondo nokucabanga, kodwa ihlanganisa zonke izinzwa. I-karapuza enjalo, ukufunda kuyinto umdlalo, i-adventure lapho kudingeka khona ukubandakanya ubuchopho nomzimba: ukucabanga, ukucinga, ukugijima, ukuthola, ukuhlola, ukuqonda. Uma ubona ukufunda njengomthwalo osindayo noma uhambela yonke into enomthwalo wemfanelo omkhulu (njalo uhlola i-crumb, hlola), mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi sokuyeka, ukuyeka ukuqhathanisa nolwazi lomntwana ngezinkambiso zencwadi bese uyeka ukukhipha ingane. Ekugcineni, ziphendule umbuzo othi: ufuna ukukhula bani? Siyaqiniseka ukuthi umuntu ovumelanayo nomuntu ojabulayo. Ngakho mvumele ahambe ngokuphila ngokuzethemba, ngokuzethemba, enesithakazelo kukho konke okuzungezile. Kusukela manje isiqubulo sakho "Ukufunda ngokuzijabulisa". Kuyinto ejabulisayo kangaka, eduze kakhulu! Futhi ungaqiniseka, umuntu onolwazi unolwazi ekuphakameni, impilo ihlelekile, ifomu lomzimba lihle kakhulu. Ingabe ithemba lijabule? Bese uya phambili futhi ungayeki!
Njengoba ukuphuma kokuqala emanzini amakhulu kungesabisa isidalwa esincane, uthathe ithoyizi yakhe yensiza ethandwayo (ayidlala endlini yokugezela) esuka endlini, ibhola. Okokuqala, gcoba ithoyizi emanzini, bese umema i-crumb ukuze uyithole. Izinto ezithintekayo azikwenzi okubi nakakhulu kunezitshalo. Ukubambelela kubo, ingane ifunda ukulala emanzini. Mcele ukuba athathe imilenze yakhe, aphindaphindiwe noma akopishe i-frog.
I-Asterisk
Ukuzivocavoca kudinga ukuzethemba okukhulu. Ungagijimeli kuso. Uma ubona ukuthi ingane ilungele ukulala emanzini futhi uphumule, wehlisa ikhanda lakhe, umemele ukuba agibele ekuthunjweni kwe-starfish, ngezingalo nemilenze.
Ngesikhathi ubhukuda ngemuva, yisekela umntwana ngaphansi kwamanzi ukuze akwazi ukuzwa isandla sakho. Ukunikela ukuze "uzwe" amanzi, uzizwe futhi "vumela" umzimba wakho.
Diving!
Izingane aziyithandi lapho zithola amanzi ebusweni babo. Fundisa amabhubhu. Masibeke umlomo wakhe emlonyeni wakhe, bese ugoba emanzini bese uphuma.
I-diving ingane ifunda ukubhukuda ngokushesha. Iqiniso liwukuthi abantwana baqala ukuhamba nge-scuba diving. Zivela kuphela ukuze zidwebe umoya. Futhi baphinde baphenduke. Kuphela ngeminyaka engu-2-3 kuphela abazokwazi ukugibela, bephethe amakhanda abo ngaphezu kwamanzi.
Ukwehlisa
Hlala phansi, uhlezi phambi kwe-crumb bese uvula kuqala umlenze owodwa, bese-kwenye. Ukubuka umntwana ebusweni bakhe, uthi: "Ku-ku." Uzokulandela futhi. Bese umbeka ngemilenze yakho, uqondise amadolo akho bese uzama ukumfinyelela ngemilenze yakho ebunzini lakho. Yenza lezo zivivinyo ezinikezwa kalula futhi zenze ukumomotheka.
Ngaphandle kokucindezeleka!
Thatha omncane ezandleni zakho, ubambe ngesikhumba futhi unakekele emuva. Bend indlela eyodwa, lungisa isimo. Ingane izokwelula umshini wesisu, imisipha ye-lateral futhi izoqhubeka nokunamathela kokuthunyelwe. Buyela esimweni sokuqala bese uphinda okufanayo, kodwa ngakwesinye isiqondiso. Ungahlali isikhathi eside emthambekeni, izinyane lizozama ukubamba noma yiliphi izindleko. Uyabona ukuthi kunzima kuye? Shiya lo msebenzi bese uqhubekela phambili.
Themba ngemuva kwakho bese ugoba imilenze yakho emathangeni akho. Kuzo, faka ingane, uyibophe ngokuqinile ngezibambo (kodwa hhayi ngesandla, kodwa ngama-wrists). Hamba kancane kancane, ngakwesobunxele ngakwesokudla ngejubane elincane, bese uhamba ngokushesha. Ukulinganisa kungabuye kwandiswe. Amadivayisi we-vestibular training - isici esibalulekile kunoma iyiphi inkokhelo. Ngokushesha i-crumb izofunda ukuba nomzimba wayo.
Ama-rails-rails
Beka ingane emathunjini akho. Shaya emuva kusukela emahlombe kuya emadodeni. Khona-ke, ngezintende zezandla zakho, hamba ngezinhlangothi, u-spatula, uboya (ungathinti umgogodla). I-massage ephelezelwa ingoma noma ukuphawula ngothando ngezenzo zabo. Qedela inqubo ngemivimbo.
Tuk-tuk, isithende
Ezinyaweni amaphuzu asebenzayo kakhulu. Umthelela wazo kuvuselela umsebenzi wezobuchopho, unomphumela omuhle ezithombeni ezibalulekile: amathumbu, inhliziyo, isibindi, isilonda senyongo. Ukushaywa kwezinyawo nakho ukuvimbela izinyawo eziphansi.
Isikhundla sokuqala sisekugcineni. Sakaza izimpande ze-karapuza ezinhlangothini, bese uziletha ndawonye njengokungathi ingane iyazibamba eceleni.
Ukuphuma emva kokulala nakho kuthinta isimo esijwayelekile. Umzimba uvuka, umntwana uyamamatheka.