I-psychology yezingane nemidwebo isondelene kakhulu, okuye kwafakazelwa ochwepheshe emhlabeni wonke. Ukudweba izithombe noma ukudala "ubuciko obusha", ingane isitshela ngokungazi lutho ngaye. Amanani akhuluma ngezinto eziningi, akwazi ukuveza ngokugcwele umhlaba wangaphakathi wezingane. Ezinye zazo ziyabonakala, ngakho-ke, kufanele zicatshangelwe ngolwazi olwengeziwe lwabazali.
Amanani avela ekubukeni kwesazi sengqondo.
Okokuqala, uhlelo lombala. Umbala ubalulekile, kungabangela isimo sengqondo nesimo sengqondo emhlabeni. I-psychology yezingane ezinemidwebo ibhekwa kuqala ngohlelo lombala. Isibonelo, uma umntwana esebenzisa ipensela ebomvu, lokhu kubonisa injabulo yakhe ngokweqile. Lo mdwebo kufanele ukhokhwe ngokukhethekile, ungachaza ukukhathazeka okungadingekile emndenini noma endaweni eseduze. Umbala obomvu awuvamile, kodwa abamnyama akuvamile. Izingane zakhe akufanele zisetshenziswe ngezibalo eziningi, ngoba lokhu kubonakalisa umhlaba wangaphakathi ongalungile. Ukudweba ipensela emnyama kuxhumene nentukuthelo nokunganeliseki. Abazali bangaba lula uma ingane idonsela ngemibala ehlukene, ngaphandle kokusebenzisa eyodwa yazo kakhulu.
Okwesibili, umdwebo womndeni. I-psychology yezingane emidwebeni ingabonisa isimo sengqondo sabantwana kubazali. Ochwepheshe ubuza ingane ukuthi idwebe umndeni wayo, bese ibheka isithombe. Ngezinye izikhathi izingane zidonsa wonke umndeni ngendlela efanele, kodwa ngokuvamile kuvame ukukhula nokusondelana kwabazali ubuhlobo obonakalayo. Isibonelo, ingane iphakathi kwabantu ababili abadala abaphethe izingalo zakhe. Isithombe esihle esichaza ubuhlobo obuseduze emndenini. Ingane yabo inomuzwa omncane kakhulu futhi iyayichaza ephepheni. I-Psychology iqinisekisa ukuchithwa kokuchazwa kwalesi sithombe. Ungathola futhi izithombe lapho omunye wabazali ephethe ingane ngesandla, kanti enye ishiya eceleni. Kulokhu akukho lutho olwesabekayo, lokhu kufakazela ukusondelana kwengane kumama noma ubaba. Kodwa, uma ingane iheha umzali oyedwa kuphela, sekuyisikhathi sokushintsha ubudlelwane emndenini. Ngempela, lokhu kusho ukungabikho kwengxenye yomndeni ekuqondeni ingane. Ngokujwayelekile lokhu kwenzeka lapho izingane zingenakuxhumana kancane noyise noma umama wazo.
Okwesithathu, imigqa elula. Izibalo zezingane zingatshela abakwa-psychologists ngakho konke. Ngisho nomugqa okhishwe ingane ulungele ukunikeza ulwazi mayelana nezwe elingaphakathi. Imisindo enokuthula, elinezinzile ikhombisa ukwaneliseka nobuhlobo emndenini. Ukuphumula okuphambene nokuphenduka - ukungalingani, ukukhathazeka, ukubusa ezweni elizungezile ingane. Imibuthano - ukuhlukaniswa okuncane ngokwayo, okungahle kuthinte kabi ukufunda nokuxhumana nabanye abantwana. Okokugcina, izikwele noma ezinye izivalo ezivaliwe, ezingenangqondo zikhuluma ngobukhulu bokuxhumana, ezixhunywe nokuvalwa ezweni layo elingaphakathi.
Abazali kufanele babheke ngokucophelela "ubuciko" bezingane zabo. Ambula zonke ubuhlobo kanye nezwe langaphakathi. Uma uthola iphutha ekukhuliseni ngesikhathi, ungayilungisa. Uma kungenjalo, izinto ezingenakwenzeka zingenzeka, ingane izoba yinto engafanelekile futhi ngeke ikwazi ukuhlala emphakathini. Amanani abalulekile, futhi kudingeka aqaphele kakhulu ukungaphuthelwa ngentambo yemfundo.