Eminyakeni yamuva, abantu abasha abaningana babuyela esontweni, bekhetha ukungalinganiselwe ukubhala ukubhaliswa komshado womshado. Kodwa-ke, kuyadingeka uqonde ukuthi isakramente ibanjwe hhayi ukuthola izithombe ezinhle kusukela emshadweni noma ukukwazi ukukhombisa izingubo ezinhle. Inqubo yomshado igcwele incazelo ejulile, ngakho kufanele uyiphathe ngokujulile
Imithetho eyisisekelo yomkhosi womshado esontweni
Okokuqala, isonto alivunyelwe ukushada izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesithathu. Ekholweni lamaKatolika, isimo sinzima nakakhulu. Ukuze uthole imvume yokushada kabusha, udinga, okokuqala, ukulinda isikhathi eside kakhulu, futhi, okwesibili, hhayi ukuthi uzokwenziwa.
OFakazi noma abagadi, njengoba bebizwa ngaphambili, badinga umshado kokubili esontweni lama-Orthodox nasontweni lamaKatolika. Nokho, ngokwemithetho yama-Orthodox yemishado, amakholwa kuphela abhapathizwa e-Orthodoxy angabafakazi. Okufanayo kuya, empeleni, umkhwenyana nomakoti. Uma omunye wabo engakholelwa ukuthi uNkulunkulu ukhona noma uzibheka njengomunye ukholo, umpristi unelungelo lokungawubusisi umshado onjalo.
Umshado eSontweni Lama-Orthodox awubanjwe ngesikhathi sokuthunyelwa okuyisine, ngoLwesibili nangoLwesine, ngaphambi kwamaholide amakhulu enkolo, futhi phakathi kukaKhisimusi noKhisimusi. Yiqiniso, kukhona okungafani, kepha akuvamile futhi kudinga imvume ekhethekile.
Omunye umthetho ongabonakali uhlobene nempendulo yombuzo, uyini umshado nokuthi kungani kuyadingeka. Lokhu akuyona umcimbi omnandi. Futhi isakramente lesonto, lapho okuyinhloko umthandazo wesonto. Futhi abashade besikhathi esizayo, abazali babo kanye nezivakashi kufanele bathandaze nompristi, baziphathe ngokufanele, ngaphandle kokuma kwe-case ne-back back kuya ku-iconostasis, ungahambi ngehholo, ungenzi umsindo, ungavumeli ukupenda kwamafoni. Umkhosi uhlala cishe ihora. Futhi isisekelo sayo, singathinta impilo yonke yabashadile.
Qaphela: Kungcono ukudubula ividiyo yomshado esontweni lama-Orthodox nomakhamera owaziwayo owazi ukulandelana komkhosi nokuthi umshado uyenzeka kanjani, ukuze uthole i-movie lapho kuvezwa kahle khona i-movie. Lesi seluleko sisebenza nokukhetha komthwebuli wezithombe, ngoba izimo zokukhanya ethempelini azibandakanyi isithombe esihle kusuka emshadweni. Ngezinye izikhathi i-flash ivunyelwe ukusebenzisa ngenxa ye-hypersensitivity yezimpawu nama-murals.
Yini oyidingayo emshadweni?
Ngakho-ke, ake sicabange ngalokho okuzodingeka emcimbini womshado.
Okokuqala, kufanele uzilungiselele. NjengamaKristu e-Orthodox, kufanele uvume futhi uthathe isidlo. Cishe izinsuku ezintathu ngaphambi kokudla, sebenzisa ukudla okuqinile. Uya kwesakramente ukuya esiswini esingenalutho. Ukuthinta kulokhu kuyinkqubo ebaluleke kakhulu. Ngeke kube yinto engadingekile futhi ngesonto eledlule ukuya kuzo zonke izinsizakalo. Noma kunjalo, umshado awuyona nje ukubhaliswa emshadweni esikhungweni sezwe. Uzinikela omunye komunye phambi kukaNkulunkulu nabantu. Ngakho-ke, kufanelekile ukuya emcimbini futhi silungiselele umshado esontweni kakhulu. Ngakho-ke isakramente ngeke ibe yindlela yomshado.
Ukuze umshado esontweni ngokuvumelana nemithetho ekhona, udinga ukuba nawe:
- izithombe ezimbili - uMsindisi ohlangothini lwabesilisa noMama kaNkulunkulu ngensikazi. Lezi zithombe zidinga ukubusiswa ngesikhathi se-sakramente. Inketho ekahle kungaba uma izithombe ziyifa lakho lomndeni. Ukuntuleka kwalezi zithombe kungathengwa ngokuqondile. Kungaba isithonjana iNkosi EnguMninimandla onke, isithombe seMariya "Kazan" noma "Vladimirskaya". Izithonjana zomshado zilethwe esontweni ngabazali bomakoti noma umkhwenyana. Uma kungesizathu esithile sokungahlali khona emshadweni, bangathathwa nabasha noma abafakazi.
- izindandatho zomshado. Namuhla, ikakhulukazi imikhiqizo yegolide isetshenziswa. Kodwa lokhu akudingekile neze. Into eyinhloko kubo kuwuphawu, hhayi ukubaluleka. Ngokwemithetho emcimbini womshado kufanele kube namasongo ahlukene omkhwenyana nomakoti. Isibonelo, igolide lamadoda nesiliva yabesifazane. Owokuqala ufanekisela ilanga, okwesibili - inyanga. Ngokwezinye izinto ezihlukahlukene, izindandatho zibonisa incazelo yomshado, okushiwo umphostoli uPawulu. Isakramente ibonisa ubunye bukaKristu neBandla. Ngeshwa, esikhathini sethu, imibhangqwana kaningi ayinakekeli imithetho yesonto futhi athenge izindandatho zomshado ezifanayo. Noma kunjalo, uma unquma ukulandela yonke imithetho, qaphela lokhu futhi.
- amakhandlela omshado. Ungazidibanisi ngomshado futhi ungathengi kusengaphambili ezitolo zezwe. Amakhandlela athengwa ethempelini. Ngezinye izikhathi zihlotshisiwe, kodwa ngokuvamile zibukeka ziphansi. Emva kwesakramente, abasha bathatha amakhandlela ekhaya bese begcina impilo yabo yonke.
- ithawula elimhlophe ngesikhatsi semikhosi, balala ngaphansi kwetinyawo temkhatsini wekusasa. Umele umzila omude futhi ujabule umndeni ngesibusiso sikaNkulunkulu. Esigqokeni singase sibe nomdwebo omuhle noma iphethini embossed. Kodwa umhlophe kuphela. Ithawula ligcinwa ekhaya emva komshado. Ithawula akufanele ibe mkhulu kakhulu, kodwa, ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukuthi umakoti nomkhwenyana bangamathelani komunye nomunye, kodwa yimani ngokukhululekile.
- ungakhohlwa ukuthi yimiphi amadokhumenti adingekayo emshadweni esontweni. Thatha, okokuqala, pasports kanye nesitifiketi somshado. Ngezinye izikhathi isitifiketi esivela ehhovisi lokubhalisa sanele uma umcimbi wesonto uqhubeka ngaphambi kokubhaliswa kwabantu.
Yizo zonke izimfanelo okufanele uzinakekele lapho ulungiselela umshado.
Encwadini: isonto alibingeleli izindandatho ezibiza kakhulu futhi eziziqhenya emshadweni. Abanye abapristi bangase banqabe ukungcwelisa imikhiqizo ebonakala sengathi ihloniphekile.
Umkhosi womshado eSontweni Lama-Orthodox
I-Betrothal
Umshado ulandelwa ukukhwabaniswa okwenziwa ekupheleni kwe-Divine Liturgy. Ngaphambilini, lezi zifundo ezimbili zahlukaniswa ngesikhathi. Futhi ukuhlukumezeka kungenziwa ngisho nonyaka ngaphambi komshado. Namuhla, amasakramente amabili abonakala njengezingxenye ezimbili zenye.
Ngaphambi kwalokho, izindandatho zinikezwa inceku yesonto futhi inqubo yombhalo i-altare e-altare. Khona-ke umdikoni uthatha amasongo futhi uwabeka esitokisini esikhethekile. Umpristi uyambusisa umyeni nomakoti izikhathi ezintathu, bezinikezela amakhandlela omshado kakade. Ngokusho kwemithetho yesonto, amakhandlela ayingxenye yenkambiso okokuqala. Okusho ukuthi, ngeke uwudinge umshado wesibili noma wesithathu.
Kule ncwajana: amakhandlela omshado namathawula endala yomshado waseRashiya kufanele agcinwe ngokucophelela emndenini. Ngezinye izikhathi amakhandlela omshado avuliwe ukuze asebenze ngezinhlamba.
Isinyathelo esilandelayo ngumpristi wase-Orthodox oholayo osemncane ethempelini ukuze abulawe. Okokuqala uthatha indandatho yomkhwenyana futhi, enza uphawu lwesiphambano izikhathi ezintathu, uthi: inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama) inikwe inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama). Khona-ke indandatho ifakwa kumunwe womyeni womyeni. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi isiko esinomunwe ongaziwa sihlangene nombono ophuthumayo okhokho bethu abakude mayelana nesakhiwo se-system circulatory system. Esikhathini esidlule, kwakucatshangwa ukuthi kwakuvela kumthambo omkhulu kuya enhliziyweni.
Ngemuva kokuba indandatho igqoke ngomunwe womlingani ozayo, i-turn of the bride is coming. Umkhosi ulandelwa ngokuqondile.
Izintathu kuyinombolo engokomfanekiso esekrament. Cishe zonke izenzo ziphindwe kathathu. Umakoti nomkhwenyana bayashintsha amasongo abo kathathu, beqinisekisa ukulungela kwabo ukuthandana, ukwethembeka nokwethembeka.
Umpristi ukhuluma eNkosini, ecela isibusiso futhi avunyelwe ukuboshwa.
Ngakho, ukuboshwa kwenzeka. Futhi lo mbhangqwana udlula phakathi kwethempeli. Umpristi ophethe isitsha somcengezi uhamba phambi kwabo njalo. Le ndlela ibonisa indlela yokuzinikela lapho abashade besikhathi esizayo okufanele bahambe khona ukugcina imiyalo kaNkulunkulu.
I-Chin yomshado
Le nsizwa iphakamisa ithawula, egoqwe ngqo ngaphansi kwezinyawo zazo, phambi kwe-analo. Leli yithebula le-quadrilateral ngqo phambi kwe-iconostasis, lapho iVangeli, isiphambano kanye nemikhosi kufakwa khona lapho umpristi ekhululekile khona kulo mkhosi. Labo abashada ngaphambi kwebandla lonke noNkulunkulu nabantu baqinisekisa ukuzikhethela kwabo kanye nesifiso esihlanzekile sokushada ngaphandle kwezinhloso ezimbi futhi bakhombise ukuthi abakulolu hlangothi noma abanaso esinye isithembiso. Baphendula imibuzo yompristi ngendlela ye-monosyllabic.
Ingxenye elandelayo yenkambiso ibizwa ngokuthi i-rank of the wedding. Umpristi wenza imithandazo emithathu yendabuko eqondiswe ku-Triune God. Khona-ke uthatha umqhele futhi emva kwesiphambano ubonisa umkhwenyana ukuba amanga isithombe sikaKristu emqhele. Amagama alandelayo athiwa:
"Inceku kaNkulunkulu ikhonywe (igama lemifula) encekwini kaNkulunkulu (igama lemifula) egameni likaYise, neNdodana, noMoya oNgcwele."
Ngokufanayo, umakoti uyabusiswa futhi. Umkhosi womqhele uphela ngala mazwi:
"Nkosi, Nkulunkulu wethu, ubakhonze ngenkazimulo nodumo!"
Bakhulunywa kathathu. Futhi zonke izivakashi kanye nabantu abasha kufanele baphendule lo mthandazo ngabo. Akuzwakala, kodwa ngokuzinikela, ukucela, ukulalela kanye nenjabulo ebaluleke kakhulu. Ngokuvamile, kumelwe ngithi awukwazi ukuba khona emshadweni ngesimo esibi noma ngomona enhliziyweni. Uma ungazizwa kahle, kungcono ukuthi ungalimazi iholide nge-young yakho, emoyeni enhle.
Amakhanda abekwe emakhanda abashadile. Ukuqaphela ukuthi umyeni nomfazi abashadile abahlukile kunkosi nenkosikazi. Khona-ke imiqhele, ngaphandle kokuncipha, ibamba ubufakazi phezu kwamakhanda omakoti nomkhwenyana.
Umpristi ufunda izahluko zeVangeli. Futhi emva kwalokho, kanye nabenzi bokugubha nomkhosi, umthandazo obaluleke kunazo zonke o-Orthodox othi "uBaba wethu" uhlabelela. Ngokungangabazeki, umakoti nomkhwenyana kufanele bazi kahle ngenhliziyo.
Abantu abasha bayavunyelwa ukuphuza iwayini emgqonyeni ovamile. Kusho umphakathi wabo, futhi iwayini kuyinjabulo futhi kumnandi kusuka eholidini. Njengenhloko yomndeni, umyeni wenza izinsipho zokuqala ezintathu.
Ukujoyina izandla zabancane, umpristi uyabasibekela nge-epitrachelion - i-ribbon ende emicongweni yakhe - futhi izikhathi ezintathu zijikeleze phakathi kwethempeli elizungeze i-analog. Umjikelezo wesiyingi unencazelo yawo engokomfanekiso. Lena indlela engapheli lapho indoda nomfazi bayohamba ndawonye ekuphileni.
Umakoti nomkhwenyana babuyela ethempelini, futhi umpristi uyasusa imiqhele kubo. Bese ulandela imithandazo yokugcina namagama abamukelekile. Lezi zithandani zishintsha izinkanuko zokuthobeka. Ekugcineni, abantu abasha baholwa ku-iconostasis, lapho umyeni kufanele afune isithombe soMsindisi, nomfazi - isithombe seMariya. Umkhosi womshado uphela ngokumanga kwesiphambano kanye nokuboniswa kwezithombe ezimbalwa zoMsindisi kanye neNdodana.
Manje abazali nezivakashi bangabahalalisela labo abasanda kushada. Yiqiniso, abazali benza lokhu kuqala. Umkhosi womshado wawuqhutshwa. Izivakashi zakha umzila ekuphumeni kwethempeli labo, lapho umbhangqwana udlula khona, ubambe imifanekiso phambi kwabo.
Wedding eSontweni LamaKatolika
Imikhosi yomshado wamaKatolika ihluke kakhulu kwi-Orthodox. Okokuqala, lo mbhangqwana kumele ufike esontweni futhi umemezele isifiso sabo kungakapheli izinyanga ezintathu ngaphambi komshado, uma kungekho mimoya yomshado ophuthumayo.
Khona-ke kukhona imihlangano engu-10 nompristi, lapho abantu abasha bafundiswa imithandazo futhi bakhulume nabo ngomshado nokuqonda kwawo emqondweni wesonto.
Ngokuvamile kwenzeka, ukuthi emotweni umuntu oyedwa ongumKatolika, futhi owesibili - isonto eliphakeme. ISonto LamaKatolika livumela imishado enjalo. Kodwa i-Orthodox kufanele isenze isithembiso futhi isayine iphepha elithile, elingayikuvimbela imfundo yezingane njengamaKatolika ahloniphekile.
Akukho mkhosi oqinile womshado wamaKatolika. Ukuziphatha kwayo kuxhomeke kakhulu emasikweni epherishi elithile. Ngokuvamile inqubo iqala njengethemishi evamile. Umpristi ufunda izahluko zeBhayibheli futhi unikeze intshumayelo encane, lapho ekhuluma ngokukhululekile kwabasha, yiziphi izibopho zabashadile emndenini.
Okulandelayo, umpristi ubuza imibuzo emithathu ngesifiso samahhala sokungena emshadweni, ukuzimisela ukuthanda umkakhe konke ukuphila kwakhe nokukhulisa izingane, eqondiswa izimfundiso zikaKristu. Ngemuva kwezimpendulo umqondisi wesonto uxhuma izinsikazi zomkhwenyana nomkhwenyana ngebhebhoni. Izindandatho ezincane zokushintshanisa, okufakazwa umkhwenyana kumkhwenyana. "Ubaba Wethu" noMthandazo Wokuncenga Kufundwa. Futhi emva kwamagama athi "Ngikutshela ukuthi ungumyeni nomfazi," umyeni osanda kuzalwa uyamanga umkakhe.
Ukuphawula: emshadweni wamaKatolika, umakoti nomkhwenyana bangakwazi ukufaka izifungo zokuthembeka nothando komunye nomunye, kubhalwe kusengaphambili. Omunye umehluko ophawulekayo emcimbini we-Orthodox - umkhwenyana ulinda e-altare, kanti uyise noma esinye isihlobo noma umngane womndeni uholela kumlobokazi wakhe. Ngokuvamile umakoti uvame ukulandelwa amantombazane amancane anezimbali.
Ngokuqondene nezembatho zomshado, amasonto amaKatolika nama-Orthodox alindele umakoti egqoke izingubo ezinhle, futhi umkhwenyana usetsheni. Nokho, lezi zimo zikhethwa ngokuzithandela. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ukubukeka kwakho kuhlanzekile futhi kuyahambisana nesibopho somzuzu. Ebandleni le-Orthodox, ikhanda lomlobokazi, njenganoma yimuphi omunye wesifazane ethempelini, kufanele lihlanganiswe ngesikhafu noma kwendwangu. Futhi-ke, akufanele sikhohlwe mayelana neziphambano.