Imikhosi yemishado iqoqo lezinkolelo eziye zakhula amakhulu eminyaka. Emshadweni waseSlavic kunezinhlobo eziningi ezivela entshonalanga. Okungenani, uma sikhuluma ngomshado wanamuhla. Isibonelo, emikhosini yethu yomshado, indima yabazali bomakoti nomkhwenyana isabalulekile. Obaba nabomama emishadweni yamadodakazi abo abathandayo namadodana benza imisebenzi ekhethekile, esizoxoxa ngayo.
Imikhuba yabazali bomkhwenyana emshadweni ifana ngezindlela eziningi kumasiko abazali bomakoti. Noma kunjalo, kukhona umehluko. Uma ubheka okwedlule, amasiko wabazali bezinkampani emshadweni aboniswe ngoma ingoma ehlukahlukene kanye namasiko. Ezweni lanamuhla, okuningi kwalokhu kuye kwaba lula noma kuqedwa, kodwa kukhona amasiko ayisisekelo asesenziwa emshadweni.
Ukuhlangana nabantu abasha abanesinkwa nosawoti
Ngakho-ke, yini edingekayo ukuyenza kumama kababa nomkhwenyana emshadweni? Ake siqale ngomunye wemikhuba yomshado ebaluleke kunazo zonke, yiziphi amasiko eziphoqelela ukuba sihloniphe futhi sigcwalise. Lona umkhosi we "isinkwa nosawoti", okufanele umama womkhwenyana enze. Ngemuva kokuba abantu abasha bashadile noma beshadile, baya ekhaya, lapho umama womyeni elindele khona. Lesi siko sisekelwe kulowo mlando odlule, lapho owesifazane osemusha emva komshado waya eyohlala ne-betrothed, futhi emngceleni wahlangana nomamazala wakhe. Wanika umakoti isinkwa nosawoti, okufanekisela injabulo yokuvela ilungu elisha lomndeni, kanye nesifiso sokuphila ngokuthula nokuchuma. Umama womkhwenyana unikeza umakoti isinkwa, esisekhanda elihle elihlekisiwe e-rushnyk. Phezu kwe-caravane kukhona i-saltcellar encane evulekile. Lapho labo abasanda kushada befika endlini, umama noyise womkhwenyana baya emnyango wabo. Umama kufanele abe nesinkwa esandleni sakhe, futhi uyise kufanele agcine isithonjana. Lapho umbhangqwana osemusha uhlangana, umama womyeni ubapha isinkwa, efuna injabulo, ingcebo, ukuchuma kanye nothando. Khona-ke unina nobaba babusise abasha ngaphambi kwesithonjana. Ngemuva kwalokho abazali bawachitha endlini bese bethela ukunambitha isinkwa nosawoti. Umakoti nomkhwenyana baphula isinkwa bese befaka usawoti. Ngendlela, umama womkhwenyana kufanele aqinisekise ukuthi emva kwalokhu, akekho omunye othinta i-caravan. Phela, ngokusho kwenkolelo yokuthi uma umuntu omubi ethinta isinkwa noma esilila kuye, izinkinga zingase zivele emndenini. Ngemuva komshado, umama womkhwenyana uyayigcoba isinkwa e-rushnyk futhi ayithwale esontweni, ayishiye etafuleni lomusa, ukuze umndeni omusha ujabule futhi uhlale uphumelele.
Ngemuva kokuba le nsizwa ilalele isinkwa, umsebenzi wabazali bomyeni ukuwufafaza ngemali yesinhlamvu nokusanhlamvu. Ngendlela, isimiso esifanayo senziwa eduze kwehhovisi lokubhalisa. Kodwa kukhona okungafafaza konke, kodwa ekhaya, kuyifiseleka ukuthi kwenziwe ngokuqondile nguyise nomama wabancane. Iqiniso liwukuthi ngokushona okunjalo, umama nobaba babusisa umbhangqwana osemusha ngokuphila okucebile nokuchuma ekhaya labo elisha.
Futhi, abazali bomkhwenyana bahlanganyela ekuhleleni isikhungo esincane ngemuva kokusebenza kwalezi zinsuku. Emva kwakho konke, ngokuvamile, abasha kanye nezivakashi baya endlini ngaphambi kokuba kuqhutshwe isiphequluli, ngemva kokuhambahamba edolobheni. Ngakho-ke, umama nobaba kufanele balungiselele i-champagne, iziphuzo nokudla okulula, ukuze umakoti nomkhwenyana, kanye nawo wonke umuntu oza nabo, bephumule kancane, baphumule futhi bathole amandla okugubha.
Idili lomshado
Edilini lomshado uqobo, izinkolelo eziningi zenziwa ngumama womakoti. Ngokuqondene nabazali bomyeni, ubaba angathola izingane futhi azibeke etafuleni. Ngokwesiko, amatafula adlula izikhathi ezintathu. Noma kunjalo, lesi siko singenziwa ngubaba kawomakoti. Konke kuncike ekutheni abadlali abalingani futhi abantu abasha bavumelana kanjani. Ngisho nasesimweni somshado, abantu abasha bahlala bedansa nabazali babo. Kodwa, futhi, umdanso kababa womkhwenyana nomakoti uthathwa njengendabuko.
Uma ukhumbula kafushane amaphuzu ezobuchwepheshe osukwini lomshado, abazali bomkhwenyana, kaningi kunalokho, banomthwalo wemoto nokudubula, njengoba abashayeli kanye nomqhubi bezokuqala ukufika endlini yabo. Kuzo zonke ezinye izici, imisebenzi yabazali bomakoti nomkhwenyana mayelana nenxenye yobuchwepheshe ihlukaniswe ngokulinganayo.