Ukuze ube ngowesifazane, akudingekile nakanjani ukuyeka indima yomphakathi okujwayelekile kuwe. Ngisho nokuba ngumholi, ungazizwa ungumuntu omnene nowesifazane. Vumela la madoda azihloniphe wona, ungayeki ukuncoma. Ekuphenduleni isitatimende esithinta abantu, simomotheka futhi sibonga, kodwa hhayi ukumomotheka nokubhizinisi kwezamabhizinisi, kodwa ukuthobeka okuqotho nokuncane. Ungesabi ukuthi abantu bayokuyeka ukukuthatha ngokungathí sina, lokhu ngeke kwenzeke, ngoba uye wazifakazela ukuthi uchwepheshe ongcono kakhulu. Kodwa ngalokho uzobazisa ukuthi eceleni kwabo ungowesifazane. Qinisekisa ngesibindi ukukhwabanisa okungenzeka kanye nezingxoxo zomzimba nje, ungabi isoka lakho. Khona-ke abantu bazokuphatha njengowesifazane, futhi lokhu kuzokunika ithuba lokuzizwa wesifazane.
Vumela ubuthakathaka obuthakathaka obunjalo besifazane - ushokoledi noma amaswidi, amakha amasha nezimonyo. Khetha iphunga elimnandi noma i-lipstick ngobumnene. Sebenzisa imibala emihle ekwenzeni, izokunika ukulungiswa nokuphakama. Indima ebalulekile idlala izinwele zakho. Kumele kwenzeke ukuba kube - ngisho noma usetshenziselwa ukugeza izinwele zakho kahle ehhovisi noma, ngokuphambene, ekhaya, uvele ubophe izinwele zakho. Kudingeka ukushintsha isithombe. Masibe ngekhanda elihamba ngezinyawo noma okungenani wenze i-bunch elegant. Ngokuvamile owesifazane wenza izinwele zabesifazane, ungaphuthelwa ithuba lokuzizwa eqabulekile.
Izingubo nazo zibaluleke kakhulu. Bheka kahle ikhabethe lakho - awunayo yini indoda noma izinto ezilula futhi ezisebenzayo? Ingabe unenani lokugqoka elilodwa okungenani? Kodwa akukhona lowo oye wafaka ehanger unyaka manje, kodwa lowo obembetheyo? Hlanza ikhabethe elimnandi nelinenhlanhla ngezinto ezinengqondo - ake kube khona izindwangu ezindizayo, izigqoko zesifazane, imidwebo ekhanyayo. Gcizelela isithunzi sakho, ngoba awukwazi ukuwabona ngemuva kwesigqoko se-baggy noma i-suit eqinile. Izambatho ezintsha ngeke nje zivele zikhanyise futhi zisebenzise abesifazane, kodwa uzoshintsha ngaphakathi. Izinguquko ezinjalo ziyoba nethonya elizuzayo ekuziboneni kwakho, nangesimo sengqondo kwabanye abantu abakuzungezile.
Ungabi namahloni okuba buthakathaka, akufanele wenze konke ngokwakho. Umqondo wokuthi kule mpilo awukwazi ukuthembela kunoma ubani ukulimaza ngokuyinhloko kuwe. Zinike ithuba lokuphumula emisebenzini engapheli, ake abantu bakwenze okuthile kuwe. Ekugcineni, iqiniso lokuthi ungakwazi ukuhambisa iKhabhinethi ngaphandle kosizo akusho ukuthi kuyadingeka ukwenza kanjalo. Akukaze owesifazane abe nomuzwa owedlula ukwedlula lapho amadoda emsebenzela khona. Uma abantu beyiziphukuphuku noma bekungabikho umkhuba wokunikeza usizo lwabo, kuzodingeka babuze. Ungalawuli, kodwa cela - ngobumnene nangomusa. Lokhu kusebenza nakho kungakusiza kuwe, ngoba owesifazane wangempela akumelwe athathe ukucindezelwa, kodwa ubuthakathaka.
Ukuze uzizwe unesifazane futhi ukhangele, ungabhalisa esikoleni sokudansa. Akukho okuthinta owesifazane kangcono kunalokhu kulandelwa. Ukusimama okuthuthukisiwe, ukuma ngokomzimba, nokubaluleke kakhulu - amehlo avulekile. Ukuhamba kuzoba lula futhi kubushelelezi, kudonsela iso. I-bravest ingahamba ukufunda ukudansa i-striptease.
Yini owesifazane okudingeka abe nomuzwa wesifazane? Ngokuvamile, ukungabi nabesifazane kubangelwa ukungabi namandla abesifazane besifazane. Owesifazane angaba namandla ngokuzimela njengomholi kanye nenhloko yomndeni. Kodwa ahluleke ngokuphelele ezindabeni zobuhlobo. Amandla owesifazane usebuthakathaka bakhe, futhi ungakhohlwa ngakho, ngoba kwakukhona indoda enamandla eduze kwayo ngakho ngezinye izikhathi udinga ukuba ube ngowesifazane obuthakathaka.