Namuhla, amaqembu ekhaya ayenziwa kakhulu. Futhi zikhona izizathu zalokhu. Endlini ungakwazi ukuhlela konke njengoba uthanda, njengoba umndeni wakho noma abangane bathanda. Futhi, labo kuphela ofuna ukuwabona bazofika kuwe, ngeke kube khona labo abangakujabulisi kuwe. Uma ufuna ukubamba iqembu ekhaya, ke unake ezinye izincomo.
Ungalungiselela kanjani iqembu lomndeni wakho noma abangane?
Ukuze ubambe iphala ekhaya, udinga ukucabanga ngakho konke kusengaphambili. Kubalulekile kuqala ukuthola ukuthi ufuna ukuphatha izivakashi, kuphi ukuzijabulisa. Futhi, udinga ukwazi kusengaphambili ukuthi ubani ohlala ubusuku bonke nokuthi uzobekaphi umuntu. Futhi kusengaphambili kuyadingeka ukukhetha indawo yokubhema, ukuze kamuva kubekho izinkinga.
Elinye lamaphuzu abalulekile ekulungiseleleni iqembu yikukhethwa kwezitsha. Kuxhomeke ekunambeni kwakho. Kubalulekile ukucabangela ukuthi iziphi iziphuzo ezizosetshenziswa. Into eyinhloko ukudla ukudla nokuphuza ngegcawu ukuze uzizwe uqiniseka.
Enye indlela yokuhlela iqembu ukukhanya okulungile. Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi okuningi kuxhomeke endleleni inkampani efisa ukuyijabulisa ngayo. Isibonelo, ukukhanya okukhulu kuphelele uma udlala "mafia" noma "poker". Uma kwenzeka ukhetha ukunikeza ubusuku bokudansa komculo, khona-ke ekukhanyeni ekamelweni kungcono (ukukhanya ebusuku, amakhandlela). Kulesi simo, kuzodalwa umkhathi ojabulisayo ekamelweni, okuhlinzekela ukudansa.
Iseluleko esihle - qaphela ithoni yendwangu yetafula yetafula. Ngomshado, indwangu yetafula emhlophe iphelele; U-Eva Wonyaka Omusha - omhlophe nohlaza; ngoba i-tablecloths yenkampani yenkampani yentsha iyahambisana: pink, violet, isaladi. Ngezikhathi ezibucayi ikakhulukazi, izindwangu zokubhebha ezibomvu ezihlanganiswe ne-shades zegolide zifanelekile.
Ungabamba kanjani iqembu lasekhaya
Ukuze ubambe iqembu elizokhunjulwa isikhathi eside, kubalulekile ukunakekela imincintiswano nokuzijabulisa kusengaphambili. Ngenqubo yokulungiselela iqembu, kubalulekile ukucabangela okuthandayo kanye nokuthanda kwabo bonke abazoba khona, ngakho-ke akekho ozwa njenge "izimvu ezimnyama". Lokhu kusebenza ekuzijabuliseni nasezintweni zokuthandwa kwamakholishi.
Uma iqembu lizokwenzeka kunoma yiliphi iholide (Unyaka Omusha, i-Easter, ukuphothula iziqu, njll.), Khona-ke isimo sesibambiso sazo kufanele sihlobene nalokhu noma lowo mcimbi. Ipholile kakhulu, lapho iqembu lulungiselela umsingisi owodwa noma umnakekeli, kodwa abanye bamenyiwe. Kulokhu, ungacabanga ngemincintiswano eminingi. Kuhle, uma uzuza imiklomelo yemincintiswano.
Esikhathini sethu, imikhuba yaseMelika neyaseYurophu yamaqembu iqala "ukugxila". Ikakhulukazi liphathelene nezinkampani zentsha. Kulesi simo, bambalwa abantu abanelisekile ngemikhosi emikhulu. I-popular tradition yayiyi-tradition, lapho ithebula likhonza khona: ukusika, i-pizza, ama-canapes ezinhlobonhlobo, imifino, izithelo, izilwane zasolwandle. Lezo zokudla ezingapheka ngokushesha. Lokhu akungabazeki ukuthi kulula futhi ayilethi umnikazi inkathazo. Le nguqulo yeqembu ekhaya ihambelana nabantu abasha. Uma indlu inabantu abaningi, khona-ke ukudla okulula nokuphuza kungafakwa etafuleni elincane ukuze ungathathi indawo enkulu. Kulesi simo, izivakashi ezimenywe ziza etafuleni, zibeke ukudla ezitsha futhi zitholakala lapho zikhululekile khona. Wonke umuntu uzizwa ekhululekile futhi ekhululekile.
Ungabamba futhi amaqembu "athandwayo". Isibonelo, "i-stylistic", i-pirate, i-gangster, amaqembu ase-Italy, ibhola leNew New Year in clothing, njll Ukugcina iqembu lithandeka, udinga nje ukuveza ingqondo yakho. Kodwa ngeqembu elihle, ungakhohlwa ukufunda okunye mayelana namaqhawe nesikhathi sendaba oyikhethile.
Iqembu ekhaya lixhomeke ngokuphelele ukuthi ngabe ulilungele kahle yini. Izivakashi nezivakashi zizoneliseka futhi zizokhumbula isikhathi eside kusihlwa, uma konke kucatshangelwa kahle kusengaphambili. Into ebaluleke kunazo zonke ukuza nemincintiswano nemidlalo ezithakazelisayo, ukudala isimo esimnandi, ukuhlela umculo omuhle, nokumema inkampani emnandi kusihlwa.