Ukuvuselelwa kwezinzwa.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyadabukisa kanjani, kodwa iningi lamabhangqwana ashadile enenkinga enjalo emshadweni, njengokwanda kothando, ubhekana kaningi. Ngokwezinga elikhulu lokhu kubangelwa ukunyamalala kwesifiso kanye nemizwa kanye nezifiso zangaphambili. Uma usuqashile, qalisa isikhathi esincane kakhulu sokuzinikela ocansini futhi ungase uqale ukucasula omunye nomunye. Kulesi simo, kufanele uvuselele izinzwa zakho. Kunemithetho eminingana ongathola ngayo ama-horizons amasha ebuhlotsheni nokuvuselela imizwa uma uyeka ukuthanda oshade naye.
Ngakho, ukuhlanza kwentwasahlobo nokuvakashela abazali kumele kuhlehliswe isikhathi esihle kakhulu. Phela, zonke lezi zinto eziphuthumayo azizona eziphuthumayo kangaka. Ngemuva kokuphila nokukhathazeka, sivame ukukhohlwa ukuthi simncane, sihle futhi sithandana! Phela, kwakunezikhathi lapho ungenakuqhekeza ngaphandle komunye emsebenzini noma ugijimela ekamelweni lesidlo sasemini ukuze ujabulele omunye nomunye. Kungani manje singabuyiseli imizwa uma eyeka uthando futhi ezama ukugcina umshado ngandlela-thile? Yehlisa yonke imicabango engafanele eceleni futhi uqale ukwenza, uvuselele imizwa yakhe amaphesenti angamakhulu.
Imidlalo yama-Adult.
Ngingayithola kanjani uma ngingaphumi ngothando, uma ngibanda? Indlela yokubuyisela umuzwa wangaphambili wokuthi uyathandwa. Okokuqala, kuyasiza "ukukhumbula" ngalokhu, yebo, ubulili. Futhi hhayi nje ubulili kuphela, kodwa ubusuku obuthandekayo obungenakulibaleka nothando (futhi akekho). Akudingekile, uma ufika ekhaya ukuphupha ngokulala ngesikhathi esisodwa, khumbula ukuthi ubulili bubaluleke kakhulu empilweni yomndeni futhi uma oshade naye enelisekile ngokuphila okusondelene naye, ngakho-ke kwezinye izinto kuzoba kuhle futhi ngeke ukwazi ukuyeka ukumthanda. Ngakho-ke uhlehlise yonke ibhizinisi futhi ngempelasonto elandelayo vala ifoni yakho yeselula. Futhi ifoni yakho ozithandayo futhi. Futhi ungakhohlwa ngocingo lwasekhaya. Mane nje ucabange ukuthi wena, kanye nabathembekile bakho, waphonswa esiqhingini esingahlali khona, lapho kungekho omunye ngaphandle kwakho. Kodwa ngaphambi kokwenza lokhu, unakekele "ukudla okungokomoya". Kungcono ukukwenza kanye nomlingani wakho. Ngokubambisana, khetha ama-movie ama-erotic. Ama-linens embhedeni we-silk, amakhandlela anamehlo nama-disc angama-multiple melodic melody. Ungakhohlwa mayelana nezembatho zangaphansi ezintsha. Ngendlela, ukubuka esitolo socansi nakho kuwumqondo omuhle, okuzokwenza umehluko wokuphila kwakho kocansi. Futhi ekugcineni, kufihla i jeans yakho yasekhaya oyithandayo. Indwangu yokugqoka isilikhi e-Frivolous noma i-"nude" egcwele - yizembatho zakho zasekhaya kule mpelasonto. Futhi konke kunjengoba kuhlelwe, kuhlala nje kuphela ukuhlanganisa ukucabanga futhi ukusebenzisa zonke "izinkampani" ezigcinwe kusengaphambili. Ngikholelwa, uma oshade naye ehlulekile othandweni, lokhu ngokuqinisekile kuzosiza ukuphinda umise imizwa yangaphambili kanye nesifiso kuye.
Siyajabula ngenjabulo encane.
Ukuze uvuselele futhi uvuselele imizwa, shayela oshade naye. Ngokuvamile abameleli bobulili obuhle bayathandwa ukuthatha zonke izinkinga zokuphila enhloko yomyeni wabo futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo bakhohlwe ngokuphelele ngesisa, ukufudumala nokuthandwa. Khumbula lapho ugcine ukumbamba ngesidlo sothando ngekhandlela noma ukuhamba enyangeni yenyanga. Khumbula ukuthi labo abangakhohlwa ukubonisa isisa, bahlale bebathanda futhi befisa. Futhi isigaba esiseduze asisoze sabona. Ufuna ukubuyisa uthando lwakhe? Sicela! Hamba ukuhamba, kodwa hhayi phakathi noma ezitolo, kodwa kwenye ipaki. Thola indawo eyincithakalo, uhlale esitokisini esithathwe endlini, uphonsa ibhodlela le-champagne ngqo entanyeni, udle izithelo, ubambe kuze kube yilapho ubona khona. Khumbula ukuthi uyiqale kanjani ngokuphindaphindiwe, uzicabange ngemizwa yakho. Ngikholelwa ukuthi, ngokuqinisekile, uyokwenza, ujabulele isikhathi esichitha futhi ukhumbule ukuthi unjani nawe ngokufanayo.
Shiya zonke izinkinga zakho ngemuva kwezindonga zendlu.
Ungalokothi uwele ngaphezu kombundu wendlu yakho, uphathe inkinga eyenzeka emsebenzini. Shiya konke okungalungile ngemuva kombundu. Yebo, futhi ushiye esikhathini "sokuvuselela imizwa" ngokuthatha umsebenzi endlini (uma, wena-ke, wawujwayele ukuyiqhuba). Zizinikele kumyeni wakho, ubuke ifilimu ethakazelisayo naye, funda ndawonye incwadi ethakazelisayo. Noma yenza nje umsebenzi wesikole ovamile. Ngokuqinisekile kuzolungisa futhi kusize ukuba usondelane, uma uzizwa ukhululekile.
Ukwazi ukwenza izinkumanga ezidingekayo.
Uma uhlela i-candlelight dinner engenakulibaleka kusihlwa, qiniseka ukuthi uyazibuza umkakho ngakho. Kholelwa ukuthi ngokulindela ukumangala okulindelekile ngokuqinisekile uyoyivuselela futhi lokhu kuzokusiza ukuba usebenzise ubusuku obuphumelelayo. Ungesabi ukuba uhlukile, ikakhulukazi ngokuphathelene nobulili. Ngempela, amadoda afana nalawa "libertines" ngokwayo, kungani ungazami lesi sithombe kuwe. Ngakho uma oshade naye, njengoba ucabanga, uvele othandweni, ngaphambi kokumangalisa kwakho, ngokuqinisekile ngeke akwazi ukuma.
Okungadingeki ukwenze uma engathandani.
Ungaphinda uphazamise umngane wakho womshado, umenze abe intombi yakho. Ungamtsheli ukuthi yiyiphi i-mascara entsha evele esitolo, ukuthi ungeze amakhilogremu angaphezulu, nentombi yakho uSvetka iphinda yahlukana nesoka layo. Indoda kumele ihlale iwina futhi ithambekele, futhi ingayithathi izihloko ezingadingekile. Futhi izinkinga zabesifazane zixosha amadoda futhi lokhu kufanele kukhunjulwe ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Kwakungakanani ...
Ukuze uphinde uthandane nomlingani wakho, xhuma umzwelo wakho. Isibonelo, hlangana nendlu yakhe ngeplasini elilodwa. Konke lokhu okuncane, ekuboneni kokuqala, imininingwane kusiza ukubuyisela isifiso sangaphambili. Ukuvuselela imizwa kungasiza kanye nezinkumbulo ezidlule. Uma uzizwa ukhululekile, ubheke izithombe ezindala naye, khumbula izikhathi ezimnandi. Konke lokhu kuzokuphakamisa futhi kukusize uqonde ukuthi imizwa yakho endala ayizange iphelile. Ngenxa yezinkumbulo ezinjalo, ungathanda futhi.