Kuthiwa: "Cela, futhi uzonikezwa." Futhi yini engingayenza uma ngicela, kodwa anganikezwa, ngoba ngamukele ukwenqaba, yikuphi okumele ukhethe ukusabela kwenkathazo?
Zingaki izincomo eziwusizo zamuva ezibhaliwe esihlokweni: "Indlela yokufunda ukusho" cha "! Empeleni, kwabaningi, le nkinga iphuthumayo kakhulu: ngubani ofuna ukuzizwa engenenkathazo futhi elula, evumela bonke ukuba basebenzise ubuthakathaka babo? Kodwa kukhona enye inkinga ehlotshaniswa naloli gama lemilingo. Akunakunqotshwa , noma kunjalo, akubalulekile nakancane. Futhi kanjani, empeleni, ufunde ukuzwa "cha"? Yini okufanele ngiyenze uma ngithola ukwenqaba, yiliphi uhlobo lokuphendula enkingeni? Emva kwakho konke, akusi njalo kwenzeka njengoba singathanda. Ngokuvamile akuphambene nalokhu: wena usekwamukela - futhi utshelwe ukuba "uze kusasa", kubiza umngane ngesicelo sokusiza - futhi uthi "Ngiyaxolisa, angikwazi", wenza insizwa engathandeki kumuntu omuhle - futhi unikeza "ukuhlala ubungane" ... ukukhetha ukusabela enkingeni? Ngemuva kwalokho, uma wonke amamukeli enqatshelwe, owokukhetha ukusabela enkingeni, ukuthi ungabona kanjani ukuthi uyingozi, uhlose ukukuqeda wena, ungajabuli? Phela, i-neurosis engathà sina ayikwazi ukuthola isikhathi eside.
Leli gama elibi ... Okokuqala sizoqonda: kuphi, eqinisweni, yiziphi izinhlupheko ezinkulu nolwazi oluthathwa? Yini evimbela ukusabela ekwenzeni ukuyeka, ukhohlwe futhi ngomphefumulo ozolile ukucabangela ezinye izinketho? Okokuqala, ukwamukela ukwenqaba kubonakala sengathi kuyingozi ngqo endaweni enothando kakhulu - ngokuzethemba. Esikhathini esilula kunazo zonke izingane, uma umama enqaba ukuthenga idoli elikhulumayo, akukhona nje ukungabi namathoyizi angakunaki (onesithakazelo esifanayo, ungadlala ngokuthula), kodwa lowo mama akakuthandi ngokwanele ukufeza isifiso sakho! Imali kuye-ke iyabiza futhi ibaluleke kakhulu? Okwesibili, umphumela owaziwayo wobuhle besithelo esivinjelwe usebenza.
Yini ongayitholi ngokushesha iba yikhiqiza kakhulu. Ngemuva kwalokho konke, leyo voucher, okwathi ngomzuzu wokugcina abaphathi abethuthelwa kwesinye isisebenzi, ngokuqinisekile kwakukhona kwenye ipharadesi! Futhi insizwa eyayingafuni ukuhlangana nawe, khumbula okuningi kakhulu kunalokho okufezekisa konke okwenziwe ngakho. Okwesithathu, sesivele 'siqeqeshwe' iqiniso lokuthi imvume ibuthakathaka, futhi ukwenqaba yilapho labo abasiphikayo bebonakala bephakeme futhi baphumelela. Futhi thina ngokwethu sinendima yabaceli abangenabungozi - ababuthakathaka nabangelutho. Awazi, uma uthola ukwenqaba, yiliphi uhlobo lokuphendula enkingeni? Ngifuna ukuthululela izinyembezi ezibuhlungu zokuthukuthela, noma ukuphinda ngiphinde ngiphinde ngiyeke omunye umuntu ...
Cha, akekho uvivinyo ! Ngakho-ke, akuyona into yokwenqaba okwesabekayo, kepha kubaluleke kangakanani futhi kuyingozi kangakanani emehlweni ethu. Ukuqaphela lokhu, ungakwazi ukwakha ukusabela okulula okuzivikela. Esimweni sokuqala: ukuze ungahlukunyezwa yimicabango yokuziphendulela ngokuqondile kuwe, kwanele ukuqonda ukuthi isizathu sokwenqaba akusikho konke okubi noma akubalulekile ngokwanele. Lowo ongazange akwenze okuthile kuwe, waqala, ekuqaleni, ezithakazelweni zakho siqu. Njengoba, ngokuyisisekelo, kanye nabantu abaningi. Futhi lokhu kuyimvelo. Ngakho kungokwemvelo ukuthi kwakubaluleke kakhulu kumngane ukuvakashela i-dochkin matinee kunokukusiza ukhethe i-microwave. Futhi uma esenesikhathi samahhala, ngokuqinisekile wayezovuma. Esikhathini sesibili: kusukela ekufakweni kwe-hypnotizing "inhlanzi enkulu kunazo zonke - ewela phansi i-hook" ingaqedwa ngokuqeda ngokukhululekile le nhlanzi encane ngamathambo. Okusho ukuthi, ukuhlaziya zonke izinkinga zezinto. Uthando lwakho lokuqala olunenkinga yakho kuze kube phakade ngenxa yokuthi usho ukuthi "awunambitha"? Mvakashele manje, eminyakeni eminingi kamuva. Qinisekisa ukuthi kakade u-bald, umkakhe uyayibona, futhi kusukela ezincibilikisweni ngisho nezimbali ziyabuna ezimbizeni. Futhi ungavumeli lokho okungagcwaliseki! Okwesithathu: ungakholelwa umphumela optical, okwandisa ukulahlwa emehlweni akho. Cabanga: ngubani omunye othanda ukuphazamisa, ukuvimbela futhi kuzo zonke izindlela "engavumeli ukuhamba", njengamakhophi amancane, angeke abizwe ngokuthi anamandla onke futhi aphumelele?
Ngokushesha nasominu nabesh ... Uyakhumbula ukufakwa okuchazwe endabeni eyaziwa ngokuthi "Fox and Grape"? Lena enye yezindlela ezivame kakhulu zokuzivikela kwengqondo. Kuyinto elula futhi eqondile: "Uzocabanga, kwakungeyona efiselekayo kakhulu! Bayenqaba - ngoba bona ngokwabo bangabantu ababi, ama-radishes, ngegama! "Futhi kumelwe ngithi uma uthola ukwenqaba, futhi, akuyona yonke into, kodwa ezimweni eziningi le ndlela isebenza ngempela. Okokuqala, lapho ngempela akufanele ukuphazamise imizwa yakho kusukela ekuqaleni. Awuzange uphendule kwesicelo sakho esitolo - zimbi nakakhulu, uzosebenzisa imali kumncintiswaneni wazo! Awuthathi iphrojekthi yakho yamathalenta - futhi kulungile, ukuyithengisela kwenye ikhasimende, futhi kubiza kakhulu. Ukuzijabulisa kuyindlela enhle yokusabela ekunqatsheni. Kodwa ungaliphuli induku: ukuphikisa okunobuthi kungabhubhisa ubuhlobo.